You've been told to "fake it till you make it." But what if performing confidence is actually keeping you stuck?

In this episode, we're breaking down:

• Why "fake it till you make it" doesn't build real confidence

• The difference between performed confidence and embodied confidence

• How to build unshakable confidence through aligned action (not affirmations alone)

Real confidence isn't about how you appear on the outside. It's about what you KNOW on the inside.

Let's build it.

Links:

→ Free Glow Up Blueprint

→ Designing Her Membership

​ IG: @liveinyourdesign.co

Site: www.LiveInYourDesign.com

EP [17] — Becoming the Woman Who Receives More (Self-Worth & Expansion)

Description (show notes):

• Today’s takeaway:

• Receiving more starts with identity, self-worth, and emotional capacity

• You do not have to overwork, overgive, or struggle to deserve good things

• Links:

→ Free Glow Up Blueprint

→ Designing Her Membership

• IG: @liveinyourdesign.co

• Site: www.LiveInYourDesign.com

EP 16 — Identity Shift: Start Showing Up As Her Now

Today’s takeaway:

• ​ You don’t become her first — you become her by how you show up daily
• ​ Confidence is built through action, not waiting until you feel ready

• ​ Links:

Free Glow Up Blueprint → Click Here

Programs → Designing Her - Join The Membership

• ​ IG: @liveinyourdesign.co
• ​ Site: www.LiveInYourDesign.com

Today’s takeaway:

• Being that girl starts with identity — not routines or perfection

• Self-trust is built through consistency, not starting over

• Links:

Free Glow Up Blueprint → https://www.liveinyourdesign.com/confidence-kit-landing-page

Designing Her Membership - https://www.liveinyourdesign.com/sales-page-copy

• IG: @liveinyourdesign.co

• Site: www.LiveInYourDesign.com

• Today’s takeaway:

• You don’t need confidence to start — you build it by trying

• Self-trust is created through action, not overthinking

• Links:

Free guide → https://www.liveinyourdesign.com/confidence-kit-landing-page

Programs → Designing Her - https://www.liveinyourdesign.com/sales-page-copy

• IG: @liveinyourdesign.co

• Site: www.LiveInYourDesign.com

Title: EP [13] — Getting 1% Better Each Day (Consistency Over Perfection)

Description (show notes):

You don’t need to change everything to change your life.

In this episode, we’re shifting away from all-or-nothing thinking and focusing on what actually builds confidence and momentum: getting 1% better each day.

Because the truth is — most people don’t struggle with discipline. They struggle with trying to do too much at once, burning out, and starting over.

This conversation will help you simplify your focus, build consistency, and finally break the cycle of stopping and restarting.

• Today’s takeaway:

• Small, consistent actions build real confidence — not perfection or doing everything at once.

• You don’t need to start over when you fall off — you just need to continue with one small step.

• Links:

Free Glow-Up Blueprint → https://www.liveinyourdesign.com/confidence-kit-landing-page

Programs → Designing Her - https://www.liveinyourdesign.com/sales-page-copy

• IG: @liveinyourdesign.co

• Site: www.LiveInYourDesign.com

Title: EP [12] — The Power of Deciding (Identity, Self-Trust & Momentum)

Description (show notes):

Most people don’t struggle because they don’t know what to do.

They struggle because they haven’t decided.

In this episode, we’re talking about the quiet but powerful shift that happens when you stop hoping, trying, and waiting… and start deciding.

Because identity doesn’t change when things are perfect.

It changes the moment you decide who you are, what you’re done with, and what you’re no longer available for.

This conversation will help you move with more clarity, build self-trust, and stop negotiating with versions of yourself you’ve already outgrown.

• Today’s takeaway:

• Your life doesn’t change when you feel ready — it changes when you decide and reinforce it consistently.

• Self-trust is built through following through on your decisions, not waiting for motivation or perfection.

• Links:

Programs → Designing Her - https://www.liveinyourdesign.com/sales-page-copy

• IG: @liveinyourdesign.co

• Site: www.LiveInYourDesign.com

We often talk about self-love as routines, affirmations, and glow ups.

But one of the most important versions of self-love is learning how to make peace with the woman you used to be.

In this episode, we talk about what it looks like to stop judging your past with the awareness you have now — and instead approach it with compassion, understanding, and growth.

Because the truth is: you only knew what you knew at the time.

And sometimes real self-love begins when you stop punishing yourself for learning.

• Today’s takeaway:

• Growth can make past versions of you feel uncomfortable — but that doesn’t mean you should reject them.

• Self-love is accountability without self-abandonment. You can move differently today without hating who you were before.

• Links:

Programs → Designing Her - https://www.liveinyourdesign.com/sales-page-copy

• IG: @liveinyourdesign.co

• Site: www.LiveInYourDesign.com

Self-love isn’t bubble baths and aesthetic routines.

It’s consistency. It’s self-trust. It’s showing up — especially when it’s quiet and inconvenient.

In this episode, we’re unpacking what self-love actually looks like in real life. Not perfection. Not starting over. Not doing more. Just building foundations you can stand on.

If you’ve been feeling a little off…

If you’re tired of restarting every time things slip…

If you’re ready to grow without burning yourself out…

This one is for you.

Today’s Takeaways:

• Self-love is a practice — not a feeling.

• Consistency builds self-trust.

• Starting over often comes from pressure, not discipline.

• Foundations matter more than perfection.

• You don’t need a fresh start — you need a steady one.

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Site: www.LiveInYourDesign.com

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If this episode resonated, share it with a friend or tag us on Instagram. Growth doesn’t have to be loud — but it does have to be intentional.

January has a way of making everything feel urgent.

New goals. New routines. New pressure to get it right.

In this episode, I’m talking about why perfection is usually the reason we keep starting over — and why focusing on foundations and systems is what actually creates consistency.

This conversation is for the woman who’s tired of restarting, tired of feeling behind, and ready to build habits and self-trust that actually last.

Because growth doesn’t need to be dramatic — it needs to be supported.

Today’s takeaway:

• ​ Why chasing perfection keeps you stuck in restart mode
• ​ How building simple systems creates consistency and self-trust

Links:

Program → Designing Her™ https://www.liveinyourdesign.com/sales-page-copy

IG: @liveinyourdesign.co

Site: www.LiveInYourDesign.com