This exclusive Patreon video episode gets into the real, real of what it means to build (and keep building) a long-term relationship. Beautifulll shares what it’s like to be in her longest relationship ever, and Ace reflects on lessons from two 8-year loves. The talk growth, communication, triggers, and how to stay soft when life (and your ex) tried to harden you.

In this episode:

Posting your partner for the first time 😳

Creating a soft space when past relationships made you hard

Why we don’t go to bed angry (and what our friends do instead 👀)

Living out loud and letting the whole world know who you love

Keeping things fresh 3 years in: date nights, packing help, and podcasting

 How Boystown has changed and why we’re dreaming up a Girls Town

This one’s for the lovers, the healers, and the homies preparing for their person.

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