Sometimes, people are realistic about the other person but not realistic about themselves and their own faults. It’s not uncommon for me to see a list a mile long of what s/he wants in a future mate. Sometimes, s/he doesn’t have many of those qualities in him or herself. S/he is looking for someone out of her league. It’s actually the primary reason I had you make that list early on. Getting real with yourself is the most important element of pre-dating. It’s nice to have a long list of what you are looking for, but are you the complement of that person that you are looking for? I mean, simply, can you maintain a relationship with the person you are looking for? Can you be the other half of that relationship? I am not talking about can you “go out” with that person, but can you be married to that person? These are questions that you need to ask yourself.
Are you in a relationship, looking to get into a relationship or wondering why you can’t find that special someone? It’s a fascinating blend of modern psychology and ancient Jewish wisdom. You will learn practical tips to getting into and maintaining your relationship. It’s fun, inspiring and a TAD bit controversial.