Ever feel stuck dating men who seem great on paper but go nowhere in real life? In this Love U Podcast episode, I sit down with Matchmaker Maria, author and dating expert, to break down why chemistry alone won’t get you the relationship you deserve. We share how to identify whether a guy is truly a long-term match—and introduce a 3-part test you can use after every first date: Comfort, Fun, and Attraction. Learn how to avoid time-wasting second dates, trust your instincts, and date with confidence.

If you’re ready to stop settling and start selecting, this candid conversation is a must-listen.

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Tired of dating apps, dead-end conversations, and feeling like you’re doing all the work? In this episode, I share how my perspective on matchmaking has changed and why it might be the right next step for you. Matchmaking has evolved into an ethical, collaborative, full-service industry that supports smart, successful women who are short on time but serious about love. You’ll learn how top matchmakers combine personalized searches with emotional insight and coaching to help you meet high-quality men without the stress.

Curious about what matchmaking can do for you? Tune in and find out.

What if your view of love is being shaped by the wrong people? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I dive into the hidden influence of your social circle and why surrounding yourself with cynical singles or unhappily married couples could be sabotaging your outlook on love. You’ll hear real stories, hard truths, and a powerful case for expanding your perspective by connecting with people who actually believe in happy, healthy relationships. If you’re feeling discouraged or stuck in negative dating patterns, this episode is your reminder that the relationship you deserve does exist — and it starts with who you choose to listen to. Tune in and discover how to build a better belief system about love.

Ever feel like you’re working harder on your relationship than your partner is? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I challenge the belief that relationships should be hard work. You’ll learn why trying to fix a fundamentally broken partnership may be doing more harm than good—and why acceptance matters more than endless effort. I’ll share powerful insights from clients, therapists, and real-world examples that prove you don’t need to change your man—you just need to choose better. If you’ve been holding on to a relationship out of fear or habit, this episode will give you the clarity (and permission) to finally let go.

Ever wonder if it’s too late to find love after 50—or after wasting years in the wrong relationship? In this episode, I sit down with Bernadette, a longtime Love U graduate who ended a 20-year partnership, pushed through 91 first dates, and finally found the relationship that feels easy, grounded, and real. We talk about what held her back, how she stopped over-functioning, and why dating after 50 doesn’t have to feel hopeless. Her story is proof that it’s never too late to start over—and that the right man shows up when you stop trying to fix the wrong ones. If you’re tired of settling and ready to believe in love again, you’ll want to listen.

Can you really find love when your dating pool feels more like a puddle? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I coach Rhea, a smart, self-aware single mom navigating the unique challenges of dating in a rural town—where options are limited, distance is a dealbreaker, and small-town gossip adds pressure. Together, we explore how to reframe her mindset, set healthy boundaries, and date with intention—even when the odds feel stacked. You’ll learn why slow love is smart love, how to avoid getting stuck in long-distance limbo, and what it really means to take control of your romantic future. If you’ve ever felt like love isn’t local, this one’s for you.

Are you unknowingly sabotaging your chances on first dates? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down five simple but powerful ways to be a great date—and why making a man feel good around you is the key to making him crave more. You’ll learn how curiosity, warmth, and subtle signals can turn an average night out into something memorable (for both of you). If you’re ready to stop overthinking and start showing up with confidence, connection, and clarity, this episode is your new dating playbook.

What does it really mean to feel connected—to yourself, to others, to your work, and to something greater?

In this special episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with psychologist and TED speaker Dr. Adam Dorsay to explore the science and soul of connection. We talk about friendship, loneliness, the commodification of modern dating, and the essential qualities that make romantic partnerships thrive. If you’ve ever felt like something’s missing—even if your life looks great on paper—this deep, heartfelt conversation will show you how to reconnect with what matters most.

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Beyond his private practice, Adam is a resiliency expert who co-created an international program for Facebook’s Online Safety employees for several years. He now serves as the resiliency consultant to DigitalOcean and provides keynotes and trainings to multiple organizations, including Microsoft, Linkedin, and the California Psychological Association.

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In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I reveal the #1 secret to connecting before you ever meet in person—and why skipping this step leads to flakiness, frustration, and dead-end dates. You’ll learn my proven 2-2-2 screening method that helps you weed out the wrong guys early, spark meaningful conversation, and make smarter dating decisions without wasting time. Discover how a few small shifts in your texting and communication habits can lead to better first dates and stronger long-term potential. If you’re done with dating app burnout and ready to take control of your love life, this episode is your roadmap. Tune in now.

Ever wonder why the men you’re most drawn to are the least emotionally available? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I coach Christy, a smart, successful woman who’s ready to stop chasing chemistry and start choosing connection. We dive into how unresolved patterns from your past can pull you toward the wrong men—and why being “chosen” isn’t the same as choosing the right partner. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of situationships, this episode will give you the clarity, compassion, and next steps to date with intention.

Tune in and learn how to become the CEO of your love life—starting now.