In this powerful bonus episode from the Grace for the First Lady series, we dive into one of the most complex and often unspoken realities of ministry life.
What does it really mean to serve in a space where you’re not just a sheep… but you’re also not the Shepherd?
As a First Lady, you carry influence without full authority, responsibility without the title of pastor, and a unique perspective that many people don’t fully understand. In this episode, we unpack the tension of that in-between space — and how to navigate it with clarity, confidence, and grace.
We also explore the deeper question many First Ladies quietly wrestle with:
Why does respect sometimes feel tied to title?
From identity and positioning to honor, church culture, and the pressure of needing validation through titles, this conversation brings truth, healing, and perspective to a role that is often misunderstood.
If you’ve ever felt overlooked, caught in the middle, or unsure of where you truly fit — this episode is for you.
You are not misplaced.
You are positioned.
And your purpose does not need a title to be valid