Plot twist… your girl is in a relationship.

But before you spiral or start comparing—this episode is a deep exhale, not a highlight reel.

In today’s letter, I’m opening up about stepping into a relationship while staying grounded in everything God taught me in singleness. This is not a “I figured it out” moment—it’s a “I’m learning in a new way” moment.

To my single girls: you are not behind, forgotten, or doing anything wrong. This space is still for you, and always will be.

We’re growing through every season over here—and this is just the next chapter.

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February is loud about love…
but quiet about the condition of our hearts.

So before we talk about dating, relationships, or “what’s next”, we’re starting here:

How’s your heart…really?

Not the “I’m fine.”
Not the filtered version.
The honest one.

This episode is your permission to slow down, check in, and be real about what you’ve been carrying.

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Sometimes the most powerful shifts don’t come from advice — they come from the right questions. In this episode, Katie reflects on dating, faith, and relationships through a series of honest prompts that challenge how we love, wait, and discern. This conversation is for the woman who wants to date with intention, wisdom, and a soft heart toward God.

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In this episode of The Lover Girl Letters podcast, Katie answers listener questions based off prompts from Instagram. 

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This episode is for the women who learned early how to be agreeable, dependable, and self-sacrificing — and are now wondering why they feel so tired. I’m sharing my personal journey with good girl syndrome, how it’s shown up in my faith and dating life, and why I’m choosing honesty over image moving forward.
 If you’ve ever felt like your goodness came at the cost of your voice, this conversation is for you.

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Christmas reminds us that God is near — even when life doesn’t look the way we imagined it would by now. In this holiday episode, Katie reflects on singleness during the Christmas season, learning to hold joy and longing at the same time, and finding peace in God’s timing. A comforting conversation for anyone walking through the holidays with a hopeful, waiting heart.

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If it feels like every time you open Instagram someone else is engaged, married, or pregnant — this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, Katie opens up about the quiet ache of watching everyone else reach milestones you’re still praying for. We talk about comparison, grief, God’s timing, and how to guard your heart without hardening it. A gentle reminder that waiting doesn’t mean you’re behind — it means your story is still unfolding.

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This week's episode is for the girl who feels like she’s putting her life on pause until God brings the relationship… the ring… or the season she’s been praying for.

But here’s the truth:
Your life is not an empty waiting room.
And joy doesn’t start the moment someone chooses you — it starts when you choose the life God has already placed in front of you.

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The Lover Girl Letters is a podcast for the hopeful heart —
for the woman who’s learning to love her story right where she is.

Each week, we’ll talk about faith, singleness, godly dating, and the lessons that come from letting God hold the pen.
You’ll hear honest conversations, real stories, and heartfelt reminders that your worth isn’t defined by your relationship status — it’s anchored in who God says you are.

However, this episode is more of an introductory episode--about your host, this project, and what to look forward to. I pray that you enjoy this episode and I'll see you next week with another episode!

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In a world that tells you your worth is tied to your relationship status, The Lover Girl Letters invites you to sit down, exhale, and remember who you are and whose you are. Through raw reflections, storytelling, and candid conversations, Katie opens up about the realities of modern-day singleness, the ache of waiting, and the pursuit of healthy, God-honoring relationships. Whether you’re freshly heartbroken, figuring out boundaries, trying to date with purpose, or simply wondering if you’re the only one who still believes in love—this podcast is for you.

Each episode is styled like a personal “letter”—sometimes to her younger self, sometimes to a listener, and sometimes to the Lover Girl in all of us. And in every letter, you’ll find grace, truth, and a gentle nudge toward healing, hope, and holy confidence.

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