The LovHER Show

In today's episode we discuss the now viral Twitter post from Comedienne, Actress, and all around Sis in our head, Leslie Jones where she mentions that she's at the gym working out but wonders if it's all for nothing because no one will notice. She talks about her fear of dying alone. Many would look at her life and think she has everything but as Life/Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers often supporting those who seemingly have it all, we know all too well that without love, there's often a huge void longing to be filled. What are some of the ways we support our clients and friends who feel the same way? Tune in to hear our thoughts in hopes that it will encourage you or someone you know.

Here's to LOVE!

-Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, The Matchmaking DUO!

Music by: Sharla K.

In today's episode, we are thrilled to have guest LovHER Cameka Smith, Owner and Founder of the nationally acclaimed BOSS Network. Who better to discuss the age old question of how can we find balance between being a Boss and having a fulfilling personal life than someone who is a Boss and surrounded by Boss women every single day? As women we often feel as though we have to sacrifice success in one area for the rewards in another and even feel guilty if one part of our lives is performing better than the other. Is it even possible to have both and if so, what are some of the ways to get there? Join us as we delve into this topic in hopes that you would walk away with something to add to your arsenal as we all pursue bliss in both our careers and personal lives.

Here's to BLISS!

-Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, The Matchmaking DUO!

Music by: Sharla K.

We often hear the words, "New Year, New You!" and at the turn of the year, we take a moment to think about what we accomplished and what we want to do differently. As Life Coaches and Professional Matchmakers, our focus is usually geared toward setting goals for our client's personal lives. Work and Career is relatively good, even if it's not exactly where you want to be, it's good. So what are your goals this year for your personal life and how can you reach them? Tune in as we discuss some of our own goals and share some of the tools we arm our clients with to find their way to a rewarding well-balanced life.

Join our discussion and see what you can do to enhance your goal setting for the new year! We're rooting for you.

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Here's to LOVE!!

-Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, The Matchmaking DUO!

Music by: Sharla K.

As Relationship Coaches and Professional Matchmakers, we've been fortunate enough for the last 3 1/2 years to write for Essence.com and one person we've always admired as part of the Essence family is the incomparable Mikki Taylor. She's fierce, she's fabulous, and always shows up with her infectious smile and humble spirit. Not to mention, as former Beauty Editor she boasts her classic style with just enough edge to make you turn your head. We invited Mikki to join us today to share some inspiration and tips around how to discover your inner and outer beauty since both are critical to showing up as your best self, getting noticed, and sustaining a long-term meaningful relationship. Let's face it if you're single, your outward appearance and confidence appears first and then your conversation (your smile, your warm demeanor, your inner most qualities) will determine whether someone wants to know you better. The importance of inward beauty cannot be dismissed.

You won't want to miss this conversation. Mikki schools us all with her wisdom today and will leave you wanting more.

Here's to LOVE!

-Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore, The Matchmaking DUO!

Music by: Sharla K.

So you're single and the holidays are coming? No reason to sulk. Here are 10 ways to help you not only get through but the enjoy the fun along the way!

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Melissa J. Nixon is am Auther, Executive Leadership Coach, and Trainer!

She is passionate about helping women experience joy because she desperately fought for it in her own life. She always seemed to be on an emotional roller coaster after suffering from traumatic loss, continuously battling her weight, and feeling disconnected from her purpose. After being tired of what seemed like a never-ending cycle, lots of prayer, and truly discovering how to walk by faith, she transformed her life. Melissa talks about the principles and steps she took with everyone she meets. She became vigilant about creating the change she needed. Now, living her purpose and delighted with life…she shows women how to do and become the same.

Join us as we share what we do every December with all of you and invite you to join us as we refuel, recharge and get ready for the new year!

The Matchmaking DUO

"You must create memories in order to be remembered." When we coach our clients we quote this hundreds of times. Making memories strengthens the bonds between you and those you love. You should blend old and new traditions to create your own holiday love legacy. Need some inspiration? These nine ideas will get you started.

Dorinda Walker is an Inspirational Warrior, Survivor and Multicultural Marketer, who holds the title of Vice President within Prudential Financial, Inc. Rising above her childhood difficulties, Dorinda Walker has based her career on expanding new business opportunities and financial education among diverse markets. She focuses her efforts on important areas such as targeted marketing, strategic planning, sponsorship event planning, program management and community engagement.

What is most compelling about her corporate position is the path she took to arrive there. This includes being born to heroin-addicted parents, surviving physical abuse, attempting suicide, dropping out of high school and living a dangerous street life as a teenager. Walker channelled her 'street smarts' to rise up the corporate ladder and tell her story to thousands of people every year. Walker's mission is to inspire individuals who are thrown into dysfunctional circumstances, to face the voices of doubt and fear and still press forward. Her goal is to help them not only survive, but to overcome by achieving success and fulfilling their life's purpose.

In her first book "Protected By Purpose" Walker dives into her life story and provides the success secrets that allowed her to transition from a path to prison to becoming one of the fastest rising brands in corporate America. She tackles issues that affect many individuals today. Being born into a dysfunctional family, battling addiction and its consequences on the family, mental illness, domestic violence, and overcoming low self-esteem. Walker gives affirmations and shares the lessons she learned to help others overcome similar issues. She gives readers a deep understanding on how through it all, you can turn these tragedies into triumphs with love, faith, and forgiveness—this book will inspire readers to know that they can empower themselves to not only survive, but go on to achieve success beyond their wildest dreams with distinct purpose.

Walker has received several distinguished honors and awards for her community and corporate service. Most recently recognized by The Network Journal as one of the 2017 Top 25 Influential Black Women in Business, and by Forbes as one of the Top Black Leaders and Speakers in the country. Walker is a graduate of the Woman's Unlimited TEAM Program, a nationally acclaimed management and leadership development program for high-potential women.