In today's episode of Made to Thrive, Kim Walsh Philips talks about you working on yourself! As you are improving yourself, there might come a time when the people in your life don't jump onboard. Don't worry! This has nothing to do with you and your choices. You are working towards your big goals and Kim advises that you focus on just that. The people in your life may feel reluctant to the changes, because they didn't ask for change. Don't judge or nag them, just let them be. When they see how the positive change in your life is making you more joyful, then it will be contagious and they may hop on board, too!
0:21 – Welcome!
0:25 – Today's Topic: What To Do If They Won't Change With You?
0:30 – You are setting new to-do lists and this can cause a lot of flack with the different people in your life. Maybe the people in your life weren't ready for this change.
1:09 – Just like brand new Christians who have a passion to tell others about their new faith!
1:26 – I have a strong Christian faith. When you are in the mountaintop experience not everyone will jump onboard.
1:56 – They didn't ask for the change. If they come to you with negative commentary it's not about you, it's their own insecurities.
2:29 – Like when going to dinner and someone orders a huge cheesecake. But! If you don't order it, too, then they question your order choice of ordering a salad instead.
3:23 – We are normalized when everyone is acting the same.
3:39 – You are just having a salad?! It has nothing to do with you, if they make such a comment.
3:56 – It's not your job to change them, but your job is to show them love!
4:25 – What do you do instead? Work on a positive mindset.
4:35 – Kim walks you through the dinner experience at a restaurant. Your order is: sparkling water, and a chicken salad. If your spouse asks you "why" you just say, "this makes me feel good." You can continue saying, "I like being with you, but this is my food order choice tonight." There is no judgment there, but you are stating what works well for you.
5:50 – What you can do is work on yourself. By you working on YOU, they will see the joy and health that you have, and they might want the same for themselves, too!
6:54 – Be an inspiration, not a nag. Make people want what YOU have! This way they are making their own choice and you aren't forcing them to change with you.
Resources Mentioned:
- madetothrivepodcast.com/powerpack
- madetothrivepodcast.com
- Made To Thrive Planner