We explore how scarcity hooks the nervous system, why tight control repels opportunities, and how to practice non-attachment without losing standards. We share the “open palm” metaphor, the buyer mindset in dating and work, and why perspective is the engine of abundance.

• scarcity as a survival reflex and modern trigger
• non-attachment as intention without control
• the sand metaphor for holding opportunities
• abundance of perspectives through coaching and community
• buyer mindset in dating, business, and life choices
• dismantling to create space and end stagnation
• support without crutches for durable autonomy
• long-term transformation through repetition and reflection

If this is you and you are wanting to work together, hello, sign up for a consult. Use the description below to sign up and we could talk about what would be good for you and what package might work best for you. For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram at coach.with.holly or TikTok at coachwithholly. For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com. And if you want to get coached by me, book a consult so we could talk about working together. Use a link in my podcast description below.

Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly or TikTok @coachwithholly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT << so we can talk about working together.

Ever notice how the smartest plan on paper can still feel wrong in your body? We dig into the limits of head-only decision making and open a door to the intelligence most of us ignore: P*SSY WISDOM. This isn’t theory for theory’s sake. It’s a practical path for breaking plateaus, easing burnout, and choosing what actually fits—even when it doesn’t look “realistic” to anyone else.

We share how to recognize the ego’s hunger for status, why it doesn’t need to be demonized, and how to stop letting it outrank your true north. You’ll hear stories from creative and coaching work that show why business is more experiential than transactional, and how aligned relationships lead to better outcomes than rigid, one-size-fits-all promises. If you’ve ever said yes to the wrong client or clung to a tidy plan that drained you, this conversation will help you spot the signs earlier and choose differently.

You’ll also get simple, repeatable practices to access body-led clarity in minutes: breath, touch, and clean questions that cut through noise. 

Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly or TikTok @coachwithholly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT << so we can talk about working together.

Ready to trade “success on paper” for a life that actually feels alive? Holly invites you into a year-end reflection that’s equal parts tender and audacious, offering a fresh scorecard for 2026: joy as data, sleep as a truth detector, magnetism as feedback, and synchronicity as guidance. Instead of chasing harder, we explore how to ask for more—clearly, playfully, and often—and let the universe flirt back.

We break down self-imposed limits and the quiet rules that taught us to stay small, using a simple restaurant moment—try the wine before you commit—as a metaphor for everyday permission. Living solo becomes a catalyst for freedom: blasting music at 8 a.m., dancing while making coffee, and letting mirrors reflect a self who feels unsupervised and fully expressed. That embodied joy resets your baseline and shifts what you attract: richer friendships, better invitations, unexpected opportunities, and yes, the occasional friction from people who preferred the old you.

Holly shares how boundaries transform sleep and why healing makes self-betrayal impossible to hide in your body. A glowing aura isn’t magic; it’s alignment that draws a spectrum of attention. Your job is discernment. We look at repeating numbers, names, and uncanny overlaps as winks that say, keep going, think bigger, ask again. The message is simple: you’re allowed to want more and to pursue it without shrinking, even when it rattles others’ expectations.

If you’re craving a hotter, badder, richer year—measured in laughter, rest, deep connection, and aligned opportunities—this conversation is your blueprint. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs courage to ask for more, and leave a review to tell us your new measure of success. Want personalized support? Book a consult from the link in the description and let’s build your 2026 together.

Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly or TikTok @coachwithholly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT << so we can talk about working together.

We unpack pleasure intolerance. You could be having wayyyyy more.

Numbness that comes from overstimulation and share how small, sensory rituals restore  your magnetism. 

Practical tools help you receive instead of deflect, rebuild self-trust, and feel your success as it happens.

• defining pleasure intolerance and its causes
• difference between gratification and pleasure
• contrast as a lever to heighten delight
• receiving vs deflecting and resentment loops
• pleasure as resistance to hustle culture
• rest practices to calm an antsy body
• how pleasure reshapes self-concept and magnetism

If you've enjoyed today's episode, hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend
For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram at coach.with.holly or TikTok at coachwithholly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
And if you want to get coached by me, book a consult so we could talk about working together
Use a link in my podcast description below

Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly or TikTok @coachwithholly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT << so we can talk about working together.

We challenge the myth that designer equals luxury and show how real wealth begins with inner regulation, personal frequency, and discernment. From fabrics and seams to vintage treasure hunts and trend detox, we map a path to style that feels alive and magnetic.

• defining luxury as a feeling, not a label
• how to evaluate quality through seams, hardware and fibers
• the frequency of natural fabrics vs polyester blends
• escaping trend cycles and overconsumption
• discernment as a daily style practice
• dressing for magnetism and self-approval
• vintage as a source of quality and individuality
• investment pieces that amplify your energy
• luxury vs wealth as inner abundance
• marketing myths that sell fantasies
• coaching as a path to alignment

Come coach with me. Use the link in the description and we will go forward to see if we're a good fit for coaching

Thanks for listening. And if you've enjoyed today's episode, hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend

For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram at coach.with.holly or TikTok at coachwithholly

For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com

And if you want to get coached by me, book a consult so we could talk about working together. Use a link in my podcast description below

Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly or TikTok @coachwithholly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT << so we can talk about working together.

We challenge the habit of arguing with reality and practice seeing life as happening for us. We map four stages of consciousness, reframe money and abundance, and use creativity and neutrality to change results without self-judgment.

• naming what we resist and why it drains us
• adopting “it’s happening for me” as a practice
• the four stages: to me, by me, through me, as me
• oneness as an antidote to scarcity and separation
• money as symbol, abundance as state
• creativity as regulation and expansion
• body neutrality over self-critique for sustainable change
• reverse engineering results with belief audits
• reading beliefs in everyday choices and boundaries
• clean pain versus dirty pain and radical acceptance

Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly or TikTok @coachwithholly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT << so we can talk about working together.

We unpack how self-concept quietly shapes results and lay out a real-world path to reinvention without waiting for a milestone. From letting go through crumble and decay to immersion, style try-ons, and visualization, we show how to build capacity and magnetism with simple, repeatable practices.

• self-concept as the engine of change
• think-feel-act cycle as daily lever
• starting now rather than waiting for milestones
• letting go as step one of reinvention
• the crumble creating space for new outcomes
• decay as compost and emotional processing
• style try-ons as identity experiments
• disappointment as redirection, not regression
• immersion over intellectualizing growth
• capacity building and avoiding whiplash
• hedonic tools to raise a bougie baseline
• addition by subtraction and home rituals
• visualization to rehearse who you’re becoming
• recap of let go, crumble, decay, fertilize

We can coach together one-on-one—use the link in the description to book a consult. Hit the plus sign to follow and share with a friend. Follow on Instagram at coach.with.holly and TikTok at coachwithholly. Visit coachwithholly.com for resources and offers.

Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly or TikTok @coachwithholly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT << so we can talk about working together.

We unpack why you can’t buy class or style and how authentic energy, play, and presence turn everyday dressing into a MAGNET for joy and opportunity. We question money myths, show how to cultivate taste without spending more, and invite you to flirt with life again.

• money stories shaping style signals
• why logos, normcore, and stealth wealth conflict
• style as energy, not labels
• copying outfit formulas vs developing an eye
• body, color, proportion, and personality alignment
• closets as living archives of identity
• play, flirtation, and daily delight practices
• rebelling against delayed joy and seriousness
• selection over spending as a style skill
• coaching and VIP styling to build magnetism

If you've enjoyed today's episode, hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend
For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram at coach.with.holly or TikTok at coachwithholly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
And if you want to get coached by me, book a consult so we could talk about working together. Use a link in my podcast description below

Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly or TikTok @coachwithholly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT << so we can talk about working together.

We map the shift from chasing outcomes to embodying desire through detachment, play, and identity-based style. From “rushing the bloom” to building a bougie baseline, we show how to act with intention, hold boundaries, and let time reveal what’s meant for you.

• chasing energy amplifying lack
• main character mindset and detachment
• waiting room test and showing up halfway
• brain’s need for certainty and story-making
• everything pursued for a feeling
• marketing through emotion not logic
• closet as museum of past self
• seasons, expiration, and vitality checks
• play as a life skill and nervous system care
• dressing room mirror work and bougie baseline
• gentle visibility, small steps, and consistency
• boundaries replacing people-pleasing
• style as daily expression and identity tool

Thanks for listening. And if you’ve enjoyed today’s episode, hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend
For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly or TikTok @coachwithholly.
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
And if you want to get coached by me, book a consult so we could talk about working together. Use a link in my podcast description below

Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly or TikTok @coachwithholly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT << so we can talk about working together.

We explore how energy (not hustle or image) drives results, and how to align intention, style, and mindset to become a clear match for the opportunities you want. We share tools to turn desire into direction, embody genuine presence, and measure alignment by how you feel after the room.

• energy as the signal that attracts or repels
• style used to anchor state, not to impress
• clear intention and speaking desires aloud
• growth mindset over fixed rules
• meeting strangers as practice labs
• genuine presence vs people pleasing
• confidence as capacity for emotion
• feelings as invitations to self-knowledge
• reframing your story with agency
• upgrade your self-concept using your style
• discernment between true desire and taught wants 
• simple tests for post-event energy and alignment

Follow me on Instagram at coach.with.holly or TikTok at coach with Holly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
If you want to get coached by me, book a consult so we could talk about working together
Use a link in my podcast description below

Hit the plus sign at the top of this podcast to follow the show and share an episode with a friend.For a daily touch point, follow me on Instagram @coach.with.holly or TikTok @coachwithholly
For more resources and offers, visit coachwithholly.com
If you want to get coached by me, >> BOOK A CONSULT << so we can talk about working together.