We all fall short in our relationship with God. There are moments when distractions, sin, and doubt pull us away. But what happens when we fail to love God the way we should? In this episode of The Making of a Man, I open up about my own struggles—times when I prioritized the world over Him, when I doubted His plan, and when I felt unworthy of His grace. I also share the consequences of losing that connection with God and how it impacted my relationships with others.

But most importantly, we’ll talk about the journey back. No matter how far we stray, God’s grace is always enough. If you've ever felt distant from Him, if you've ever struggled with shame or wondered if you could return, this episode is for you. God hasn’t given up on you—He’s calling you home.

Listen now, and let’s walk this journey together.

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Why do you love God? It’s a question that may seem simple on the surface, but when you really stop and reflect, it reaches deep into the core of your faith. Do you love God because of who He is — His unchanging nature, His perfect love, and His infinite wisdom? Or do you love Him because of what He’s done — how He’s rescued you, provided for you, and walked with you through life’s darkest moments?

 In this episode of The Making of a Man, we dive deep into this powerful question. We’ll explore the incredible truth about God’s character — that He is constant, holy, and perfect — and why that truth brings stability and strength to our lives as men. We'll also reflect on the ways God actively shows His love — through forgiveness, redemption, and the countless moments He’s carried us when we couldn’t carry ourselves.

I’ll share my own journey — how God’s love pulled me out of addiction, healed the pain of divorce, and walked with me through my struggles with insecurity, control, and regret. There were moments I doubted my own worth, but even then, God never gave up on me — and He’s never given up on you either.

 Whether you’ve been following God for years or you’re still searching for answers, this episode is for you. It’s an invitation to pause, reflect, and recognize how God’s presence — both in His nature and His actions — has shaped your life in ways you may not have realized.

Tune in now to discover how loving God — not just for what He gives, but for who He is — can transform your heart, strengthen your faith, and guide you to become the man God created you to be.

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What does it truly mean to be a servant leader in the Christian community? In this episode of The Making of a Man, we explore the heart of biblical leadership—not as a position of power or authority, but as a life of love, sacrifice, and service. Jesus set the ultimate example of servant leadership, calling us not to seek recognition but to humbly serve others for the glory of God.

I take you on a personal journey through my own struggles with leadership, faith, and surrender. There was a time in my life when I believed I was doing everything right—attending church, volunteering, tithing—yet my heart still felt restless, weighed down by stress and anxiety. I was going through the motions, thinking my service alone was enough. But God showed me that true leadership isn’t about doing for Him—it’s about being with Him. It’s about surrendering my heart and allowing Him to transform me from the inside out.

Through my own breaking point and ultimate surrender, I discovered that following Jesus comes at a cost. It requires laying down personal desires, comfort, and even control. It’s not always an easy road, but the reward is far greater than anything this world offers. We dive into Jesus’ teachings on the cost of discipleship, exploring passages like Luke 9:57-62 and Luke 10:17-20, which remind us that our greatest joy is not in what we accomplish but in the eternal security we have in Christ.

This episode challenges us to examine our own hearts. Are we leading from a place of love and surrender, or are we simply checking off religious boxes? Are we willing to step up in our churches, not for recognition but out of obedience to God’s call? Whether you’re leading in ministry, mentoring others, or serving in quiet, unseen ways, every act of service matters when it flows from a heart fully devoted to God.

Join me as we unpack the essence of servant leadership and the powerful transformation that happens when we lead with a surrendered heart. If this message resonates with you, share it with someone who needs encouragement in their faith journey. Let’s step into our calling with humility, strength, and a deep love for God and His people.

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What does it truly mean to be a servant leader in marriage? In this episode of The Making of a Man, we dive deep into the biblical call for husbands to lead with love, humility, and strength. Rooted in Ephesians 5:25, where husbands are commanded to love their wives as Christ loved the Church, we unpack what sacrificial, Christ-centered leadership looks like in real, everyday life.

 I’ll share my personal journey—the struggles, failures, and lessons that have shaped me as a husband—and the pivotal moments that revealed what it truly means to lead my wife with both tenderness and strength. Together, we’ll explore six key areas of servant leadership, from spiritual guidance and emotional availability to sacrificial love and steadfast commitment.

In a world that often distorts leadership as dominance or passivity, many men wrestle with the tension between cultural expectations and God’s design for headship. This episode will challenge and equip you to:

• Reject passivity and step into your God-given responsibility
• Lead with humility while embracing strength and wisdom
• Love sacrificially, just as Christ loved His bride, the Church
• Build a marriage rooted in faith, mutual respect, and biblical truth

Whether you’re a newlywed, a seasoned husband, or preparing for marriage, this conversation will provide practical wisdom and encouragement to help you grow as the leader God has called you to be.

 Subscribe, leave a comment, and share this episode with other men who are striving to lead their marriages well. Together, let’s pursue God’s design for manhood and marriage—one step of faithful leadership at a time.

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What does true leadership look like in God’s eyes? In today’s episode of The Making of a Man, we go beyond the world’s definition of leadership and uncover what it really means to lead as a man of God. Leadership isn’t about power, control, or status—it’s about serving, loving, and guiding others with humility, strength, and integrity in every area of life.

We’ll explore:

• What biblical leadership really means—whether in your home, workplace, church, or community
• The key characteristics of a godly leader, from servant-heartedness to courage, wisdom, and accountability
• Practical steps to help you grow into the leader God has called you to be
• Lessons from biblical leaders like Moses, David, and Paul—men who weren’t perfect but were shaped by God for great leadership
• Powerful insights from Craig Groeschel on leading with faith, purpose, and influence

If you’re a husband, a father, a mentor, or just a man seeking to step into your God-given calling, this episode is for you. Whether you feel ready or not, God has called you to lead. And the best part? You don’t have to do it alone.

Tune in as we break down how to lead with confidence, faith, and a servant’s heart, so you can impact those around you and become the leader God created you to be.

Don’t miss this conversation! Subscribe now and take the next step in becoming the man and leader God is shaping you into.

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What does it mean to truly love God, follow Him, and lead His people? In this episode of The Making of a Man, I share the deeply personal story of the moment God spoke these three powerful words into my life: "Love Me, Follow Me, Lead My People." These words are not just for me—they are for every man seeking to understand his purpose and walk boldly in his faith.

Together, we’ll explore:

• What it means to love God with all your heart, soul, and mind, even in the midst of life’s distractions and doubts.
• How to follow God with trust and surrender, stepping into the unknown with faith.
• The true meaning of leadership as a servant of Christ—whether in your home, workplace, or community.

Through Scripture, reflection, and practical steps, this episode will challenge you to examine where you stand in your walk with God and encourage you to embrace His calling for your life.

Whether you’re wrestling with questions about your purpose or looking for inspiration to deepen your faith, this conversation will leave you equipped to take the next step in becoming the man God created you to be.

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Temptation is a battle every man faces, but victory is possible when we take intentional steps and lean on God’s strength. In this episode of The Making of a Man, we explore practical strategies to resist temptation—like identifying triggers, removing access, and seeking support—and dive into biblical truths about how God equips us to stand firm.

I’ll share a personal story about struggling with temptation at the gym and how I learned to guard my heart and redirect my focus. We’ll also unpack powerful Scriptures like 1 Corinthians 10:13 and James 4:7 to remind you that God always provides a way out and the strength to overcome.

Whether you’re battling physical, emotional, or spiritual temptations, this episode will give you the tools and encouragement to fight the good fight and stay grounded in your faith. Tune in, and let’s grow together.

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In this powerful and practical episode, we dive deep into what it truly means to love and invest in your wife in ways that go beyond just saying the words, "I love you." Drawing from the wisdom of Ephesians 5:25, we examine God’s command for husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church—a love that is marked by sacrifice, service, and unwavering commitment. This kind of love isn’t just spoken—it’s demonstrated through consistent, intentional actions that reflect the heart of Christ.

We’ll discuss how to show love through small, everyday gestures that make a big impact, from being emotionally present and attentive to supporting your wife’s spiritual and personal growth. Learn how to lead your marriage with humility, faithfulness, and a servant’s heart, while creating a space where your wife feels cherished, valued, and deeply loved.

Whether you’re newly married, a seasoned husband, or simply seeking to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers practical insights and encouragement for living out God’s design for marriage. Discover how investing in your wife not only honors her but also glorifies God and builds a foundation of trust, intimacy, and lasting joy in your marriage. This is your opportunity to take a step closer to being the husband God has called you to be—a man who loves boldly, leads faithfully, and reflects Christ in every aspect of your relationship.

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In this episode of The Making of a Man, we tackle two of the biggest lies that hold men back from becoming the leaders God created them to be. Whether it’s the belief that “I’m a good person, I don’t need God” or “I’m too broken for God to use,” these lies keep us trapped in pride or shame, unable to embrace the grace and purpose God has for our lives.

Through scripture and examples from the Bible, we’ll expose these lies and uncover the truth of God’s transformative power. Discover how God uses imperfect men to accomplish His perfect will and why acknowledging our need for Him is the first step toward leading our families with faith, strength, and humility.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the responsibility of leading your family or wondered if you’re good enough, this episode is for you. It’s time to reject the lies, embrace God’s truth, and step into the role He’s called you to as a husband, father, and man of faith. Join us as we discuss what it means to love God, follow Him, and lead with His strength and grace.

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In the final installment of this three-part series on fatherhood, we’re joined by a special guest—a friend, father, and now a grandfather—who shares his personal journey of leading his family through the challenges and joys of life.

Building on the first two episodes, where we explored God’s design for fatherhood and the hope of redemption after past mistakes, this episode dives deeper into practical wisdom and real-life experiences. Together, we discuss the vital role of fathers as leaders in their families, the unique challenges of blended families, and the importance of modeling Christ-like leadership across generations.

Whether you’re a father, a stepfather, or a grandfather, this episode offers encouragement and actionable insights to help you lead with love, integrity, and faith. Tune in to The Making of a Man for a heartfelt conversation about what it means to grow, heal, and inspire the next generation.

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