Hey look Mom! We made it! Episode 20 coming in hot with our most requested topic... Male and female POV on dating! This week, we’re getting into the male perspective with a special guest who doesn’t hold back. After a 14-year marriage and 10 years in the single world, he’s got stories, opinions, and a great insight on what he wants. He breaks down what dating looks like from his point of view, sharing real-life examples, frustrations, and a few surprises along the way. We explore what guys really go through—and realize maybe we’re not as different as we think. We’re not speaking for all men or women here—just having an honest convo from both sides. And when Chan gets a little too real? Let’s just say... you’ll most definitely laugh out loud.

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