The Male Pursuer

The Male Pursuer

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The Male Pursuer episodes

  • Ep. 13 - AITAH: Busted Budget and Friend Group ‘Mom’
    In this episode of Joinery Therapy, we explore two Reddit posts highlighting family dynamics and relationship challenges. The first focuses on a couple navigating budget disagreements and the role of expectations in their marriage. The second explores a friend who feels taken for granted and undervalued by their group. We'll unpack the underlying emotions and offer insights into building stronger, more fulfilling relationships.
    27 min
  • Ep. 12- AITAH: Facebook Mom and Capsized Dad
    In this episode of Joinery Therapy, we delve into two more Reddit posts. The first explores a mother's struggle to respect her daughter's privacy regarding pregnancy news, while the second examines a heated conflict between a sailing instructor and a parent. Using emotionally focused therapy, we'll unpack the underlying emotions, navigate the complexities of family dynamics, and discuss the importance of open communication and understanding in relationships.
    22 min
  • Ep. 11 - AITAH: Squandered Inheritance and Hall Pass Usage
    In this episode of Joinery Therapy, we delve into two deeply personal Reddit posts. The first explores a family fractured by resentment over a lost inheritance, while the second examines a husband contemplating using a "hall pass" after his wife's infidelity. Using emotionally focused therapy, we'll unpack the underlying emotions, navigate the complexities of family dynamics, and discuss the importance of open communication and understanding in relationships.
    33 min
  • Ep. 10- AITAH: Asking Son for Money and Baby Names
    In this episode, we dive into two emotionally charged Reddit posts. The first involves a family struggling to reconnect after a painful rift caused by past actions. The second centers around a sister who takes a name reserved for her sibling's future child. We'll explore the underlying emotions and offer insights using emotionally focused therapy to understand and navigate these complex relationships.
    33 min
  • Ep. 9- AITAH: Overlooked by Parents and Boundary Setting
    This podcast explores the emotional side of relationships through Reddit posts. In this episode, your host discusses two posts: one from a 16-year-old feeling overlooked by their family and another from someone whose neighbor is picking their lavender. Using emotionally focused therapy, they highlight the importance of emotional awareness, validation, and setting boundaries in relationships. They emphasize that even difficult conversations can lead to growth and understanding.
    26 min
  • Ep. 8- What is EFT? Feat. Special Guest David Bleckley
    In this episode, we dive deep into Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), a powerful approach to understanding and improving relationships. Joined by special guest David Bleckley, we explore the four attachment styles, the dynamics of pursuers and withdrawers, and the importance of emotional awareness and empathy. Whether you're struggling with communication challenges or seeking to deepen your connections, EFT offers valuable insights and practical tools for building stronger, healthier relationships.
    1 hr 2 min
  • Ep. 7- AITAH: ‘Tradwife’ and Not Worth Marrying?
    In this episode of Joinery Therapy, the host explores two Reddit posts through an emotionally focused therapy perspective. The first post is about a woman who kept detailed records of her contributions to her husband's business as a precaution since she was a stay-at-home wife, which caused tension and feelings of distrust between them. The second post involves a man who made a custom engagement ring for his girlfriend, but her dissatisfaction with the lab-grown diamond and its cost led him to reconsider the relationship. The discussion highlights that while it's valid to protect oneself or feel hurt, effective communication and addressing underlying fears are crucial for resolving relationship issues.
    29 min
  • Ep. 6 - AITAH: No Means No and Helping Dads
    In this episode of Joinery Therapy, the host examines two Reddit posts through a counseling lens. The first post involves a woman who leaves a family party after her father-in-law ignores his fiancée's clear refusal to be dunked in the pool, as she believes strongly in teaching her children the principle that "no means no." This incident leads to tension with her husband and in-laws, who view her reaction as controlling. The discussion highlights how her intense stance may stem from past personal trauma and the importance of addressing underlying emotional issues with compassion. The second post concerns a stay-at-home mom who feels that her husband’s attempt to care for the kids and handle dinner isn’t genuine help, reflecting broader issues around parental responsibilities and communication. The host stresses the need for empathy and effective dialogue to resolve marital conflicts and recognize the validity of each partner's experiences and needs.
    27 min

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