I AM BACK!!!! I'm very happy to be sitting down and talking about my thoughts about living a gay life with God. I talk about being around other LDS people and what it is like to be at church. I talk about a lot so there will be a live show on Instagram. God will never say you are evil and you don't belong.

edited, produced, and recorded by Nicholas Bernfeld

Music by Scott Holmes

I sit down with my good friend Hettie for a talk about insecurities. I was so happy to have Hettie on the show, she is also the first guest ever!!!! We had such a good talk about insecurities. We did talk for a long time and so this is the 3rd part of a 3 part talk. You all can go find Hettie on Instagram @hettiejoh. 

Music by Scott Holmes

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I sit down with my good friend Hettie for a talk about insecurities. I was so happy to have Hettie on the show, she is also the first guest ever!!!! We had such a good talk about insecurities. We did talk for a long time and so this is the 2nd part of a 3 part talk. You all can go find Hettie on Instagram @hettiejoh. 

Music by Scott Holmes

I sit down with my good friend Hettie for a talk about insecurities. I was so happy to have Hettie on the show, she is also the first guest ever!!!! We had such a good talk about insecurities. We did talk for a long time and so this is the first part of a 3 part talk. You all can go find Hettie on Instagram @hettiejoh. 

Music by Scott Holmes

This Episode I take a look at Bucket Lists and how great they can be in our daily life. I love having my own Bucket List that I work on every day. I find it very helpful to have a list of thing that I want to do in my life at a young age. A Bucket List is good for keeping your priorities right and helping you achieve great things. 

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Music is by Scott Holmes

This week I talk about how toxic secrets are. There are so many times we run into the trouble of keeping secrets, the life we live should be free of the control they have. I know if we are true to ourselves and those around us the world would be a better place.

Music by Soutt Holmes

This weeks episode is all about me. I am very easily distracted by the stories of my life. Break down what it is like to go on dates and dealing with being another man.  I talk about what it is like to be LDS and gay, and how Buddism has been able to be a buffer between the two aspects of my life.

The Man in the Grey Jacket is a podcast about a gay man's take on life.  We all see things in different ways. I want us all to grow to be better people with every episode. As we talk about the life events that shape us, I want us to think of things in a new light and in a way we have never considered before.

Why The Man in The Grey Jacket? Because of my favorite jacket. I was at Salt Lake Fan X and found this one-of-a-kind grey jacket, and I thought it was perfect for me. It was kind of pricey, and I did not want to buy it. But my best friend told me I would regret not getting it. I did get it, and it is still one of my favorite articles of clothing. It is also because life is not black and white. There are many shades in between. Grey is the world that we live in. I want to talk about the grey.

I have learned from many different people who I never thought I could learn from. This podcast is hopefully going to do the same for you. I will be talking about dealing with life from my perspective. As well as the people I have on to add their perspective. I hope with your help we will be able to talk about all the grey in life. This journey will be a fun and illuminating experience for all of us.