The Mango Effect Podcast

21. Do you have people you can count on when challenges arise in business and in life? Each of us needs allies, those people we can reach out to when times get tough, while we're navigating a career pivot, or during that all-consuming new job hunt. 

In this episode, we have a very special guest, Jason Rosser, my amazing life partner who is definitely my greatest ally. He joins me for the first time to talk about building healthy alliances on LinkedIn (and beyond!) 

I don't know about you, but I have multiple allies. Each of them is unique and holds a special place in my network, my profession, and my personal life. 

In this episode, we discuss: 

• The importance of having multiple allies professionally 
• How to go about choosing your allies 
• Building better business relationships 
• Getting away from fear to embrace the unknown 
• Providing value to those in your network 
• Operating ethically within your relationships 
• Being yourself unapologetically 

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51. What hand can you actually play? You cannot choose which cards you are dealt, but you can decide how to play your hand well -- without undue risk or regret. 

Too many of us play the game of hoping for a breakthrough when we should instead play the hand with the actual cards we have. 

Understanding your risk tolerance and accurately assessing the cards you've been dealt will empower you to play the game of life better than ever before.  

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50. Why would anyone leave Hawaii? Moving back to the Midwest was one of the most difficult decisions I made in 2022, but it's changed my life in many ways for the better. 

Discover the reasons why we decided to relocate to the mainland US after living in Hawaii for nearly four years, and why we are not experiencing any remorse with our decision. Plus, how we are embarking on our next adventure living in the Midwest by exploring other ways to express our love for board sports! 

In this episode, we discuss: 

• Deciding the best "place" for going back to school as a non-traditional student Growing closer as a family, and how location plays into it 
• Taking action on the geoarbitrage method to achieve financial stability and long-term success 
• Approaching "where I grew up" with a new perspective 
• Improving our quality of life by cutting our living expenses by 55% 
• Expanding our family by adopting a kitten and getting a puppy 

...and more! 

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49. How do you cope with uncertainty when you run a lifestyle experiment or take on a new challenge? No matter how much preparation you do, there are always unforeseen circumstances. 

Uncertainty is often unavoidable. But you do have the opportunity to figure out the best way through those tough moments of "not knowing." Let's go into the power of building a support network, doing your homework, figuring out the pros and cons, and embracing the challenge. 

In this episode, we discuss: 

• How to prepare for uncertainty like a surfer 
• Dealing with unexpected challenges 
• Making pros and cons lists 
• Turning fear/anxiety into excitement 
• Reframing the situation and expressed emotions 
• Depending on those who know you best 
• Building confidence and resilience as part of the process 

...and more! 

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48. Whenever you take that next step toward your life vision, you must get a little bit gutsy to achieve something you have never done before. No guts, no glory. 

Getting gutsy does not mean taking uncalculated risks, rather it's about embracing uncertainty for what it is and knowing that you have the tenacity, know-how, and resources to work through the challenges ahead. 

At various points in time, we all must embrace our inner gutsiness and make it through our "messy middles" to create our ideal lifestyle. 

In this episode, we discuss: 

• Geographical location challenges (especially when you're moving 5,000 miles away) 
• Why even the best-laid plans still have obstacles - and what to do about them Using obstacles as opportunities to pause and reassess your direction 
• Course correcting in real-time while keeping a level head 
• Staying grounded amidst major life transitions 
• Creating and not being ashamed to rely on your support network 

...and more!

47. Taking risks when it comes to charting your life path is never easy, and there’s always a chance that it will not work out as you intended. What then? Is there a way to create an amazing life while also minimizing the risks or downsides? When should you play it safe versus go all in to make it happen? 

I know the fear. I know the trepidation. I know exactly how it feels to take a risk and have it completely backfire, but I also know the joy that comes with a really gutsy move that pays off more than I could have ever imagined. So how do we actually take the first step towards living the mango way? 

If you’re anything like me, you love a fun MANGO acronym to easily distill concepts and help you to remember them. 

• M - Mindful 
• A - Action 
• N - Nourish 
• G - Gutsy 
• O - Opportunity 

Let’s break down the components of the mango effect together in this episode! 

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46. Ever considered relocating to a different neighborhood, region, or country? When it comes to a geoarbitrage strategy, you can go as far as you'd like while creating an epic lifestyle in the process! 

With going "back to school" at the forefront of my mind, choosing the right geographical location for our family to thrive during the next few years is a key decision. So how do you make the right move? 

Here's what our family is considering as we are in the messy middle of the process of planning and properly timing a relocation... it's not the first time, and I don't think it will be the last! 

In this episode, we discuss: 

• How to decide whether or not to stay in your location or move 
• Important questions to ask yourself when you're considering a move 
• Handling all the conflicting emotions that arise -- and what to do about them 
• Using a blend of intuition and strategic planning to make the best move Understanding what your non-negotiables are when it comes to relocation 
• Getting clear on the WHY of relocation - is it necessary? 
• Financially game-planning with the intention to leave a legacy 

...and more! 
 
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45. What happens when you realize that you're not in alignment with your purpose? When you come face to face with the fact that you are not living out your calling, do you just keep moving forward with the familiar or go inward to explore? 

Some call this listening to your intuition, but it's much more than having a warm, fuzzy feeling in your brain. It's about not being afraid to actually do the soul searching, no matter where it leads. Fear prevents us from asking hard questions, making tough choices, and leaving a legacy for those who come after us. Complacency is compelling. 

In this episode, we discuss: 

• Going back to school to become a psychiatrist 
• What it means to ask the hard questions Imagining possibility while acting on reality 
• Getting support and feedback from those who know you best 
• Thinking outside the box when something is amiss 
• Paying attention to the breadcrumbs when you lack clarity 
• Making a decision even when it's scary 

...and more! 

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44. Curious about how to build a business that runs FOR you? 🤔 With all the buzz around how to scale your business during challenging times, many business leaders are challenged with new levels of uncertainty. 

Sam Garcia of Dirty Alchemy is on a mission to help entrepreneurs create (or streamline) their businesses to become more profitable -- without taking up so much of their own time. She believes that leaders need the systems and support to market, sell, and deliver their brilliance on autopilot, so that we can pour more time and energy into our soul purpose while giving our clients life-transforming results. 

I'm excited to have Sam on this special guest episode! We have a candid chat with Sam to learn more about how to build the business you've always wanted, best practices for creating systems and automation for "magical" growth -- we'll also get into the power of spirituality for entrepreneurs. 

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43. Ever experienced a number of challenges all around the same time and felt like you couldn't catch a break? It reminds me of that saying, "When it rains, it pours." When it comes to coping and even thriving through difficulties in our lives, relationships and careers, it's REALLY important to know how to go charge yourself. Everyone needs a proven way to recharge. 

Sometimes, we need to take a full step or two back to be able to take a positive half-step forward. That's okay! 

In this episode, we discuss: 

• The importance of knowing WHY you are recharging 
• Signs that your battery is low 
• Charging yourself before you make important decisions 
• Supporting other people when their battery is low 
• How to balance your battery life in various categories 
• Balancing parenting, mental illness and business 
• Redefining your definition of success 

...and more! 

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