In this episode of the xoMAN Podcast, Kiara Walker sits down with storyteller, father, and Dear Future Wifey host Laterras R. Whitfield for an unfiltered, soul-stirring conversation about manhood, healing, and the emotional scars too many men carry in silence.

From a failed marriage and parenting as a single Black man to adopting children and breaking generational cycles, Laterras opens up about the real work required to lead with integrity, vulnerability, and love. He also shares his personal lessons on cheating, abstinence, masculinity, and why the modern-day "manosphere" is often rooted in unresolved pain.

This is a powerful exploration of what it means to become the man you may have never seen growing up.

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00:00:00 Intro & Welcome Laterras R. Whitfield

00:05:28 Red Flag / Green Flag

00:10:22 Behind the Man Segment

00:37:45 Love, Life, and Lessons

00:57:38 Hot Takes Segment

01:03:18 Ask an xoMAN: Advice Segment

01:05:12 Closing Reflections

Keywords: masculinity, healing, Black fatherhood, accountability, Dear Future Wifey, therapy for Black men, emotional growth, redefining manhood