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In this episode, I break down Taylor Swift’s “Bejeweled”—and why it’s more than just a catchy pop hit. Beneath the glitter, it’s a powerful reminder about self-worth, intimacy, and the danger of dimming your light just to be chosen.

If you’ve ever felt overlooked in dating—or even in marriage when life and kids take over—this conversation will resonate deeply. We’ll talk about:

• Why shining as your authentic self matters more than being “picked”

• How to keep intimacy and sparkle alive in long-term relationships

• The real difference between validation and true connection

Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode will remind you to step back into your radiance—because the right love will only magnify your shine. But only if you choose yourself first!

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About this episode:

This one is straight from the heart 💔💬— I’m answering your questions about my dating journey and opening up about what it was really like behind the scenes. I talk about the moments I felt disrespected for being single, the loneliness I carried, the heartbreak of getting dumped, and the quiet battles with my mental health 😔.I also share how those hard moments pushed me deeper into my faith/Emunah 🙏, how I held onto hope even when things felt dark, and how much inner growth happened along the way 🌱.

This isn’t a polished success story or a "how to", it’s a real conversation about the messy middle and my honest journey through my dating life. If you’ve ever felt like no one gets how hard it is sometimes, I think this episode will make you feel less alone!

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The Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0

Book a free consultation call to learn more/apply:

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BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating":

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Already married? Join me here (free): https://realization.kit.com/d025a3af21

About this episode:

Ever feel like connection should “just happen” if it’s right? A client of mine recently asked if it was too awkward to use a guided question game on a date— and it sparked a really important conversation.

In this episode, my husband Yehuda and I play "Let's Get Deep" live on air— yep, unfiltered. But more than that, we’re modeling something we’ve both learned over time: real emotional connection doesn’t just magically happen. Sometimes, you need a little structure to open up, feel seen, and truly connect—whether you’re dating or married.

💡 Want to try this for yourself?

• If you’re dating and crave emotional depth without it getting awkward or overly intense, grab my NEW free guide: [Deep Dating]. You’ll learn how to confidently create meaningful conversations that feel natural— so instead of wondering if anyone can meet you on your level, you’ll actually start experiencing it. If it doesn't lead you there, at least you know you gave it the space to happen and he must not be for you!

• If you’re married and this episode made you crave more emotional closeness, join the free waitlist for married women. This is for women who feel like the spark is fading or the connection has dulled— and are ready to bring back emotional intimacy, shared presence, and the feeling of truly being seen again. I'm creating a free resource for you really soon and if you're signed up, you'll receive it in your inbox as soon as its' ready!

You don’t have to tone down your depth to be understood, it's possible and not too much to ask to find the guy that can meet you there. Nor do you have to stay stuck in emotional autopilot once you’re married.

Whether you’re dating or married, emotional connection is a skill— and with the right tools, you can create the kind of closeness that feels real, mutual, and deeply fulfilling.

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Currently single & dating for marriage (or preparing to)?

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0

Book a free consultation call to learn more/apply to the program: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall

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---ALREADY MARRIED?--- I'm creating a FREE resource for you. Jump on this waitlist ot get first dibs when it's ready: https://realization.kit.com/d025a3af21

About this episode:

If you’re dating and constantly second-guessing yourself because of insecurity — this episode is for you.

We’re talking about why insecurity isn’t actually what’s blocking connection — it’s how you’re handling it that matters. You’ll learn how to stop overcompensating, hiding, or spiraling… and start leading yourself with clarity and confidence, even in moments of doubt.

Inside this episode:✔️ How insecurity sabotages dating (without you realizing)✔️ What to do with it instead — the healthy way✔️ The mindset shift that changes everything in love

This is exactly the kind of work we do inside Marriage Magnet Method— where we build the foundation for real connection that lasts through your marriage.

📍 Book your consultation call here → 🔗 https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall

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Currently single & dating for marriage (or preparing to)?

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Book a free consultation call to learn more/apply to the program:https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall

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About this episode:In this honest and heartfelt episode, Nechama sits down with marriage coach and kallah teacher Beth Moscovic to unpack the quiet struggles that often come up in the first year of marriage- especially around expressing needs, feeling let down, and wondering, “Is this normal?”They talk about the courage it takes to be vulnerable, the reality of not always getting what you asked for right away, and how growth in marriage is rarely instant, but always possible (in a healthy dynamic). Whether you're newly married in the first few years or currently dating for marriage, curious what real-life love looks like beyond the wedding day, this episode will make you feel seen, supported, and a little more prepared for the journey.Follow Beth on IG: @bethmoscovic

💫 Registration for the Marriage Magnet Method will open again soon. If you’re considering joining the next cohort, book a free consultation call below, and I’ll help you figure out if it’s the right next step for you.

📍 https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall🎓 Learn more about the Marriage Magnet Method: https://youtu.be/a78vZS6oBI0//

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The Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0Book a free consultation call to learn more/apply:https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcallGrab my Ultimate Clarity Checklist for Confident Dating Decisions:https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/About this episode:Ever wonder what it would actually be like to work with a dating coach — not just for tips, but for real transformation? In this episode, I walk you through what would happen if you became my client. From our very first conversation to how I help you uncover the root of what’s not working, I’ll show you exactly how I guide women who are dating for marriage — even if they’re feeling confused, discouraged, or unsure what to change. Whether you’re early in your dating journey or deep in it but not seeing the results you want, you’ll hear how my Marriage Magnet Method adapts to your unique story, and how it can help you create clarity, confidence, and a love that actually fits YOU and all you’re dreaming of.💫 Registration for the Marriage Magnet Method is now open.If you’re considering joining the next cohort, book a free consultation call below — I’ll help you figure out if it’s the right next step for you.

📍https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall

🎓 Learn more about the Marriage Magnet Method: https://youtu.be/a78vZS6oBI0// CONNECT:Email: [email protected]: @thisisrealization

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About this episode:Is it a problem if you and the guy you’re dating don’t share the same hobbies—or can different interests actually help your relationship thrive? In this honest and relatable conversation, Yehuda and I explore both sides: the magic of shared passions, and the unexpected beauty of staying true to your own lane.We talk about:✨ Why shared hobbies can help you bond deeply✨ When separate interests create tension (or space!)✨ How to know what really matters when you’re dating for marriage✨ What’s worked for us as a couple—and where we’ve had to growWhether you're seriously dating, newly in a relationship, or already married—this episode is packed with insight, perspective, and plenty of laughs.🎧 Let us know what you think: Would you date or marry someone with totally different interests?

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The Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0Book a free consultation call to learn more/apply:https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcallGrab my Ultimate Clarity Checklist for Confident Dating Decisions:https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/About this episode:Are you stuck in situationships, finding yourself in toxic dating patters or feeling like real love is just out of reach? In this episode, I'm sharing the inspiring story of a client who completely transformed her dating life — moving from confusing, going-nowhere connections to a healthy, committed relationship that led to engagement!We’ll dive into the shifts she made, the mindset changes that set her free, and the real reasons she finally attracted the kind of relationship she had always wanted.If you’re tired of settling and ready for a love story that lasts in a healthy, happy marriage, this episode will show you what’s possible — and how close you actually are to the relationship you dream of.// CONNECT:Email: [email protected]: @thisisrealizationThis podcast is also available on YouTube in video format: https://youtu.be/_2u6_mjnpgY//Affiliate Favorites:- Zenagen Hair Growth Products: https://zenagen.com/Code: NECHAMA20 for 20% off- Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off- 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off// SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3Some links may be affiliate links.

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About this episode:

Many women do the inner work to prepare for marriage—but when it comes to intimacy, they’re left feeling unsure, uncomfortable, or even ashamed. In this episode, I’m joined by relationship and intimacy expert Galya Falkson (@galyafalkson) for a grounded conversation on what it really means to feel ready for closeness in a relationship. We talk about how to get in touch with your desires, release shame, and create emotional safety—whether you’re dating and want to prepare for intimacy while upholding your values or are already married and looking to deepen the connection. If you’ve ever wanted a healthier, more honest way to approach intimacy, this episode will speak to you.

The Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0

Book a free consultation call to learn more/apply:

https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall

Grab my Ultimate Clarity Checklist for Confident Dating Decisions:

https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/

About this episode:

Ever wanted to ask guys those questions but felt too awkward to say them out loud? In this episode, Yehuda and I dive into the questions dating women are too afraid to ask—covering everything from creepy date experiences to the quirks of the shidduch system, yeshiva guy struggles, gender roles, being a provider, ghosting, what men consider wife material and more. With a mix of humor and real talk, we break down what guys really think, what actually matters in dating, and how to navigate the weird, wonderful, and sometimes frustrating world of finding your person.

💬 Have a question you wish we answered? Drop it in the comments!

🎧 Listen now and get the clarity (and laughs) you need on your dating journey.