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After 27 years of marriage, we have learned that fighting is not only inevitable but it’s actually an important part of a healthy relationship. The key isn’t trying to avoid disagreements altogether, but learning how to navigate them in ways that bring us closer instead of tearing us apart. 

In this episode, we open up about our journey of learning to fight fair, the mistakes we’ve made along the way, and the powerful shifts that turned our conflicts from destructive battles into opportunities for deeper connection.

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In this special episode, we’re sharing our full love story. 

From the moment we met in junior high with a simple handshake to 27 years of marriage (and counting). We discuss how our friendship began, the letters we exchanged in school, our first slow dance, and the kiss that changed everything.

We reflect on everything from our first slow dance to renewing our vows 25 years later.   And how choosing each other young didn’t mean missing out. It meant growing up and growing closer. 

If you love a good love story, this one is for you. 

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What if the classic marriage advice we’ve all heard is just the beginning? In this episode, Joel and I dive into some of the most out-of-the-box tips our listeners have shared—and we’re giving our honest take on whether they helped or hurt our own relationship.

From surprising suggestions to unconventional truths, we're unpacking what actually works (and what doesn’t) when it comes to real-life love. If you’re over the one-size-fits-all advice and ready for something real, this episode is for you.

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What if everything you thought you knew about sexual desire was keeping you from the connection you truly want? 

In this deeply personal episode, we pull back the curtain on our journey through years of sexual disconnect and the breakthrough understanding that finally changed everything.

Drawing from Emily Nagoski's revolutionary books "Come As You Are" and "Come Together," we explore the game-changing concept of sexual "accelerators and brakes" – the hidden forces that either spark or stifle desire.

The most profound revelation? Sometimes, your biggest sexual brake might be your partner's approach or expectations. 

Whether you're struggling with mismatched desire or simply want to deepen your connection, this episode offers a path forward.

Ready to transform your intimate relationship? The understanding waiting in this episode might be exactly what you've been searching for all along.

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In this episode, we introduce the bold concept that is helping Tammy rediscover herself and her dreams.

We share how Tammy has spent most of her life putting herself on the back burner to help Joel and the kids reach their dreams.  Decades of this left her lost and feeling like she was a sailboat without wind.

But that has all changed.

Tune in to learn what changed everything for Tammy and how Joel is supporting her in her newfound purpose and direction.  

And discover a fresh idea to help us all chase our dreams like our time is limited. Because it is.

*** Update*** Since recording this episode Tammy has checked another thing off her list.  How to make focaccia :)  !!!!

Check out the reel that inspired Tammy to change everything.

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Sometimes, stepping back is necessary for growth. In this episode of the Married and Naked Podcast, we open up about the challenges that led to a much-needed break from social media and a nerve-wracking step into therapy. 

From navigating personal struggles with aging parents to strengthening our marriage, we share insights on balance, boundaries, and resilience. 

Tune in for an honest conversation about life’s unexpected turns and the power of self-care.

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As you all know, we have been on a long journey of repairing old wounds and building the marriage we have dreamed of.   But the question today is, once you have found your way back to marital happiness, how do you keep it there?

Today we are sharing with you three ways we protect our marriage from the things that hurt it in the past.

It takes guts to tackle the tough stuff in a relationship, and this episode is a tribute to those brave souls who do. We share a heartwarming story of a listener whose marriage found new life through the art of conversation, sparked by our very own podcast. We dissect what quality time really means — hint: it's more than just being in the same room. And for those who think couple's trips are off the table, we're here to tell you why they're non-negotiable for keeping the spark alive.

And, we're sending out a massive thank you to all our listeners for joining us on this journey. Your stories, insights, and heartfelt engagement are what make this podcast a community. So don't be shy – drop us a review and share your own experiences. Each episode is a new chapter in the book of love and marriage, and we can't wait to bring you along for the next page-turner where we'll continue to offer our unfiltered take on intimacy and marriage.

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Ever find yourself on a date night that's more squabble than sparkle? We certainly have.  
On this episode of the Married and Naked Podcast, we're letting you in on the secrets that switched our date nights from battlegrounds to bliss. 

We're talking about the game-changing playbook that we discovered that's allowed us to side-step the typical tiffs about the kids, the budget, and the never-ending to-do list and help us leave our date nights feeling close and connected.

Isn't that the whole point of date night anyway?

Discover our strategies for knocking date night out of the park.

Your marriage is worth it.  

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Join us, Tammy and Joel, as we peel back the curtain on family life, sharing the humor and hurdles of our daily dance with life, love, and arguments. 

Come with us through the maze of managing conflicts in relationships, drawing on our missteps and milestones. 

You'll hear how we're learning to swap the blame game for a mirror, looking inward to cultivate self-awareness and accountability. It's a raw and honest look at the tug-of-war between old habits and new resolutions, as we aspire to turn every "I'm sorry" into a stepping stone toward better communication.

 This episode is not just about recounting our squabbles but about uncovering the lessons within them. From navigating the rocky shores of defensiveness to the art of a well-timed timeout, we're here to share that even in the thick of it, laughter, love, and understanding can prevail. 

Tune in and let's navigate these waters together. 

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Today we are setting the record straight on the debate between ACCEPTANCE and SETTLING.

Let's clear it up now.

Acceptance, as we've discovered, is not about tolerating bad behavior or settling for less, but coming to terms with who your partner truly is. 

In this episode, we are talking candidly about our journey with acceptance and the role it has played in the transformation of our marriage.  

And we are debunking the misconception that acceptance means tolerating disrespect or abuse.  

Finally, we examine the importance of boundaries in relationships.

Settle in for a great discussion on a foundational pillar that saved our marriage. 

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