Can two walk together unless they are agreed? What happens when the person you once adored becomes the target of your constant criticism?

In Episode 7 of Ruth and Boaz, Rev. Sir Elorm explores the key dynamics that nurture lasting connection in marriage. Appreciation, he teaches, is a relational currency: when it is absent, relationships become a battlefield of unmet expectations and unspoken resentment.

He redefines unequal yoking not just as a difference in faith, but as a divergence of vision, emotional maturity, and mindset.

From the necessity of premarital and ongoing counsel to the importance of intellectual, psychological, and spiritual connection, amongst others, this episode provides the blueprint for a relationship that doesn’t just survive, but overflows with genuine joy, transparency, and mutual respect.

What to Expect:

• Pointers that your marriage is under attack
• Comparison as a hindrance to marital bliss
• Maintaining spiritual connection in relationships
• The problem with unequal yoking
• Facets of life to connect with your spouse on
• Prioritizing sincerity and transparency in marriage

Prepare for a practical and spiritually grounded session that equips believers to identify relational attacks, cultivate deeper connection, and safeguard the joy and intimacy of marriage.

Shalom! Maranatha!

How do you know if your relationship is under a spiritual attack or if you are simply with the wrong person? Why do so many men retreat into silence just when they should be stepping into leadership?

In this sixth instalment of the Ruth and Boaz series, Rev. Sir Elorm exposes the subtle signs of attack that drain the life out of a godly courtship. He addresses the crisis of the indecisive man—the one who keeps a woman in a loop of uncertainty—and explains why a man who isn’t concrete in his decision isn’t ready for marriage.

From the sudden loss of spiritual fervor to the paralyzing grip of Gamophobia, this session provides the discernment needed to fight for your peace.

Rev. Sir Elorm also dives into the practical gray areas of modern relationships: Should you have a joint bank account? How do you handle marital prophecies? And does a woman have to take her husband’s surname?

What to Expect:

• ​Intentional protection of personal peace
• ​Prayerful confrontation of attacks in relationships
• Why believers must marry believers
• ​Criteria for evaluating attraction
• ​Vital role of premarital counselling
• ​Perspectives on assuming a husband’s surname
• ​The right approach to marital prophecies
• ​Mandate to prioritise the holy over the common
• The place of wisdom in navigating relationships
• ​Dynamics of age disparities in relationships
• ​Guidelines for managing joint accounts
• ​Strategies for overcoming gamophobia (commitment fears)
• - ​Establishment of healthy relationship boundaries

Prepare for a session that combines high spiritual warfare with grounded, practical wisdom. It is time to stop being anxious and start being intentional about the boundaries of your covenant.

Shalom! Maranatha!

Does marriage cure unfaithfulness, or does it merely expose a lack of character? At what point does the bill of divorcement become a necessity, and when is it a sign of a hardened heart?

In this fifth instalment of the Ruth and Boaz series, Rev. Sir Elorm brings a sobering perspective to the permanence of covenant. He moves from the beauty of humble submission—where a woman’s exploits never become a weapon against her husband—to the raw realities of attraction.

This session provides a masterclass on the protocols of betrothal, dowry, and honoring authority. He explains that fornication extends beyond premarital relations into broader sexual immorality and even spiritual idolatry. If covenant is broken through unfaithfulness, what freedom remains for the injured party? What are the boundaries of authority in vows? And why must no one speak or vow themselves into rebellion against God?

From the biblical qualifications of bishops and deacons as husbands of one wife, to the deeper question of polygamy and God’s original design, this episode restores marriage to its sacred seriousness.

What to Expect:

• The power of humble submission in a wife
• The treasure in earthen vessels
• Having a standard as a woman
• The importance of attraction in marriage
• The difference between a wife and a concubine
• The difference between betrothal and dowry
• Issues around fornication, forgiveness and divorce
• The domain of authority in vows
• The importance of sex in marriage
• The mind of God on polygamy

Brace yourself for a session that strips away the fluff of modern dating and reinstates the weight of covenant. It is time to move from convenience to a commitment that reflects the faithfulness of God.

Shalom! Maranatha!

Did Eve meet Adam in idleness or did she find him already at work? Is a man’s readiness for marriage measured by his age, or by the laws he establishes for his household?

In this fourth instalment of the Ruth and Boaz series, Rev. Sir Elorm explores the essential markers of a man prepared for covenant. He teaches that a woman should never be brought into a “poor home” — not merely in financial terms, but in the poverty of vision, discipline, and character. Responsibility, he explains, is revealed in details.

He draws women into sober reflection by raising necessary questions: Can he account for what has been placed in his hands? Can he steward vision before he stewards a wife? Does he shift blame when pressure comes or does he stand as a pillar of ownership?

Rev. Sir Elorm delves into the priesthood of the man, explaining that a husband must be a teacher who works life into his woman — nurturing her through encouragement, instruction, and example until she flourishes in the strength of shared vision.

If submission feels like a burden, could it be because leadership has not made it natural and safe?

What to Expect:

• The man as vision bearer, provider, and protector
• The man’s role in building and nurturing the woman
• The priesthood of the man
• The man as a teacher and example of the Word
• The man’s independence and responsibility
• The man’s role in making submission natural and easy
• Asking the right questions during courtship

Prepare for a sobering and transformative session that calls men to maturity and women to discernment. It’s time to ask the right questions before entering the sacred bond of covenant.

Shalom! Maranatha!

Can a woman have a voice in a marriage built on submission? Is a man’s leadership a license for isolation, or a mandate for investment?

In this third instalment of the Ruth and Boaz series, Rev. Sir Elorm addresses the identity crises that often plague modern unions. He challenges the man not to be intimidated by his wife’s exploits, explaining that true leadership is not about silencing a woman’s voice, but about providing the covering where her opinions can flourish into shared decisions.

Rev. Sir Elorm introduces three critical plumb lines for order: Apostolic Administration, Customs and Traditions, and Scriptural Doctrine. Through these, he explains how to navigate cultural traditions without compromising divine truth.

From the controversial context of women keeping silent to the significance of symbolic adornments like the nose ring, this session brings historical clarity to modern confusion.

What to Expect:

• The demands of the man in a relationship
• The link between mission and submission
• The frailties of humanity
• The expressions of love
• Practising shared decision making
• Being considerate in relationships
• Apostolic administration, customs and traditions, and the doctrine of scripture
• Dealing with the issue of marriage
• The authority of the man over the wife
• God, the husband and the wife
• The significance of a nose ring
• Understanding submission in marriage

Prepare for a session that moves beyond the surface of “rules” and into the heart of divine intelligence, fostering homes where both mission and submission thrive in harmony.

Shalom! Maranatha!

How should a woman handle issues in her home in light of her submission to the Lord and to her husband? Is the “chase” a romantic necessity or a dangerous game that defies spiritual law?

In this second instalment of the Ruth and Boaz series, Rev. Sir Elorm brings vital clarity to the protocols of the Kingdom. He dismantles the modern “hard-to-get” philosophy, revealing that while a man should entice and engage, a woman is called to a Sub-Mission—a mission that exists under the primary vision she has chosen to run with.

Rev. Sir Elorm journeys through the Torah to explain the shift of authority from a father to a husband. He explores the weight of a man’s “super-authority,” not as a tool for lordship, but as a spiritual law of protection and provision. Does a woman lose her power in submission, or is submission actually the ultimate declaration of her power?

From the mystery of the Proverbs 31 woman to the significance of betrothal, this episode challenges women to build such immense value that they become a prize to be discerned, and men to become leaders so submitted to Christ that their wives find it easy to trust their direction.

What to Expect:

• Embracing God’s standard
• Understanding the true concept of submission
• The distinction between a wife and a virgin
• The Authority of a father and the authority of a husband over a woman
• Marriage as a vision, and an Identity
• Submission as a declaration of a woman’s power
• An analysis of the proverbs 31 woman
• Why a woman must build value

Prepare for a session that bridges the gap between ancient Torah principles and modern relational wisdom. It is time to align with the ordinances of God to experience the peace of God.

Shalom! Maranatha!

What is the defining quality of a man truly ready for covenant? When God declared it was not good for man to be alone, was He speaking of mere company, or the necessity of a shared mission?

In this opening episode of the Ruth and Boaz series, Rev. Sir Elorm strips away modern sentiment to reveal the raw architecture of divine partnership. He explores the masculine principle of authority and vision versus the feminine principle of servanthood and submission. In a generation that resists these distinctions, have we unknowingly rebelled against the very order that sustains us?

Is every female a wife, or is a "wife" a specific stature a woman is built into?

If a man is defined not by biological fatherhood but by the weight of his vision, can a woman truly submit where she cannot follow? If the relationship between a husband and wife mirrors that of Christ and the Church, what does a woman’s resistance reveal about her trust in God?

What to Expect:

• A Help Meet
• The feminine and masculine principles
• Finding contentment with just being a woman: a help meet
• Defining men by their visions
• Submitting under a man’s vision as unto The Lord
• Loyalty as a distinctive quality of a wife
• Essential demands to see in a woman

Prepare for a bold, scripture-grounded, and deeply revelatory session that restores marriage to its original design. It is time to determine if you are prepared for covenant or merely craving companionship.

Shalom! Maranatha!

In this episode, Sir Elorm offers practical wisdom for staying rooted in the place of prayer. Prayer is not measured by duration but by burdens caught — the depth of communion that transforms a man.

Have you been asking questions about prayer and seeking clearer understanding? This episode includes a Q&A segment that may capture some of the very questions you’ve always wanted answers to.

You will learn practical principles for building stamina in prayer — from setting a structure and staying focused, to praying effectively and with confidence. Discover how to pray according to the will of God, plead His promises, and approach Him with a clear conscience and boldness as a son.

In this teaching, confidence in prayer is restored, faith is rekindled, and the believer is stirred to pray with revelation and rest.

What to Expect:

- Practical wisdom for staying in the place of prayer (Q&A inclusive)

- Building to stretch in prayer

- How to pray effectively

- Why you should be confident in the place of prayer

As you listen, may your faith be strengthened, your discipline renewed, and your confidence in God’s faithfulness deepened.

Shalom! Maranatha!

In this episode, Sir Elorm unfolds the depths of prayer in the Spirit — the prayer of the heart. He distinguishes between praying with your spirit and praying in the Spirit, revealing that while praying with the spirit deals with other tongues, praying in the Spirit captures the inward posture of the heart aligned with God.

Groaning, often misunderstood, is not a prayer language but the deep sigh of creation under corruption — an awareness of pain and imperfection awaiting redemption. The Spirit makes intercession with such groanings, working beyond words towards the end of adoption into divinity.

You will also learn how praying in tongues brings personal edification and entrance into divine mysteries, while Paul’s instructions help us understand order in corporate worship. The episode also highlights the hindrances to effective prayer such as unforgiveness, unbelief, doubt, laziness, and wrong motives.

What to Expect:

- The prayer of the heart

- Making all prayer in the Spirit

- Definition of groaning and its scriptural interpretation

- Debunking groaning as a mode of tongue-speaking

- Personal edification and coming into mysteries by praying in tongues

- Paul’s instructions on communal worship with speaking in tongues

- The relevance of corporate prayer

- Hindrances of effective prayer

In this session, learn to make prayer not only a language but a life — one where your heart beats with the burdens of God and your spirit aligns with His will.

Shalom! Maranatha!

In this episode, Sir Elorm unveils the mystery of harnessing divine power through prayer, introducing the believer to the dynamics of spiritual energy, submission, and transformation in the place of communion. Prayer does not only build capacity; it disciplines the soul, refines the body, and energizes the environment.

Have you desired to build capacity in prayer? Do you know that your confessions without prayer are powerless? The soul was forged in fire—and the only way to stay alive in God is to stay on fire through prayer. In this session, you will discover how prayer activates divine power, enforces godly submission, and awakens spiritual consciousness.

We also begin our exploration into the mystery of tongues—understanding the difference between allos glossa and heteros glossa, “new tongues,” and the spiritual reality behind the Acts 2 experience. You will learn that speaking in tongues is not merely utterance but a participation in the language of heaven and of creation itself.

What to Expect:

- Harnessing the power within by prayer

- Effecting godly submission and consciousness by prayer

- Beating your body in prayer

- Energizing your environment by prayer

- Introduction to the concept of tongue speaking

- Deeper insight to “new tongues”

- Appreciating the truth behind the Acts 2 experience

- Other tongues; Allos glossa vs Heteros glossa

- Diverse kinds of tongues—the tongue of all creation

- Cultivating the habit of speaking in tongues

In this teaching, encounter prayer as the furnace that keeps the soul aflame, the discipline that yields to divine utterance, and the gateway into the mysteries of the Spirit.

Stay burning. Stay praying. Shalom! Maranatha!