Hey y’all! There’s some confusion about what the purpose of Onlyfans is so I hope this clears things up. Enjoy!

Hey y’all! In this episode I hash out some thoughts on decentering romance and investing time and energy into other meaningful relationships

Hey y’all. There as an overwhelming sense that we use “black” as a synonym for “poor” or “working class”. These are some of my incomplete thoughts on the danger of assuming that all black people share a kinship based on past/present class status 

Hey y’all. In yet another episode of Tiktok being the bad place I think through messaging on the platform that drives transphobia. Enjoy (or not)!

Hey y'all! The "broke n*ggas don't get p*ssy" and "Indoda must" discourse has gotten out of hand and I've had it. Enjoy!

Hey y'all! In this episode I make the case that meeting people through dating apps is very "normal" and should not carry any shame. Enjoy!

Hey y'all! In this first episode of 2022 I speak about why I think labels that describe a person's sexual orientation are not useful and should be abolished. Thanks for listening.

Hey y'all! After reading The Right To Sex by Amia Srinivasan I wanted to share my thoughts about certain desires and kinks (maybe I shouldn't be using this word) that I think should be policed and shamed. Enjoy!

Hey y'all! After watching three episodes of Temptation Island SA last year, I woke up one day and decided to record a brief first thoughts episode. The series has already ended but I decided to release this anyway. Enjoy!

Hey y'all! There's a whole industry of prophets, sangomas and other people with an ancestral calling operating on TikTok and Twitter. I have some concerns about this and I work through some of these in this episode. Enjoy!