The Messy Podcast

In this episode of The Messy Podcast, Scott Mehl interviews Demetrius Nathan on the power of peer pressure on others.

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Resources:

For kids:

Discipleship Explored Handbook by Barry Cooper, https://www.amazon.com/Discipleship-Explored-Handbook-Whats-youve/dp/1784982024

This Changes Everything by Jaquelle Crow, https://www.amazon.com/This-Changes-Everything-Gospel-Transforms/dp/143355514X

What Do People Think of Me? Why Do I Care? by Ed Welch, https://www.amazon.com/What-You-Think-Why-Care/dp/1935273868

When People are Big and God is Small by Ed Welch, https://www.amazon.com/When-People-Are-Big-Small/dp/0875526004

Don’t Waste Your Life by John Piper, https://www.amazon.com/Dont-Waste-Your-Life-Piper/dp/1581344988

For parents:

Age of Opportunity by Paul Tripp, https://www.amazon.com/Age-Opportunity-Biblical-Parenting-Resources/dp/0875526055

Discipleship Explored Leader’s Handbook by Barry Cooper, https://www.amazon.com/Discipleship-Explored-Leaders-Handbook-Whats/dp/1784982032

Who Am I? Identity in Christ by Jerry Bridges, https://www.amazon.com/Who-Am-I-Identity-Christ/dp/1936760479

Gen Z: The Culture, Beliefs and Motivation Shaping the Next Generation by Barna Group, https://www.amazon.com/Gen-Culture-Beliefs-Motivations-Generation/dp/1945269138

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In this episode of The Messy Podcast, Scott Mehl interviews Jim Newheiser about people struggling with overwhelming debt.

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Resources:

Money, Debt & Finances by Jim Newheiser, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08Z49J6CG/ref=dbsadefrwthschvapitkinp1i2

Money: Seeking God’s Wisdom (31-Day Devotionals for Life) by Jim Newhieiser, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07YL68HWT/ref=dbsadefrwthschvapitkinp1i11

Money, Possessions and Eternity by Randy Alcorn, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FCKCJM/ref=dbsadefrwthschvapitkinp1i3

The Treasure Principle by Randy Alcorn, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B007M2AOGY/ref=dbsadefrwthschvapitkinp1i1

Managing God’s Money by Randy Alcorn, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004MPRVP6/ref=dbsadefrwthschvapitkinp1i4

When the Money Runs Out by James Petty, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B088JMD5ZX/ref=dbsadefrwthschvapitkinp1i0

Act of Grace by James Petty, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B082BDJT9P/ref=dbsadefrwthschvapitkinp1i1

Crown Ministries website, https://www.crown.org/

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In this episode of The Messy Podcast, Scott Mehl interviews Diane Langberg on how to help the traumatized.

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Resources:

On the Threshold of Hope: Opening the Door to Healing for Survivors of Sexual Abuse: https://www.amazon.com/Threshold-Hope-Aacc-Counseling-Library/dp/0842343628

Is It Abuse?: A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims: https://www.amazon.com/s?i=stripbooks&rh=p27%3ADarby+Strickland&s=relevancerank&text=Darby+Strickland&ref=dpbylinesrbook_1

Healing the Wounds of Trauma: https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Wounds-Trauma-Harriet-Hill/dp/194144900X

Counseling Survivors of Sexual Abuse: https://www.amazon.com/Counseling-Survivors-Sexual-Abuse-Library/dp/1591605199

Suffering in the Heart of God: How Trauma Destroys and Christ Restores: https://www.amazon.com/Suffering-Heart-God-Destroys-Restores/dp/1942572026

Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence - from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror: https://www.amazon.com/Trauma-Recovery-Aftermath-Violence-Political/dp/0465087302

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In this episode of The Messy Podcast, Scott Mehl interviews Darby Strickland on the intricacies of abuse.

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Resources:

Darby Strickland – Is it Abuse: A Biblical Guide to Identifying Domestic Abuse and Helping Victims

Darby Strickland – Domestic Abuse: Help for the Sufferer

Chris Moles - The Heart of Domestic Abuse

Justin and Lindsay Holcomb – Is it My Fault?

Joy Forrest – Called to Peace: A Survivor’s Guide to Finding Peace

Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson – When Home Hurts

Diane Langberg – Suffering and the Heart of God

Church Cares Curriculum

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In this episode of The Messy Podcast, Scott Mehl interviews Craig Marshall about how the Gospel applies to toxic leadership.

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Resources:

Darby Strickland – Is it Abuse

Chris Moles - The Heart of Domestic Abuse

Elyse Fitzpatrick and Eric Shumacher – Worthy

IBCD Observation Videos – Domestic Abuse

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In this episode of The Messy Podcast, Scott Mehl interviews Tim St. John about the complexities of shame culture.

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Resources:

Shame Interrupted by Ed Welch, https://www.amazon.com/Shame-Interrupted-Lifts-Worthlessness-Rejection/dp/1935273981

The Gospel for Shame blog post by Ed Welch, https://www.ccef.org/shame/

Lighthouse Church South Bay counseling resources, https://lighthousesouthbay.org/ministries/counseling/counselor-resources/

Lighthouse Church South Bay study guide: Caring For One Another, https://lighthousesouthbay.org/our-resources/?resourcetypefilter=study-guides&series_filter=caring-for-one-another

A Small Book About Why We Hide: How Jesus Rescues Us From Insecurity, Regret, Failure and Shame by Ed Welch, https://www.amazon.com/Small-Book-about-Why-Hide/dp/1645071413

How Asian Americans Misunderstand Shame blog post by Fred Mok, https://sola.network/article/asian-americans-misunderstand-shame/

Distinguishing Between Guilt and Guilt blog post by Robert Jones, https://www.biblicalcounselingcoalition.org/2017/07/18/distinguishing-between-guilt-and-guilt/

How Do You Respond to People Who Feel Shame? by Winston Smith, https://www.ccef.org/how-do-you-respond-people-who-feel-shame/

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In this episode of The Messy Podcast, Scott Mehl interviews José González about undocumented immigrants in the United States.

In this episode of *The Messy Podcast, *Scott Mehl interviews Julie Lowe about how to help children with anxiety.

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Resources:

Good News for Little Hearts by various, https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08V3524VJ?searchxofy=true&binding=kindle_edition&qid=1641424593&sr=1-2

When People are Big and God is Small by Ed Welch, https://www.amazon.com/When-People-Are-Big-Small/dp/0875526004

What Do People Think of Me? Why Do I Care? by Ed Welch, https://www.amazon.com/What-You-Think-Why-Care/dp/1935273868

New Growth Press resources, https://newgrowthpress.com/julie-lowe/

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In this episode of The Messy Podcast, Scott Mehl interviews Shannon McCoy about the unique struggles of overeating.

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Resources:

Help! I’m a Slave to Food by Shannon McCoy, https://www.amazon.com/Help-Slave-Food-Life-Line-Mini-Books/dp/1633420272

God’s Answer to Overeating: A Study of Scriptural Attitudes by Ann Thomas Betea, https://www.amazon.com/Gods-Answer-Overeating-Ann-Thomas/dp/0930756150

Uncommon Vessels: A Program for Developing Godly Eating Habits by Elyse Fitzpatrick, https://www.amazon.com/Uncommon-Vessels-Program-Developing-Eating/dp/1889032271

The Heart of Addiction: A Biblical Perspective by Mark Shaw, https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Addiction-Biblical-Perspective/dp/1885904681

Addictions: A Banquet in the Grave by Ed Welch, https://www.amazon.com/Addictions-Banquet-Edward-T-Welch-ebook/dp/B0073M6A16

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In the first episode of *The Messy Podcast, *Scott Mehl interviews Deepak Reju about the unique struggles of pornography addiction.

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Resources:

For Men:

Closing the Window by Tim Chester, https://www.amazon.com/Closing-Window-Steps-Living-Porn/dp/0830838422

Hide or Seek by John Freeman, https://www.amazon.com/Hide-Seek-When-Real-About/dp/1939946638

Finally Free by Heath Lambert, https://www.amazon.com/Finally-Free-Fighting-Purity-Power/dp/0310499232

Sexual Sanity for Men by David White, https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Sanity-Men-Re-creating-Culture/dp/1936768992

For Women:

Sexual Sanity for Women by Ellen Dykas, https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Sanity-Women-Relational-Brokenness/dp/1938267001

Purity is Possible by Helen Thorne, https://www.amazon.com/Purity-Possible-Helen-Thorne/dp/1909919845

For All:

Making All Things New by David Powlison, https://www.amazon.com/Making-All-Things-New-Restoring/dp/1433556146

What’s Wrong with a Little Porn When You’re Married by R. Nicholas Black, https://www.amazon.com/Whats-Wrong-Little-Youre-Married/dp/1936768941

What’s Wrong with a Little Porn When You’re Single by R. Nicholas Black, https://www.amazon.com/Whats-Wrong-Little-Youre-Single-ebook/dp/B06XT4WWJZ

Coming Clean, Breaking Pornography’s Hold on You by David Powlison, https://www.amazon.com/Coming-Clean-Breaking-Pornographys-Hold-ebook/dp/B007E60AU8

Sexual Addiction: Freedom from Compulsive Behavior by David Powlison, https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Addiction-Freedom-Compulsive-Behavior/dp/1935273760

It’s All About Me: The Problem with Masturbation by Winston Smith,

Help! He’s Struggling with Pornography by Brian Croft,

For Teenagers:

Changes: 7 Biblical Lessons to Make Sense of Puberty by Luke Gilkerson, https://www.amazon.com/Changes-Biblical-Lessons-Sense-Puberty/dp/1518631681

The Talk: 7 Lessons to Introduce Your Child to Biblical Sexuality by Luke Gilkerson, https://www.amazon.com/Talk-Lessons-Introduce-Biblical-Sexuality/dp/1500659444

Thoughts for Young Men by JC Ryle, https://www.amazon.com/Thoughts-Young-Men-J-C-Ryle/dp/0967760399

Mom, Dad…What’s Sex? by Joel Fitzpatrick and Jessica Thompson, https://www.amazon.com/Mom-Dad-Whats-Sex-Gospel-Centered/dp/0736972668

The God’s Design for Sex series by various,

For Disciplers / Counselors / Parents:

Rescue Plan: Charting a Course to Restore Prisoners of Pornography by Deepak Reju, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09LD9ZT2S/ref=dbsadefrwthschvapitkinp1i1

Pornography: Fighting for Purity (31-Day Devotionals for Life) by Deepak Reju, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07HPDYJLH/ref=dbsadefrwthschvapitkinp1i4

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