No no no i am in no way shape or form trying to be a dating coach but as a Fan of psychology I always wondered why people don't deep dive into this with courting
The diagnosing of an ex as a narcissist by a non clinical expert is one of the most widely abused use of a medical diagnosis in our culture. I have my own model based off human consciousness which I call the "mirror" and "galaxy"
Too many of us have a deluded world view and expectations of our outcomes in life. Stepping back and being more realistic gives you the opportunity for real fulfillment