🚀 Episode 9 of The Modern Man Podcast 🚀🎙️ Season One FinaleEvery season deserves reflection.In this final episode of Season One, Hamza Idris is interviewed by his wife, Davina Oriakhi‑Idris, in an honest, unfiltered wrap-up of the journey so far.Together, they reflect on the conversations, the lessons, the growth, and the tension behind the scenes of building The Modern Man Podcast while navigating work, faith, marriage, leadership, and personal responsibility.This is not a highlight reel.It’s a debrief.A mirror.And a moment of gratitude and grounding before what comes next.This episode is for anyone who has followed the season, supported quietly, or is curious about the heart behind the platform.🔑 What you’ll take from this episode:• Why Season One needed to exist• The unexpected lessons from the guests• What challenged Hamza the most personally• Balancing ambition, faith, marriage, and rest• Where ego showed up and where humility was required• What Season Two will build on, not repeat💬 “This season wasn’t about having answers. It was about asking better questions.”⏱️ Episode Chapters00:00 Why a Season One wrap-up mattered02:10 Introducing Davina and switching roles05:40 How The Modern Man Podcast was conceived11:30 The original vision and early resistance17:20 Lessons that emerged across the season23:40 Conversations that challenged Hamza the most30:10 Masculinity, responsibility, and emotional honesty37:50 Faith, grounding, and staying aligned under pressure46:30 Marriage, support, and building alongside your spouse55:10 Burnout, capacity, and learning to slow down1:04:20 Creative doubt, discipline, and consistency1:13:00 How Season One changed Hamza personally1:22:40 Gratitude for guests, listeners, and community1:30:30 What Season Two will build on1:38:50 Advice to men walking a similar path1:46:10 Final reflections and closing the season📌 Mentioned in this Episode🎶 Check out Preyé’s music:⁠Preyé’s Live Show⁠: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jQG4A9qb4nA&ab_channel=Prey%C3%A9⁠Preyé on Spotify⁠: https://open.spotify.com/artist/6dbTmlL5brq9B2fkUj2MQD?si=ahRPMnYVRkeBCZPCF7-7gQ🎧 Listen & SubscribeApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-modern-man-podcast/id1784333559Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4v7TSM63Rhmdd4GxpUlIEaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tmm_pod?sub_confirmation=1Website: http://www.tmmpodcast.com🎙️ About The Modern Man PodcastHonest conversations about masculinity, mental health, work, faith, and the human experience.Less noise. More truth.#modernmanpodcast #seasonfinale #reflection #modernmasculinity #faithandlife #growthjourney #marriageandpurpose #menswork

🚀 Episode 8 of The Modern Man Podcast 🚀What happens when the working years slow down and the noise quiets?In this episode, Hamza Idris is joined by Ken Kelling for a thoughtful conversation about ageing, purpose, identity, and redefining life after work.Ken brings decades of leadership experience and personal reflection to explore how men can age with intention rather than fear, and why retirement should be seen as a transition, not an ending.This is not a conversation about giving up.It’s about recalibration.Perspective.And learning how to live well in every season of life.This episode is for anyone thinking about legacy, longevity, and what it means to remain useful, grounded, and connected as life evolves.🔑 What you’ll take from this episode:• Why ageing should be approached with purpose, not anxiety• The identity shift many men struggle with after work• How to redefine success beyond productivity• The importance of curiosity, learning, and service later in life• Why community and contribution matter more with age• How to prepare emotionally, not just financially, for retirement💬 “Ageing well is less about slowing down and more about choosing wisely.”⏱️ Episode Chapters00:00 Reframing ageing as a new season01:14 Welcome & introducing Ken Kelling03:40 Ken’s career journey and leadership lessons06:55 Identity, work, and the danger of over-identification10:30 The emotional reality of retirement14:10 Redefining success beyond productivity18:25 Purpose, service, and staying useful22:40 Curiosity, learning, and personal growth with age27:05 Community, loneliness, and connection31:30 Health, routine, and ageing well36:20 Mentorship, legacy, and giving back41:10 Faith, reflection, and perspective over time46:00 What Ken wishes he knew earlier49:30 Advice for men approaching later seasons of life52:40 Final reflections on ageing with grace🎧 Listen & SubscribeApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-modern-man-podcast/id1784333559Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4v7TSM63Rhmdd4GxpUlIEaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tmm_pod?sub_confirmation=1Website: http://www.tmmpodcast.com🎙️ About The Modern Man PodcastHonest conversations about masculinity, mental health, work, faith, and the human experience.Less noise. More truth.#modernmanpodcast #ageingwithgrace #retirementlife #menspurpose #legacy #modernmasculinity #lifetransitions #emotionalmaturity #faithandlife

🚀 Episode 7 of The Modern Man Podcast 🚀What does it actually take to raise a good man?In this deeply personal episode, Hamza Idris sits down with his mum, Stella Idris, for an honest, reflective conversation about motherhood, values, discipline, faith, and responsibility.This is not a polished parenting manual.It’s a real conversation about sacrifice.Character.Integrity.And what mothers hope their sons carry into the world.From growing up in Nigeria to sending her only son abroad at 16, Stella shares the principles she believes shape boys into grounded, responsible men — and where modern parenting often loses its way.This episode is for sons.For parents.And for anyone reflecting on who helped shape the man they are today.🔑 What you’ll take from this episode:• The values that matter most when raising boys• Why integrity outlives talent and success• The danger of over-protecting male children• Responsibility, discipline, and emotional maturity• Cultural expectations of men and their hidden cost• When sons must stop blaming parents and grow💬 “If you don’t own anything in this life, own your integrity.”⏱️ Episode Chapters00:00 A conversation worth having01:18 Introducing my mum, Stella Idris03:00 Sending a 16-year-old abroad05:56 Fear, prayer, and letting go07:35 Responsibility, discipline, and chores10:45 Integrity as a core value14:20 Leadership, urgency, and character15:22 When children are ready to leave home18:05 Parenting wins, struggles, and lessons20:34 Raising sons vs daughters today23:02 Healthy boundaries between mothers and sons25:40 Preparing boys for relationships29:10 Why male children are often neglected32:20 When adults must take responsibility35:18 Pressure, provision, and masculinity39:00 Discipline, values, and integrity45:00 Being present as a parent46:17 What she’s most proud of49:20 Final reflections and gratitude🎧 Listen & SubscribeApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-modern-man-podcast/id1784333559Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4v7TSM63Rhmdd4GxpUlIEaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tmm_pod?sub_confirmation=1Website: http://www.tmmpodcast.com🎙️ About The Modern Man PodcastHonest conversations about masculinity, mental health, work, faith, and the human experience.Less noise. More truth.#modernmanpodcast #motherandson #raisingmen #parentingboys #integrity #masculinity #familyvalues #emotionalmaturity #faithandlife #modernmasculinity

🚀 Episode 6 of The Modern Man Podcast 🚀Burnout is no longer an individual failure.It’s a cultural problem.In this episode, Hamza Idris is joined by Dr. Matt Slavin to unpack the growing burnout epidemic affecting men and why so many are silently struggling.Dr. Slavin brings clinical insight and real-world perspective to explore how modern pressures, emotional suppression, work culture, and identity expectations are colliding to impact men’s mental health.This is not a conversation about weakness.It’s about awareness.Prevention.And learning how to recognise the signs before burnout becomes breakdown.This episode is for men who feel constantly tired, emotionally flat, disconnected, or quietly overwhelmed and for anyone who wants to understand what’s really going on beneath the surface.🔑 What you’ll take from this episode: • What burnout actually is and how it differs from stress • Why men often miss the early warning signs • The role of identity, purpose, and pressure • How emotional suppression shows up physically • Why rest alone doesn’t fix burnout • Practical steps toward sustainable mental health • How to ask for help without losing your sense of self💬 “Burnout isn’t about doing too much. It’s about carrying too much for too long without support.”⏱️ Episode Chapters00:00 The burnout epidemic and why it’s misunderstood01:18 Welcome & introducing Dr. Matt Slavin03:10 What burnout really is (and what it isn’t)06:45 Stress, exhaustion, and emotional shutdown10:22 Why men ignore early warning signs14:05 Identity, responsibility, and silent pressure18:40 Emotional suppression and physical symptoms23:15 Work culture, performance, and masculinity28:10 Why rest alone doesn’t solve burnout32:45 The role of purpose, values, and alignment38:20 Seeking help without shame or loss of identity44:10 What recovery actually looks like50:30 Preventing burnout before it returns56:00 Final reflections and advice to the modern man#modernmanpodcast #mensmentalhealth #burnoutepidemic #mentalhealthawareness #modernmasculinity #emotionalhealth #workstress #mentalwellbeing #faithandlife

🚀 Episode 5 of The Modern Man Podcast 🚀As artificial intelligence reshapes how we live, work, and buy, one question matters more than ever: what happens to the human experience?In this episode, Hamza Idris is joined by Howard Saunders, one of the UK’s leading retail futurists, to explore the future of commerce, creativity, and connection in an AI-driven world.Howard brings decades of insight from retail design, trend-hunting, and global brand strategy to unpack how AI is changing not just technology, but behaviour, expectation, and culture.This is not a fear-driven conversation.It’s about perspective.Creativity.And why human connection may become our most valuable currency.🔑 What you’ll take from this episode: • Why AI is a platform, not just a tool • How retail is shifting from products to stories • The future of immersive and experience-led commerce • Why creativity is becoming more accessible than ever • How AI may “lubricate” daily life for better and worse • Why human warmth, presence, and honesty will matter more, not less • What businesses and individuals must understand to stay relevant💬 “The more our lives are lubricated by intelligence, the more we’ll crave humanity.”⏱️ Episode Chapters:00:00 Retail as storytelling and immersive experience00:36 Welcome and introduction to Howard Saunders03:21 Howard’s journey into design, retail, and futurism07:00 What retail design really means for people10:13 AI as a platform, not just a tool12:50 Creativity, fear, and embracing technological change15:00 AI, content creation, and creative freedom19:00 Immersive futures and experience-led commerce23:51 AI, personal data, and “lubricated” daily life29:02 Why retail still doesn’t truly know its customers30:42 Cities, flagship spaces, and the future of high streets34:52 Human connection as future currency40:41 What leaders and businesses must understand now46:34 Career pivots, contrarian thinking, and fulfilment53:59 Final advice to the modern man#modernmanpodcast #artificialintelligence #humanconnection #futureofcommerce #retailfuturist #technologyandsociety #creativityandai #modernmasculinity #futurethinking

🚀 Episode 4 of The Modern Man Podcast 🚀Healthy relationships don’t start with finding the right person.They start with becoming the right person.In this episode, Hamza Idris is joined by John Kenny to explore what actually makes relationships work and why many break down long before they need to.John brings a unique perspective shaped by his journey as an athlete, firefighter, therapist, and coach, offering grounded insight into emotional responsibility, communication, and personal growth.This is not a conversation about perfection or having it all figured out.It’s about awareness.Communication.Emotional responsibility.And learning how to show up well for others without losing yourself.This episode is for anyone reflecting on their friendships, romantic relationships, family dynamics, or their own patterns in connection.🔑 What you’ll take from this episode: • Why healthy relationships are built, not found • How unmet expectations quietly damage connection • The difference between communication and emotional dumping • Why self-work is relational work • How to take responsibility without self-blame • What it means to love others from a place of wholeness💬 “You can’t build something healthy while avoiding the work within yourself.”⏱️ Episode Chapters:00:00 A holistic view of self and relationships00:44 Welcome & introducing John Kenny03:47 John’s journey: athlete, firefighter, therapist, coach07:54 Attraction, trauma, and unhealthy patterns12:00 Understanding desire, self-worth, and what we attract14:06 First dates, authenticity, and being yourself21:23 Friendships, intimacy, and not making one person everything27:30 Boundaries, balance, and respect in relationships30:26 Long-distance relationships and emotional availability32:33 Healthy friendships, values, and cutting ties when needed35:09 Conflict resolution, communication, and emotional intelligence39:07 Knowing when to walk away39:44 Holistic wellbeing: mind, body, and identity43:11 Fitness, habits, and sustainable health49:55 Confidence, self-acceptance, and realistic expectations52:40 What John wishes he knew earlier55:24 Final advice to the modern man56:26 Closing remarks#modernmanpodcast #healthyrelationships #emotionalmaturity #menandrelationships #communicationinskills#selfawareness #personalgrowth #modernmasculinity #emotionalhealth #faithandlife

🚀 Episode 3 of The Modern Man Podcast 🚀In this episode, Hamza Idris explores what it really means to remain standing when life applies pressure.This is a conversation about resilience that goes beyond motivation quotes and surface-level positivity. It’s about the internal work required to endure loss, disappointment, responsibility, and seasons that don’t make sense.An unbreakable spirit isn’t about never feeling weak.It’s about choosing not to quit.Not to harden.Not to lose yourself in the process.This episode speaks to men who are carrying weight quietly and learning how to stay grounded without becoming numb.🔑 What you’ll take from this episode: • What resilience actually looks like in real life • Why pressure doesn’t always mean you’re failing • The difference between endurance and suppression • How identity shapes how you respond to adversity • Why restraint is sometimes the strongest response • How to keep your spirit intact through hard seasons💬 “Strength isn’t always in the response. Sometimes it’s in the restraint.”⏱️ Episode Chapters:00:00 Seasons, suffering, and why pain can feel permanent01:21 Welcome & introducing Winston Ben Clemens02:36 Growing up with brittle bone disease05:49 Redefining resilience through repeated adversity07:23 Family support, freedom, and learning independence10:14 Community, belonging, and finding people like you14:10 Male friendships, vulnerability, and shared spaces17:44 Identity, self-worth, and becoming comfortable with yourself27:44 Inspiring one billion people and creating ripple effects33:36 Burnout, delegation, and focusing on your zone of genius43:16 Inclusion at work and building environments that listen52:19 What Winston wishes he knew earlier55:01 Final advice to the modern man🎧 Listen & SubscribeApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-modern-man-podcast/id1784333559Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4v7TSM63Rhmdd4GxpUlIEaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tmm_pod?sub_confirmation=1Website: http://www.tmmpodcast.com🎙️ About The Modern Man PodcastHonest conversations about masculinity, mental health, work, faith, and the human experience.Less noise. More truth.#modernmanpodcast #resilience #innerstrength #modernmasculinity #mentalhealthformen #faithandlife #emotionalstrength #personalgrowth #menandwork

🚀 Episode 2 of The Modern Man Podcast 🚀In this episode, Hamza Idris sits down with Peter Foresaw, a veteran recruiter with over two decades of experience and founder of Maxwell Stevens, to unpack what really happens behind the scenes of the job market.This conversation is for anyone navigating uncertainty at work or searching for their next role.It’s not about hacks or shortcuts.It’s about clarity.Perspective.And making smarter career decisions in a noisy market.Peter shares honest insights on CVs, recruiters, AI, job hopping, work life balance, and how to stay grounded when the job search feels overwhelming.🔑 What you’ll learn in this episode: • Why most CVs fail to stand out and how to fix it • The truth about CV writers and career coaches • How recruiters really use AI • Whether job hopping actually hurts your career • What to do if you hate your job but can’t quit yet • How to stay motivated during a long job search • How to spot good recruiters vs bad ones • Why thinking time matters more than ever💬 “Don’t hesitate. Learn as much as you can. Be nice to people and bring others up.”⏱️ Episode Chapters:00:00 A recruiter’s perspective on the job market01:12 Welcome & introduction to Peter Foresaw03:30 Peter’s journey into recruitment05:40 How recruitment and expectations have changed08:00 AI, CVs, and standing out in applications11:55 The truth about CV writers and coaches14:10 Job hopping vs loyalty17:00 What to do if you hate your job20:30 Recruiter ghosting and building trust23:50 Is recruitment a good career27:00 Why companies use agencies30:40 Salary transparency explained33:00 Work life balance and thinking time35:15 Final advice to the modern man🎧 Listen & SubscribeApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-modern-man-podcast/id1784333559Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4v7TSM63Rhmdd4GxpUlIEaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tmm_pod?sub_confirmation=1Website: http://www.tmmpodcast.com🎙️ About The Modern Man PodcastHonest conversations about masculinity, mental health, work, faith, and the human experience.Less noise. More truth.#modernmanpodcast #jobsearchadvice #careergrowth #recruitmentinsights #cvadvice #jobmarket #careerconfidence #worklifebalance #menandwork #modernmasculinity

🚀 Episode 1 of The Modern Man Podcast 🚀In this opening episode, Hamza Idris sits down with Christian Faulkner, an experienced Account Director, to unpack what real success in sales and career growth actually looks like.This episode explores sales confidence, career transitions, leadership, and modern masculinity in the workplace.This is not about scripts, pressure tactics, or people-pleasing.It’s about confidence.Boundaries.Listening.And becoming a trusted advisor rather than a yes-man.Christian shares honest insights on career transitions, self-doubt, masculinity at work, and why being yourself is not a weakness but your edge.🔑 What you’ll learn in this episode: • Why “the customer is always right” can destroy respect • How to build genuine client relationships without people-pleasing • Navigating career changes with confidence, not fear • The role of listening in leadership and sales • How modern masculinity shows up in the workplace • Why you are probably more capable than you think“Don’t forget to be yourself. As much as you might not think it, you are good enough.”⏱️ Episode Chapters:00:00 Stop being a yes-man in sales01:12 Welcome to The Modern Man Podcast01:34 Introducing Christian Faulkner03:30 Finding sales by accident06:30 Fear, self-doubt, and career pivots09:00 Listening as a sales superpower10:30 Is the customer always right?15:00 Confidence, boundaries, and respect23:00 Career change advice in today’s market30:00 Transferable skills and self-belief37:20 Leadership, mentoring, and patience43:15 Balancing work, family, and ambition47:30 Masculinity in the modern workplace53:50 Final advice to the modern man🎧 Listen & SubscribeApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-modern-man-podcast/id1784333559Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4v7TSM63Rhmdd4GxpUlIEaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tmm_pod?sub_confirmation=1Website: http://www.tmmpodcast.com🎙️ About The Modern Man PodcastHonest conversations about masculinity, mental health, work, faith, and the human experience.Less noise. More truth.#modernmanpodcast #salesconfidence #careerchangeadvice #accountdirectorinsights #salesleadership #clientrelationships #mentalhealthformen #masculinityatwork #confidenceatwork #trustedadvisorsales #personalgrowthpodcast #careertransitions #menandwork

In "Beyond the Sale," we sit down with Christian Faulkner, an accomplished Account Director, to explore the journey of the modern man in the world of sales and beyond.

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