We all love a dramatic event. Obviously bitch.

But what happens next? What's it like to actually live inside of one of those moments? In this episode get ready to pay witness live, bc we are waking up, the morning after taking one of the wildest leaps of faith in my life to date, and surveying the (honestly?) wreckage of my decisions. There's something about fertile soil coming from scorched earth.... right?

Inside this episode:

• The strange calm that follows a leap of faith
• Waking up in a completely new life
• Why I'm trying to stop looking for an escape hatch

• Action vs. overthinking
• The psychology of irreversible decisions
• Building a creative life with imperfect certainty
• Making peace with backup plans
• Recovering from optimization culture
• Identity, reinvention, and being seen
• Why I'm choosing authenticity over looking impressive
• The freedom that comes from letting others think what they want to think about you (ex: you're embarrassing)




Thank you for listening! As always, extended show notes, bonuses, transcripts and extended accessibility options are available on substack. xx 🖤🍀