God said to Adam and Eve, “Be fruitful and multiply”, but what does that mean for married couples in 2021? Should couples wait until ‘their house’ is in order, or should they throw out the contraception and trust in God’s providence? But what if the trust is there but the babies aren’t coming?? Khafi and Theo discuss the ins and outs of conceiving and whether children are the ultimate gift.

Is it possible to be in a loving relationship and not know the ins and outs of your partner’s bank account? “The love of money is the root of all evil”, so is it surprising that finances are one of the top reasons for relationship breakdown? Khafi and Theo share the pin to their thoughts, but do all transactions lie on the man’s plate or is it time for the provider to start wearing the skirt?

To have and to hold…and buy gifts, and affirm, and spend time, and to help round the home! Apparently, love can be shown in 5 different ways, but what if your partner sees your loving gifts as a waste of money? Theo and Khafi explore the importance of showing love and even conclude what they think God’s love language is!

As we mark the first anniversary of George Floyd’s killing, in a year when the world has woken up to racism, Theo and Khafi discuss what Black Love means. The media have often tried to present a stereotype that Black fathers are absent and Black mothers are troubled, but can true, monogamous, fulfilling and prospering Black Love really exist?

First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes a baby in a baby carriage…But is there more to intimacy than bringing forth children? And what if your spouse is too busy/tired/distracted [insert excuse here] to be intimate…Does it really matter? In this very frank episode, Theo and Khafi come together to spill the beans on a topic that many Christians are just too shy to approach. 

 

WARNING: Includes conversations of an adult nature.

Marriage is something that many desire – But do you actually understand what it means to be married? Should wives submit? Are you really expected to wait to do the deed? And as Christians, what is better…To live separate lives when the marriage breaks down or to just divorce? In this first frank episode, hosts Theo Manderson and newlywed Khafi aka A Cup of Khafi, share their naked views and don’t always see eye to eye – Welcome to marriage!

A brand new weekly podcast hosted by Khafi aka A Cup of Khafi and Theo Manderson. The PC filter has been turned off and the truth is being laid bare. It’s time to hear about real love, not just the type that is presented from the pulpit…It’s time for Naked Love.