Ever feel like you’ve tried everything to change—but nothing sticks? https://www.getinthefight.club/7 - Change is hard!! But this free 7-Day Challenge can make it so much easier! Change any area of your life in just one week. Don’t believe me? Try it and see - it’s free!

Here’s what we’ve all experienced time and time again:

You start strong, get motivated, maybe even pray really hard… but then you fall back into the same old habits.

If you’ve ever felt like “Maybe it’s just me - maybe I’m broken!”—this episode is for you.

In today’s show, I’ll walk you through:

Spoiler: You’re not broken. You’ve just been using a broken system.

What We Talk About:

Scripture References:

Galatians 6:9 — “Let us not become weary in doing good…”

Zechariah 4:10 — “Do not despise these small beginnings…”

Romans 12:2 — “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind…”

1 Timothy 4:7 — “Train yourself to be godly.”

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You've probably heard it before — “The heart is deceitful above all things…” But what if that’s not the full story for Christian men? https://www.getinthefight.club/7 - Want to change ANY area of your life in just 7 days?? Click the link to learn more and get the 7-Day Challenge - FREE!

In this episode, I take a hard look at Jeremiah 17:9 and ask an honest question: Is your heart still deceitful after you've given it to Jesus?

If you're a Christian man trying to change — to quit porn, lead your family better, and follow Jesus with strength and joy — you need to hear the whole truth about your identity in Christ.

It could change everything for you if you’re hoping to change and grow more in Him!

We'll unpack:

Why some men stay stuck in shame, believing they’re still broken

What Scripture actually says about your heart after salvation

The real power source for lasting change (hint: it's not willpower)

How your beliefs shape your behavior — for better or worse

You are not the man you used to be. You’ve been made new. Let’s talk about how to live like it.

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If you’re tired of trying to change but quitting too soon, you’re not alone!

Most Christian men go big and burn out—not because they’re broken and unfixable or lazy - but because the strategy they’re using to change and create new habits is broken.

In this episode, I’ll break down why starting super small is the most effective, biblical, and brain-friendly way to create real change that lasts.

Whether you're trying to quit porn, rebuild discipline, reconnect with your wife, or grow spiritually—this is the approach that works.

You'll learn:


✅ Why “go big or go home” keeps you stuck


✅ What the Bible says about small beginnings


✅ How tiny wins reshape your identity and momentum


✅ Real-life examples of how small actions lead to massive transformation


✅ 1 challenge you can do today to start strong This one’s packed with wisdom, encouragement, and a practical next step for becoming the man God meant you to be.

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Sometimes we look back with regret when we see the cost of poor decisions. https://www.getinthefight.club/newsletter - Click here if you want help to be a better husband, father, and follower of Jesus and get our FREE Better Sex & Marriage video training resource as a thank you - right away!

In today’s show, we talk about one area in particular that can cost us so much if we’re not alert to it and do something about it:

Passivity!

Many Christian men are living their lives stuck in passivity, apathy, and weakness. Today, we look at 10 warning signs that that might be you and what you can do to change and break free, if so.

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Looking for a stronger marriage and better sex life? Today’s show is for you! https://www.getinthefight.club/newsletter - Click here if you want help to be a better husband, father, and follower of Jesus and get our FREE Better Sex & Marriage video training resource as a thank you - right away!

Today’s guest is Matt Schmidt from a ministry called Intimate Covenant. Matt and his wife, Jenn, specialize in helping Christian married couples have fuller relationships and extraordinary sex lives.

In today’s episode, we discuss the many nuances of marriage and better sex and talk about Matt and Jenn’s own journey from broken and failing to thriving and extraordinary.

If you’re looking for a thriving sex life and a better marriage - you’ll love today’s show!

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Want a stronger sex life and better marriage? Today’s show is for you! https://www.getinthefight.club/newsletter - Click here if you want help to be a better husband, father, and follower of Jesus and get our FREE Better Sex & Marriage video training resource as a thank you - right away!

Today’s guests are Nick and Amy McKinlay of Ultimate Intimacy. They specialize in helping good marriages be great through teaching and resources that help marriages thrive.

In today’s episode, we discuss the book that Amy and I co-wrote called, “Let’s Talk About SEX!”  We discuss Amy’s take on love, intimacy, romance, and sex from a woman’s perspective and how Christian men can learn to lead the way by understanding their wives even better.

If you’re looking for a thriving sex life and marriage - you’ll love today’s show!

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Check out our book: “Let’s Talk About SEX! 20 things Christian husbands and wives wish their spouse knew (or would do!) - but don’t know how to tell you!” 

Grab the Ultimate Intimacy FREE app and other resources here: https://www.ultimateintimacy.com

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Want to know how to live your best, most on-target life? Today’s show is for you! https://www.getinthefight.club/newsletter - Click here if you want help to be a better husband, father, and follower of Jesus and get our FREE Better Sex & Marriage video training resource as a thank you - right away!

My guest today is Chris Johnson. Chris is the CEO & Founder of On Target Living. He has worked for more than 35 years, authored six best selling books, and coaching/trained over 30,000 individuals and organizations about how to live their best lives.

We talk about his latest bestseller, Rest, Eat, Move - you have the power to feel your best. That’s exactly what we cover in this episode. How to re-think about the narratives you tell yourself and rest, eat, and move your way to feeling you best and connecting it with your big WHY:

To be better husbands, fathers, and followers of Jesus!

Be sure to listen closely and check out more of Chris’ resources on his website.

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Check out Chris’ book: Rest-Eat-Move (highly recommend!) 

Grab FREE resources & connect with Chris and his team here: https://www.ontargetliving.com

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What would you say are the 3 Most Powerful Words in the World? https://www.getinthefight.club/newsletter - Click here if you want help to be a better husband, father, and follower of Jesus and get our FREE Better Sex & Marriage video training resource as a thank you - right away!

If you’re thinking it’s “I Love You” - you’re wrong! Those words are necessary, beautiful, and great. But there are 3 others that I think are the most powerful and can help men create the change in their lives that they’re looking for.

Check out today’s show and see if you agree!

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Check out Jocko Willink & Leif Babin’s book: Extreme Ownership (highly recommend!) 

Watch Jocko's powerful Ted Talk - click here

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Change is hard! Here’s how to make it easier on you. https://www.getinthefight.club/newsletter - Click here if you want help to be a better husband, father, and follower of Jesus and get our FREE Better Sex & Marriage video training resource as a thank you - right away!

In today’s episode we talk about how to change when change is hard to do. We’ll discuss how human tendencies are to focus on the problem but maybe that’s not the best approach.

Join us as we figure out how to find and focus on the Bright Spots - the areas that are working and have proven to work - and how this focus may change everything and help us to change when it’s hard.

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Check out Chip & Dan Heath’s book: Switch (highly recommend!)

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Professor Nancy Pearcey answers the question: Is masculinity “toxic"? https://www.getinthefight.club/newsletter - Click here if you want help to be a better husband, father, and follower of Jesus and get our FREE Better Sex & Marriage video training resource as a thank you - right away!

In today’s podcast, I interview and discuss the topic of Toxic Masculinity with Professor Pearcey. Nancy Pearcey is the author of The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes, as well as Love Thy Body, The Soul of Science, Saving Leonardo, Finding Truth, and Total Truth.

She is professor and scholar in residence at Houston Christian University. She has been quoted in The New Yorker and Newsweek, highlighted as one of the five top women apologists by Christianity Today, and hailed in The Economist as "America's pre-eminent evangelical Protestant female intellectual."

Join us as we dive into a ton of great conversations in this fast-paced, informative episode.

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– The Toxic War on Masculinity: https://www.amazon.com/Toxic-War-Masculinity-Christianity-Reconciles/dp/0801075734

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