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In this season finale of the NeuroDivergent Lounge, Marie Martin reflects on her journey of self-discovery, revealing her neurodivergent identity and the impact it has had on her life. She shares her experiences with toxic relationships, the importance of therapy, and the empowerment that comes from understanding oneself. Marie introduces her upcoming book and discusses her plans for the future, emphasizing the significance of choosing oneself and embracing personal growth. Takeaways I learned I'm autistic and have ADHD. My nervous system became my own enemy. I wasn't leaving a marriage; I was leaving a trauma loop. Finding out that I was neurodivergent didn't make me feel limited; it made me feel powerful. Therapy helped me uncover my true self. I wish I had my book 20 years ago. This podcast has helped me speak my truth. I'm excited about my new consulting business. You are not too sensitive; you're finally understanding yourself. Choose yourself. Sound bites "I learned I'm autistic." "You are not too sensitive." "Choose yourself." Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Journey 00:58 Understanding Neurodivergence: A Personal Revelation 04:31 Breaking Free: The Decision to Leave 08:53 Empowerment Through Self-Discovery 12:06 The Next Chapter: New Beginnings and Future Plans Keywords neurodivergent, autism, ADHD, self-discovery, empowerment, toxic relationships, therapy, personal growth, emotional processing, healing

In this season finale of the NeuroDivergent Lounge, Marie Martin reflects on her journey of self-discovery, revealing her neurodivergent identity and the impact it has had on her life. She shares her experiences with toxic relationships, the importance of therapy, and the empowerment that comes from understanding oneself. Marie introduces her upcoming book and discusses her plans for the future, emphasizing the significance of choosing oneself and embracing personal growth. Takeaways I learned I'm autistic and have ADHD. My nervous system became my own enemy. I wasn't leaving a marriage; I was leaving a trauma loop. Finding out that I was neurodivergent didn't make me feel limited; it made me feel powerful. Therapy helped me uncover my true self. I wish I had my book 20 years ago. This podcast has helped me speak my truth. I'm excited about my new consulting business. You are not too sensitive; you're finally understanding yourself. Choose yourself. Sound bites "I learned I'm autistic." "You are not too sensitive." "Choose yourself." Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Journey 00:58 Understanding Neurodivergence: A Personal Revelation 04:31 Breaking Free: The Decision to Leave 08:53 Empowerment Through Self-Discovery 12:06 The Next Chapter: New Beginnings and Future Plans Keywords neurodivergent, autism, ADHD, self-discovery, empowerment, toxic relationships, therapy, personal growth, emotional processing, healing

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In this season finale of the NeuroDivergent Lounge, Marie Martin reflects on her journey of self-discovery, revealing her neurodivergent identity and the impact it has had on her life. She shares her experiences with toxic relationships, the importance of therapy, and the empowerment that comes from understanding oneself. Marie introduces her upcoming book and discusses her plans for the future, emphasizing the significance of choosing oneself and embracing personal growth. Takeaways I learned I'm autistic and have ADHD. My nervous system became my own enemy. I wasn't leaving a marriage; I was leaving a trauma loop. Finding out that I was neurodivergent didn't make me feel limited; it made me feel powerful. Therapy helped me uncover my true self. I wish I had my book 20 years ago. This podcast has helped me speak my truth. I'm excited about my new consulting business. You are not too sensitive; you're finally understanding yourself. Choose yourself. Sound bites "I learned I'm autistic." "You are not too sensitive." "Choose yourself." Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Journey 00:58 Understanding Neurodivergence: A Personal Revelation 04:31 Breaking Free: The Decision to Leave 08:53 Empowerment Through Self-Discovery 12:06 The Next Chapter: New Beginnings and Future Plans Keywords neurodivergent, autism, ADHD, self-discovery, empowerment, toxic relationships, therapy, personal growth, emotional processing, healing

In this season finale of the NeuroDivergent Lounge, Marie Martin reflects on her journey of self-discovery, revealing her neurodivergent identity and the impact it has had on her life.

She shares her experiences with toxic relationships, the importance of therapy, and the empowerment that comes from understanding oneself. Marie introduces her upcoming book and discusses her plans for the future, emphasizing the significance of choosing oneself and embracing personal growth. Takeaways I learned I'm autistic and have ADHD. My nervous system became my own enemy. I wasn't leaving a marriage; I was leaving a trauma loop. Finding out that I was neurodivergent didn't make me feel limited; it made me feel powerful. Therapy helped me uncover my true self. I wish I had my book 20 years ago. This podcast has helped me speak my truth. I'm excited about my new consulting business. You are not too sensitive; you're finally understanding yourself. Choose yourself.

Sound bites

"I learned I'm autistic."

"You are not too sensitive."

"Choose yourself."

Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Journey 00:58 Understanding Neurodivergence: A Personal Revelation 04:31 Breaking Free: The Decision to Leave 08:53 Empowerment Through Self-Discovery 12:06 The Next Chapter: New Beginnings and Future Plans

Keywords neurodivergent, autism, ADHD, self-discovery, empowerment, toxic relationships, therapy, personal growth, emotional processing, healing

Welcome Back to The Neurodivergent Lounge!

https://voiceandvisionconsulting.com/ The Neurodivergent Season Finale: Choose Yourself This is it—the season finale of The NeuroDivergent Lounge. In this deeply personal episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on my own journey: discovering I'm autistic and have ADHD, leaving a marriage that was really a trauma loop, and finally understanding why my nervous system felt like my own worst enemy. For years, I thought I was "too sensitive." Turns out, I was just finally starting to understand myself. This episode is about the moment everything shifted—when I stopped trying to fix myself and started choosing myself. I share what therapy uncovered, why finding out I was neurodivergent made me feel powerful (not limited), and what's next as I step into this new chapter with my consulting business and my book. If you've ever felt like you're too much, too sensitive, or just fundamentally wrong—this one's for you. --- ## 🎯 Key Takeaways • I learned I'm autistic and have ADHD • My nervous system became my own enemy • I wasn't leaving a marriage; I was leaving a trauma loop • Finding out I was neurodivergent didn't make me feel limited; it made me feel powerful • Therapy helped me uncover my true self • I wish I had my book 20 years ago • This podcast has helped me speak my truth • I'm excited about my new consulting business • You are not too sensitive; you're finally understanding yourself • Choose yourself ---

Get the Book [Click Here to Purchase "When Your Words Disappear" on Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/WHEN-YOUR-WORDS-DISAPPEAR-Neurodivergent-ebook/dp/B0G4F9793G/ref=sr_1_1?crid=38R9BQ00SBTPP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.um5iqpFWQ0rkKhtXOX9Z9A.mE3uSnFyCYcPpL-7LZi8h92CWqRa8mad-yf8qzdzJts&dib_tag=se&keywords=marie+martin+when+your+words+disappear&qid=1765641651&sprefix=marie+martin+when+your+words+disappear%2Caps%2C93&sr=8-1) A guide to understanding the neurodivergent freeze response and finding your voice again.

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Book Link (plain text): https://www.amazon.com/WHEN-YOUR-WORDS-DISAPPEAR-Neurodivergent-ebook/dp/B0G4F9793G I'm excited about my new consulting business. You are not too sensitive; you're finally understanding yourself. Choose yourself. Sound bites "I learned I'm autistic." "You are not too sensitive." "Choose yourself." Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Journey 00:58 Understanding Neurodivergence: A Personal Revelation 04:31 Breaking Free: The Decision to Leave 08:53 Empowerment Through Self-Discovery 12:06 The Next Chapter: New Beginnings and Future Plans

The Neurodivergent Lounge Season 2 Episode 7

From Lying to Authentic Communication

Summary

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Lounge, host Marie Martin delves into the complexities of survival lying, particularly in the context of relationships shaped by financial control and emotional safety. She shares her personal journey of recognizing the patterns of lying that stemmed from childhood experiences and how they manifested in her marriage. The conversation explores the importance of authentic communication, the challenges of breaking free from financial dependency, and the journey towards self-discovery and independence. Marie emphasizes the need for supportive relationships that foster growth rather than control, ultimately leading to a healthier understanding of truth and connection.

Takeaways

Survival lying is a learned behavior from childhood.

Financial control can create a dynamic of dependence in relationships.

Authentic communication is about connection, not just truth-telling.

Leaving a controlling relationship can be a path to healing.

It's important to recognize when you're in survival mode.

The patterns of lying can be automatic and reflexive.

Building financial independence is crucial for personal freedom.

Supportive relationships help in recognizing one's potential.

The goal is to be known by those who can receive your truth.

Healing requires breaking free from toxic dynamics.

Titles

Unraveling Survival Lying

Breaking Free from Financial Control

Sound bites

"I learned to lie to stay safe."

"The lying was a survival mechanism."

"I was navigating an impossible situation."

Chapters

00:00 Understanding the Survival Lie

02:33 Patterns of Deception in Relationships

08:53 Breaking Free from Financial Control

15:51 The Journey to Authentic Communication

20:24 Embracing Freedom and Healing

Keywords

survival lying, financial control, authentic communication, neurodivergent, relationships, self-discovery, emotional safety, truth-telling, personal growth, healing

The Neurodivergent Lounge Season 2 Episode 7

From Lying to Authentic Communication

Summary

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Lounge, host Marie Martin delves into the complexities of survival lying, particularly in the context of relationships shaped by financial control and emotional safety. She shares her personal journey of recognizing the patterns of lying that stemmed from childhood experiences and how they manifested in her marriage. The conversation explores the importance of authentic communication, the challenges of breaking free from financial dependency, and the journey towards self-discovery and independence. Marie emphasizes the need for supportive relationships that foster growth rather than control, ultimately leading to a healthier understanding of truth and connection.

Takeaways

Survival lying is a learned behavior from childhood.

Financial control can create a dynamic of dependence in relationships.

Authentic communication is about connection, not just truth-telling.

Leaving a controlling relationship can be a path to healing.

It's important to recognize when you're in survival mode.

The patterns of lying can be automatic and reflexive.

Building financial independence is crucial for personal freedom.

Supportive relationships help in recognizing one's potential.

The goal is to be known by those who can receive your truth.

Healing requires breaking free from toxic dynamics.

Titles

Unraveling Survival Lying

Breaking Free from Financial Control

Sound bites

"I learned to lie to stay safe."

"The lying was a survival mechanism."

"I was navigating an impossible situation."

Chapters

00:00 Understanding the Survival Lie

02:33 Patterns of Deception in Relationships

08:53 Breaking Free from Financial Control

15:51 The Journey to Authentic Communication

20:24 Embracing Freedom and Healing

Keywords

survival lying, financial control, authentic communication, neurodivergent, relationships, self-discovery, emotional safety, truth-telling, personal growth, healing

The Neurodivergent Lounge Season 2 Episode 7

From Lying to Authentic Communication

Summary

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Lounge, host Marie Martin delves into the complexities of survival lying, particularly in the context of relationships shaped by financial control and emotional safety. She shares her personal journey of recognizing the patterns of lying that stemmed from childhood experiences and how they manifested in her marriage. The conversation explores the importance of authentic communication, the challenges of breaking free from financial dependency, and the journey towards self-discovery and independence. Marie emphasizes the need for supportive relationships that foster growth rather than control, ultimately leading to a healthier understanding of truth and connection.

Takeaways

Survival lying is a learned behavior from childhood.

Financial control can create a dynamic of dependence in relationships.

Authentic communication is about connection, not just truth-telling.

Leaving a controlling relationship can be a path to healing.

It's important to recognize when you're in survival mode.

The patterns of lying can be automatic and reflexive.

Building financial independence is crucial for personal freedom.

Supportive relationships help in recognizing one's potential.

The goal is to be known by those who can receive your truth.

Healing requires breaking free from toxic dynamics.

Titles

Unraveling Survival Lying

Breaking Free from Financial Control

Sound bites

"I learned to lie to stay safe."

"The lying was a survival mechanism."

"I was navigating an impossible situation."

Chapters

00:00 Understanding the Survival Lie

02:33 Patterns of Deception in Relationships

08:53 Breaking Free from Financial Control

15:51 The Journey to Authentic Communication

20:24 Embracing Freedom and Healing

Keywords

survival lying, financial control, authentic communication, neurodivergent, relationships, self-discovery, emotional safety, truth-telling, personal growth, healing

The Neurodivergent Lounge Season 2 Episode 7

From Lying to Authentic Communication

Summary

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Lounge, host Marie Martin delves into the complexities of survival lying, particularly in the context of relationships shaped by financial control and emotional safety. She shares her personal journey of recognizing the patterns of lying that stemmed from childhood experiences and how they manifested in her marriage. The conversation explores the importance of authentic communication, the challenges of breaking free from financial dependency, and the journey towards self-discovery and independence. Marie emphasizes the need for supportive relationships that foster growth rather than control, ultimately leading to a healthier understanding of truth and connection.

Takeaways

Survival lying is a learned behavior from childhood.

Financial control can create a dynamic of dependence in relationships.

Authentic communication is about connection, not just truth-telling.

Leaving a controlling relationship can be a path to healing.

It's important to recognize when you're in survival mode.

The patterns of lying can be automatic and reflexive.

Building financial independence is crucial for personal freedom.

Supportive relationships help in recognizing one's potential.

The goal is to be known by those who can receive your truth.

Healing requires breaking free from toxic dynamics.

Titles

Unraveling Survival Lying

Breaking Free from Financial Control

Sound bites

"I learned to lie to stay safe."

"The lying was a survival mechanism."

"I was navigating an impossible situation."

Chapters

00:00 Understanding the Survival Lie

02:33 Patterns of Deception in Relationships

08:53 Breaking Free from Financial Control

15:51 The Journey to Authentic Communication

20:24 Embracing Freedom and Healing

Keywords

survival lying, financial control, authentic communication, neurodivergent, relationships, self-discovery, emotional safety, truth-telling, personal growth, healing

The Neurodivergent Lounge Season 2 Episode 7

From Lying to Authentic Communication

Summary

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Lounge, host Marie Martin delves into the complexities of survival lying, particularly in the context of relationships shaped by financial control and emotional safety. She shares her personal journey of recognizing the patterns of lying that stemmed from childhood experiences and how they manifested in her marriage. The conversation explores the importance of authentic communication, the challenges of breaking free from financial dependency, and the journey towards self-discovery and independence. Marie emphasizes the need for supportive relationships that foster growth rather than control, ultimately leading to a healthier understanding of truth and connection.

Takeaways

Survival lying is a learned behavior from childhood.

Financial control can create a dynamic of dependence in relationships.

Authentic communication is about connection, not just truth-telling.

Leaving a controlling relationship can be a path to healing.

It's important to recognize when you're in survival mode.

The patterns of lying can be automatic and reflexive.

Building financial independence is crucial for personal freedom.

Supportive relationships help in recognizing one's potential.

The goal is to be known by those who can receive your truth.

Healing requires breaking free from toxic dynamics.

Titles

Unraveling Survival Lying

Breaking Free from Financial Control

Sound bites

"I learned to lie to stay safe."

"The lying was a survival mechanism."

"I was navigating an impossible situation."

Chapters

00:00 Understanding the Survival Lie

02:33 Patterns of Deception in Relationships

08:53 Breaking Free from Financial Control

15:51 The Journey to Authentic Communication

20:24 Embracing Freedom and Healing

Keywords

survival lying, financial control, authentic communication, neurodivergent, relationships, self-discovery, emotional safety, truth-telling, personal growth, healing