What if our ego is not the enemy? What if trying to kill our ego is killing our peace of mind? And what does this have to do with Peacemaker, Team America, and goofy superheroes?

In this video, we explore the flawed belief that “killing the ego” is the pathway to inner peace. We’ll also explore a very accessible way to build inner alliances instead.

Click here for my interview with Dr. Richard Schwartz about IFS (Internal Family Systems, No Bad Parts).

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/09/richard-schwartz-no-bad-parts

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/03/ego-not-the-enemy

Professional racing driver, David Perel shares his startup founder mindset, developing a new business during Covid, and living his dream to race at Le Mans. How his startup went into high gear when sim racing exploded while the world shut down.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/03/startup-founder-mindset-david-perel

Do you ever get burned out striving for more, more, more?

Do you ever find yourself comparing yourself or your accomplishments to others?

And what can we learn from the GOAT of professional surfing — Kelly Slater — about motivation and healthy competition?

In this short video, we explore the shadow side of our competitive nature plus the 3 steps to using our competitive drive in a healthy way.

In this video:

- Kelly Slater and the 2022 Pipeline Masters

- Burnout from competitive mindset

- Why losses can sting so bad

- Reinventing ourselves

- Another way to approach competition

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/02/competitor-mindset-kelly-slater

Do some people seem to have magical powers?

Or do they just have a skill you may not have yet?

And what does this have to do with a mysterious object found in a toilet?

Today we discuss how magical thinking keeps us playing small and what we can do to build confidence and skill.

In this video:

- Putting people on a pedestal

- How magical thinking keeps us in a victim mentality

- Hiding under our mother’s skirt

- Shifting our mindset to build confidence and skill

- One of my disgusting pranks

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/02/magical-mindset

Do you have a gnawing feeling that you’re not “on track”?

In this short video, I discuss the 3 step process that helps me and my coaching clients find clarity, alignment, and peace of mind.

In this audio:

- Why so many folks feel lost

- Why I was terrified after selling my first company

- Why waiting for the perfect plan is a trap

- How does money impact a purposeful life?

- Why procrastination isn’t always laziness

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/01/finding-clarity

Have you ever wondered why some folks call me ‘cat squeeze’?

Probably not, but we’re doing to talk about it anyway.

Today we discuss outgrowing old identities, finding our aliveness, and why our need to be more productive might be more about who we are vs how much we can do.

In this short video:

- My cat’s constipation and my role in relieving him

- Constantly busy but never feeling like you’ve done enough

- Striving for more, more, more

- Leading your own life vs stuck in expectations

- 3 steps to shift into a more powerful mindset

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/01/outgrow-your-life

Are you and your main squeeze lovers or just roommates?

Is being lovers a priority or an afterthought?

And what puts the brakes on your sex life?

Today Alyson and I talk about the roles we play in our relationships — being roommates, business partners, co-parents, buddies — and how these roles kill our sex life.

We also discuss ways to put our relationship problems into perspective so that we can identify what is truly a dealbreaker.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/12/sex-life

My Wife Challenges Me to Go Big

Do fears of going broke keep you playing small? Alyson and Tripp Lanier discuss how fear holds us back from what we truly want, why self leadership matters, and the difference between coaching and therapy.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/11/self-leadership-ifs

Do you fear your ambition? What's the opposite of imposter syndrome? Optimize/Heroic founder, Brian Johnson discusses ambition, assessing risk, and leading from our inner wisdom instead of our inner Johnny Knoxville (no offense Johnny).

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/11/brian-johnson-ambition

Sebastian Junger ("Freedom", "Tribe", "The Perfect Storm") discusses the benefits of danger, why we need to be willing to die for our group, and what he saw right before he died.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/10/sebastian-junger-freedom