The New Man

With so much uncertainty, how do you deal with the uncomfortable feelings? What if it all came crashing down? What could possibly exist on the other side of your worst nightmare?

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/05/facing-fear

Confronting Fear, Scarcity, and Pressure. Will you follow the herd that’s freaking out or find the opportunity? Plus: using discomfort to find clarity, forging your own path, and why most guys settle.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/04/fear-scarcity-pressure

What do we do when success is unfulfilling? Do you think more success and status are the keys to lasting fulfillment? And what happens when our achievements leave us feeling empty? Plus: victim mentality and our comfort zone

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/03/unfulfilling-success

If you want more out of life then what’s really getting in the way? Why do we have such a hard time making a commitment? And what’s so wrong with trying to live happily ever after?

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/03/commitment-issues

How pro coach and New Man podcast host Tripp Lanier went from very confident to very lost; how he spent years dicking around while waiting for the perfect plan; and how he finally pulled his head out of his ass and got back on track.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/02/get-out-your-own-way

Tripp and Alyson Lanier discuss a bold way to start a relationship, making commitments, and the danger of being a nice guy. Also: Way of the Superior Man by David Deida, truth vs comfort, and the danger of waiting for the perfect plan.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/02/starting-relationship

Have you ever suffered from “imposter syndrome”?

Are you okay with simply chasing money or do you want your work to be meaningful, too?

And how often do you tell yourself, “I will figure this out”?

Today, The Middle Finger Project author Ash Ambirge is here to discuss how she went from growing up in a trailer park to middle class success to sleeping in a K-Mart parking lot with only $26 to her name to eventually making seven figures.

In this interview:

Growing up in a trailer park

Being mentally tough

Being willing to rock the boat

Striving for middle class

Why becoming “normal” was so disappointing

Plus:

Dealing with imposter syndrome

The feeling of “I don’t know what I’m supposed to do next.”

Doing work you’re proud of

Wanting our work to align with our values

Feeling guilty for wanting more out of life

And:

Ash’s “sleeping in a K-Mart parking lot” story

“I will figure it out.”

The key to being “Unf*ckwithable”

The trouble of not having your own money

Learning how to provide value

You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//

Do you feel guilty for wanting more out of life?

Is it possible to outgrow your current profession or relationship?

And would you have to blow up everything you care about in order to make a big change?

Today my wife Alyson and I pick up where we left off in the previous episode entitled, The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak. In this conversation we explore taking responsibility for what we want, the seduction of settling, and the one question that kicked me in the gut.

In this interview:

Living a split life

“Stop being a spoiled brat.”

Focusing on problems vs solutions

Feeling guilty for wanting more out of life

Plus:

Have you outgrown your life?

The Drama Triangle - Victim, Persecutor, Rescuer

Shifting from bitching to focusing on what you want

Are you defensive or curious?

The fear of being broke and alone

And:

“Do you feel like you’re settling?”

The myth: “I have to blow up my life in order to make a change.”

Are you being lulled to sleep?

Waiting for the perfect, safe plan

The phone call that changed Tripp’s life

Interviews and videos discussed:

David Emerald interview

Drama Triangle video

You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//

How important is it for you to be in control?

Do you ever feel like your life is out of alignment with your values?

And what does it take to forgive someone who has hurt you deeply?

Today my wife, Alyson Lanier gets curious about the emotionally constipated guy I used to be back in my early 20’s. We talk about why I went to therapy, why I hated the idea of personal growth, and how my life looked amazing from the outside but was a fragmented mess on the inside.

In this interview:

Does Alyson have a fart fetish?

Being a control freak

Trying to outrun my emotional world

Being afraid of women

Navigating an emotional minefield

Plus:

Why I went to therapy

Dealing with loss

Considering suicide

The difference between relief and peace of mind

“The peace I was deeply wanting was on the other side of that thing I was avoiding.”

And:

Ken Wilber’s The Marriage of Sense and Soul

Being out of alignment with inner values

“They’re going to think I’m weird.”

Playing it safe professionally

“Is this it? What now? Why can’t I just be happy here?”

You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//

Lebron James spends $1 million dollars per year on his health. What do you spend to ensure that your body doesn’t hold you back? Functional Medicine Health Consultant Jon Mitchell is here to challenge the dogmatic, cookie cutter approaches so that you can dial in the unique protocol that works best for your body.

In this interview:

Why so many are settling for aches, pains, and low energy

Why regular docs aren’t always the best resource

Why chasing your problem with supplements isn’t sustainable

Why cookie cutter diets don’t work for everyone

Erectile dysfunction as it relates to your health

Plus:

Are you a liability to yourself, performance, and quality of life?

Why health is the vehicle for having the life you want

Peace of mind knowing that your body is on track

Playing the amateur or choosing to turn pro

Cutting through the noise of online experts and gurus and diets

You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//