The New Man

Do you ever feel like something is just not quite right with your life?

Do you have most of what you could want but still feel like something’s missing?

And who are you underneath that ambition to succeed and avoid failure?

Today Alyson and I talk about why so many folks feel empty inside even though they have amazing lives on the outside. We discuss what it means to find our gold, to reveal our essential nature, and what I call the “big imposter syndrome.”

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/05/finding-your-gold

COACHING

- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

BOOK

- We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

- Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Does your BS meter keep you from having a spiritual life?

Are mystical experiences just our brain chemicals fooling us to believe we have a connection with God?

And is spirituality something you can cultivate on your own or should you depend on a tradition or guru?

Today my wife Alyson and I talk about religion, spirituality, and just how common it is to wrestle with this stuff. I share a bit about my own messy journey as well as what it may look like to forge your own path — on your own terms.

If some of these ideas are helpful for you then great. And if they don’t align with your views, then please toss them aside.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/spiritual-but-not-religious

COACHING

- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

BOOK

- We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

- Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Is marriage a death sentence for the part of you that is wild?

Do you ever wonder what happened to fun, adventure, and spontaneity?

And how can we avoid becoming another Homer Simpson or turning our partner into a “ball and chain?”

Today Alyson and I dive into the topic of domestication. We explore how responsibilities and structure are necessary, but they don’t have to kill what makes us feel alive and free.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/marriage-domestication

COACHING

- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com

- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com

BOOK

- We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.

- Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Is watching porn the same as cheating on your partner?

Is it wrong to fantasize about someone other than your partner?

And what are we really seeking when we choose to watch adult entertainment?

Today, my wife Alyson and I try to help someone who has a different perspective on porn than his partner. It may be tempting to get stuck in a debate about who is right or wrong, but what if we tried to understand what’s driving us to seek porn in the first place?

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/porn-cheating

What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com

This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

http://dangerousbookstore.com

Is therapy only for the weak?

Do you ever feel like it’s you against the universe?

And how can you tell if you’re a warfighter or a warrior?

Years ago, Navy SEAL Jeff Boss left the military and struggled to find his way as a civilian. Even after burying dozens of his friends, he believed healing was for the weak. Regardless of his elite mental strength training, he was fighting back the emotions with booze and women. Until he couldn’t do it anymore.

So how did he go from someone who thought therapy was for wimps to becoming a therapist himself? Today, Jeff takes us through his experience — from feeling lost and depressed to finding his calling as a healer.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/03/jeff-boss-healing-warriors

What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com

This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

http://dangerousbookstore.com

Do you believe in soul mates or is that just some rom com BS?

Do you feel guilty for having a life outside of work and your relationship?

And what relationship advice would have helped your younger self avoid a huge headache?

My wife Alyson and I deal with past relationship failures, settling for nice guys, and what it may really mean to have a soul mate.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/03/soul-mate

What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com

This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

http://dangerousbookstore.com

Do you ever feel like you’re at war with yourself?

Are the blind spots holding you back obvious to others?

And how can a wall become a potential pathway to get unstuck?

Today, my wife Alyson and I discuss how so many of us are striving to improve ourselves by going to war with ourselves. And we explore what ultimately brings us the emotional peace we hope that victory will bring.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/02/at-war-with-yourself

What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com

This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

http://dangerousbookstore.com

Do you have an amazing collection of books but lousy focus and discipline?

Do you get excited about new ideas but then feel bad because you don’t really do anything with them?

And what would happen if you took a break from jamming new ideas into your head?

Today’s coaching call is with a self-proclaimed personal growth junkie. He can easily spend hours pouring through books and podcasts, but when it comes to taking action it’s like pulling teeth. We take a look at why he’s leaking his energy and challenge him to reconnect with what really matters.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/taking-action

What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com

This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

http://dangerousbookstore.com

What would make you excited to commit to a relationship?

Are you afraid to set a high bar for someone because it may mean you’ll end up alone?

And what does it mean if you can’t stop nit-picking your partner?

In today’s coffee date, my wife Alyson and I recall the first phone conversation we ever had. She grilled me for hours about my values — or as she puts it, “What makes you kneel or bow?” We talk about the value of being radically honest early on and why being out of alignment on the big stuff dooms us to struggle with the small stuff.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/commitment-issues-2

What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com

This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

http://dangerousbookstore.com

Do you wish you could change something about your partner?

Is there something about them that keeps you from committing?

And how is staying in the shallow end of the pool drowning your relationship?

My wife Alyson and I share a cup of coffee and flounder through a conversation about changing your partner, refusing to be the bad guy, and why it’s so important to keep your side of the street clean.

https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/changing-your-partner

What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com

This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.

http://dangerousbookstore.com