In this engaging episode of The Next Bit Podcast, I, Hannah McQueen, dive into the often-overlooked topic of sex after 60, challenging the misconception that intimacy fades with age. Joined by sex therapist Edit Horvath, we explore how pleasure and connection can thrive well into later life. We discuss the physiological changes that may affect libido, the importance of communication in relationships, and the unique challenges faced by those navigating new romances after loss or separation. With insights into the vibrant social lives of older adults, particularly in retirement communities, this episode is a celebration of sexuality at any age. Tune in to discover how intimacy can continue to flourish, reminding us all that age is just a number when it comes to connection and desire.

In this bite-sized episode of The Next Bit, Hannah McQueen and Mark Leishman revisit one of the most revealing moments from their conversation with retirement village lawyer Jenny Baldwin; the reality of what happens when disputes arise inside a village.

From everyday tensions and personality clashes to bigger issues around maintenance, resale delays, and behavioural concerns linked to ageing and dementia, Jenny explains how the complaints process actually works, who steps in, and what residents can do when things escalate.

It’s a fascinating glimpse into the side of retirement village life most people don’t think about until something goes wrong.

If you or someone you love is considering village living, this is essential listening.

For the full conversation with Jenny Baldwin, go back and listen to:

- What Are You Really Buying in a Retirement Village?

and

- How to Choose the Best Retirement Village

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Retirement village contracts can feel like a maze of legal language, hidden costs, and terms that seem designed to make your eyes glaze over.

In this bite-sized episode of The Next Bit, Hannah and Mark pull out one of the most useful practical tips from their conversation with lawyer Jenny Baldwin: the easiest way to compare retirement village contracts without drowning in paperwork.

Jenny explains why the key term summary can be such a powerful tool when you’re weighing up different villages, because it lays out the major financial details in a clearer, more consistent format. She also highlights the main things to compare, including entry cost, weekly fees, whether those fees can increase, deferred management fees, and what happens if care is needed later on.

If you are helping a parent compare villages, or trying to make sense of the options for yourself, this episode gives you a smart place to start.

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In this episode of The Next Bit Podcast, I dive into the intriguing world of retirement villages with expert lawyer Jenny Baldwin. We unravel the common misconceptions surrounding what it really means to buy into a retirement unit. You might be surprised to learn that you are not purchasing property, but rather a bundle of rights through an occupation right agreement. Jenny explains the implications of this arrangement, including the balance between responsibilities and risks, and what you can expect financially when moving out. Whether you're considering a retirement village for yourself or a loved one, this episode equips you with essential insights to navigate your options wisely. Tune in for a deeper understanding that could significantly impact your retirement planning.

If you think moving into a retirement village works like buying a home, this episode may change the way you see it.

In this eye-opening conversation, Hannah McQueen and Mark Leishman sit down with retirement village lawyer Jenny Baldwin to unpack what people are actually buying when they move into a village, and why so many families are caught off guard by the fine print.

Jenny explains the reality of occupational right agreements, why most residents do not own their unit, how deferred management fees work, what happens to your money when you leave, and why resale delays can create real pressure for families. They also dig into the questions too many people forget to ask: What are the weekly fees? Can they go up? What happens if one partner needs care? And how much flexibility is there in the contract really?

This is a practical, frank, and incredibly helpful episode for anyone considering retirement village living, whether for themselves or for their parents.

Because this is not just a property decision. It is a lifestyle, legal, and financial decision all rolled into one.

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No one plans for a marriage to end - especially after 30, 40, or even 50 years.

But “grey divorce” is on the rise, and when relationships break down later in life, the emotional, financial, and legal stakes are higher than ever.

In this episode of The Next Bit, Hannah McQueen and Mark Leishman sit down with family law barrister Erica Burke to unpack what really happens when couples separate after 60. From dividing assets and navigating retirement risks, to understanding the legal process and avoiding costly mistakes. This is a practical, honest guide to one of life’s toughest transitions.

Some of the areas covered in this episode include:

+ Why more couples are divorcing later in life, and what’s driving the trend

+ The biggest financial risks in grey divorce (and how to protect yourself)

+ Common mistakes people make, and how to avoid them when emotions run high

Whether you’re facing this situation yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode sheds light on a conversation many families avoid…until its unavoidable.

Thanks.

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In this episode of The Next Bit Podcast, I dive into the often-overlooked financial implications of downsizing your home. Many people assume that selling their house will provide a comfortable retirement, but how realistic is this expectation? Joined by financial expert Hannah McQueen, we explore the common misconceptions surrounding home value and retirement funding. We discuss the hidden costs of selling, the emotional biases that impact decisions, and the surprising reality of how much money downsizing can actually free up. If you're considering this significant life change, tune in for crucial insights that could reshape your retirement strategy.

In this episode of The Next Bit Podcast, we dive into a deeply personal question: Is it time for you to downsize? Join me, Mark Leishman, as I engage with financial expert Hannah McQueen to explore the signs that indicate a shift may be necessary in your living situation. We discuss the emotional and practical aspects of downsizing, from managing property maintenance to the impact of financial readiness. Whether it's driven by health concerns, family dynamics, or financial stability, we provide insights on how to navigate this significant decision with confidence and clarity. If you're finding yourself contemplating a change, this episode is for you. Tune in for valuable perspectives on maintaining your independence while embracing the next chapter of your life.

In this episode of The Next Bit Podcast, we tackle the pressing question: is buying before selling a wise strategy or a source of unnecessary stress? Join me, Hannah McQueen, as I discuss the intricacies of downsizing in real estate. We explore the financial implications of securing your next home before selling your current one, examining the associated risks, costs, and emotional toll. With insights drawn from years of financial expertise, I offer guidance on navigating this often complex decision. Whether you’re looking to maintain flexibility or simply want to understand the best approach for your retirement, this episode is packed with practical advice tailored to help you make informed choices in the world of real estate.

In this episode of The Next Bit, Hannah McQueen and Mark Leishman explore the upsides and downsides of the biggest (and most misunderstood) financial decisions in later life: downsizing your home.

While it’s often seen as a simple strategy to unlock cash for retirement, the reality is far more complex. From emotional attachment and identity to timing, market conditions, and hidden costs, downsizing is as much a psychological decision as it is a financial one.

This episode leans into Hannah’s decades of experience as one of New Zealand’s leading financial advisors with topics including:

+ How much cash can you actually unlock from your home.

+ Why timing can make or break the outcome.

+ How poor planning can erode what should be your biggest financial “trump card.”

+ Also, the emotional weight of leaving a family home, the real-life consequences of being forced into a rushed decision later in life and much more!

If you’re thinking about retirement, supporting aging parents, or simply want to make smarter long-term financial choices, this episode is definitely for you.

Thank you!

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