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Your body is here. Your head might not be.
Most of us are bouncing between the replay of what already happened and bracing for everything that could go wrong — and almost never landing where it actually matters: right now.
Past becomes regret. Future becomes anxiety. The only place you actually get to compete is the present moment. And it's the hardest place to stay.
In this episode I break down why that gap opens up, what's happening in your brain when it does, and four ways to close it.
That's where you perform. Right here. Right now.
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00:00 Intro & Highlights
00:30 Everywhere and Nowhere
03:18 Three Mental Time Zones
05:21 Replay & Rehearsal
07:07 What's Happening in Your Brain (Amygdala vs. Prefrontal Cortex)
08:17 Rumination, Anxiety & the Real Cost
10:36 Distraction Culture: Why It's Harder Than Ever to Stay Present
14:46 Break - Coming Soon: The Inside Move Newsletter
15:33 The Difference Between Processing and Replaying
17:00 Four Steps to Come Back to the Present
20:01 Gift For You: The Processing Failure Playbook, Closing Thoughts & How To Help
Fear. Anxiety. Uncertainty. Nerves. Doubt.
Every athlete faces them. Every professional feels them. And every single one of them drains confidence and performance when you don't know what you're actually dealing with.
But what if they're all related? And what if you could learn exactly what they are — and how to resolve them?
This episode breaks down:
The real formula for fear
The gap that creates anxiety
The questions you need to answer to overcome uncertainty
A four-step process to handle all of it
And how confidence is actually built — one act of courage at a time
Drop CONFIDENCE in the comments or DM me for the free Closing the Gap guide.
👉 Two free assessments at NextSeasonAthletes.com — active athletes and ATLAS athletes.
00:00 Intro & Highlights
00:56 What We Feel with Fear
01:56 My Dumpster Fire Brain
04:43 What Fear Really Is
06:32 Anxiety Versus Pressure
09:11 The Anxiety Gap
13:10 Uncertainty Questions
15:54 Courage on a Balcony
19:39 Closing The Gap Steps
23:25 Shrink The Moment
25:52 How Confidence Is Built
27:55 Closing Thoughts, Gratitude, Support & Resources for You
You can see the struggles. You can feel it. Lack of focus. Pressure. Comparison. An identity solely tied to performance. But you don't know what to do.
It's not talent. It's not effort. It's the stuff underneath.
These are the questions parents are bringing to me right now. In real conversations.
This episode is the Pain Point series. Three questions. Honest answers. Practical next steps - for parents, coaches, and the athletes who need someone to finally name what's actually going on.
Lacking focus isn't a character flaw. It's a skill being attacked from every direction.
Pressure isn't the enemy. The story your athlete tells himself about it is.
The dangers of identity foreclosure.
If this sounds like your athlete - or you - you're not alone. Check it out, apply it, share it with others who may be feeling the same.
👉 Two free assessments & learn more about 1:1 coaching for active athletes and ATLAS athletes at nextseasonathletes.com
00:00 Pressure Is Privilege
01:55 Question #1: Focus Struggles
03:13 Lesson from a Lion Tamer
05:50 Screens, Stress & Focus
07:56 Train Focus Like Muscle
09:15 Question #2: Pressure Reframe
12:22 Highlight Reels & Comparison
15:32 Question #3: Identity Beyond Sport
18:36 Layered Identity & Resilience
20:50 Closing Thoughts, Gratitude, Support & Resources for You
You watch what you eat. You count your reps. You measure your sleep.
But are you tracking your relationships? Are you monitoring who's in your circle? Are they real? Or are they - like the junk food you try to avoid - highly processed?
This may just be a huge blind spot in your performance.
Relationships are fuel. Some of them are high octane. Some of them are crap. And just like your diet, you don't always feel the effects immediately. But over a season, a year, a career — it adds up. You either look back and realize the people around you made you better. Or they didn't.
In this episode, I break down the concept of highly processed relationships — what they are, how to spot them, and what to do about it without blowing up your entire social circle.
3 red flags you're in a highly processed relationship
Why isolation isn't discipline — and what the science says
3 steps to build real ones
Why the most fulfilled and balanced athletes are often the ones with the right relationship circles
DM or comment VALUES on Instagram and I'll send you the free worksheet that goes with this episode.
👉 Learn more about 1:1 Coaching for active athletes and ATLAS athletes at nextseasonathletes.com
00:00 Intro & Highlights
01:00 The Performance Variable Nobody Talks About
03:00 Clean Out the Fridge — Or Fast Forever?
04:00 Why You Can't Go It Alone
05:30 Red Flag #1: Comfortable With Lower Standards
07:00 Red Flag #2: You Leave Feeling Smaller
09:30 Red Flag #3: It Only Works On Their Terms
11:00 Step 1: Stop Cleaning Out the Fridge
13:00 Step 2: If the Circle Doesn't Exist, Build It
14:00 Courage Is the Entry Point
16:00 Step 3: Fuel or Filler?
18:00 Fill Your Life With Real Ones
Most players think they know what gets them recruited. They're often wrong.
Adam Schlenoff has sat in every seat this game offers. D1 college player. High school teacher. 15 years as Associate Head Coach and Recruiting Coordinator at Johns Hopkins — multiple College World Series appearances, D3 offensive records, a national championship game.
He's evaluated thousands of players. He knows exactly what separates the guys who make it from the guys who don't — and it's not what most players or parents think.
In this episode:
What coaches are really reading before you take a swing
Why your stats open the door but your character earns the invitation
What great teammates actually do
What it felt like to walk away from a 30-year run in the game
Now he's building something new — recruiting consulting, showcases, and a youth baseball organization built around the thing most of the industry skips: honest evaluation and real human connection.
If you're a player, a parent, or a coach — this one's for you.
Find Adam & Get Involved:
Recruiting Consulting: Jeff Burton Consulting
Showcases & Youth Baseball: schlenoffbaseball.com
Charm City Clippers: Baltimore Clippers, MCBL
Follow Adam: @Mr_Schlen
👉 Learn more about 1:1 Coaching for active athletes and ATLAS athletes at nextseasonathletes.com
00:00 Intro & Highlights
01:29 Welcoming Adam Schlenoff
02:53 Roots In Education & Influence on Coaching
05:28 Trust in the Locker Room
06:48 Early Sports Journey
10:17 Multi Sport Debate & Nuance
13:58 Realities Of College Baseball
20:17 When The Game Ends
22:02 The Beautiful Game
25:03 Coaching Breakthrough Years
29:50 Building Trust and Culture
32:35 Coaching Philosophy on Failure
38:56 Recruiting Puzzle Pieces
43:56 Stats Open the Door, Character Gets You In
47:45 Next Chapter & New Challenges
51:16 How to Connect, Support & Join Adam
Part 1 was the warmup.
Part 2 is game time.
Johnny leads us through a live values exercise — step by step — that will challenge you to do more than name what matters. It will ask you what you're actually willing to lose to keep it.
Real values have to be clear, tested, and behavioral.
If they don't cost you anything, they're just words.
Athletes, ATLAS athletes, coaches — this one's for all of you. Notebook out.
👉 Learn more about 1:1 Coaching for active athletes and ATLAS athletes at nextseasonathletes.com
00:00 Intro & Highlights
01:45 Real vs Processed Relationships
02:36 Discipline in What We Consume
04:31 The Dichotomy of Discipline & Mental Health
06:35 Athletes & Veterans Transition
08:03 Mindset as the Separator
10:54 Underdog Beliefs & Environment
11:52 Values Exercise Framework
15:12 Choose Five Values
15:38 Turn Values Into Behaviors
16:19 Run a Values Audit
18:44 The Cost of Values
20:59 Work Without Recognition
23:22 Revisit Values Over Time
25:50 Coaching Without Judgment
27:27 Closing Thoughts & Gratitude
Johnny Martin is back.
When it comes to coaching high performers, Johnny is a legend. You don't need notoriety and fame to make an impact - and Johnny has impacted elite athletes, veterans and business leaders for years.
If you haven't heard Episode 026, go there first. This conversation picks up where that one left off — and it gets real from the first sentence.
In Part 1, we get into curiosity as a performance tool, what real confidence actually looks like, how the best coaches show up the same in every room, and the three questions Johnny uses with every high performer navigating transition.
This one is for athletes, coaches, and anyone who wants to perform at a higher level — in sport or in life.
Subscribe and hit the notification bell so you're ready for part 2. Trust me, you won't want to miss it.
👉 Learn more about 1:1 Coaching for active athletes and ATLAS athletes at nextseasonathletes.com
00:00 Intro & Highlights
01:19 Coaching Active Athletes & ATLAS Athletes
03:10 The Identity of Athletes at Turning Points
06:15 Missing the Game & Radical Ownership Shift
07:37 Time Boundaries & Showing Up
10:07 Curiosity & Three Non-negotiables
12:57 Rapid Fire Warmup
17:38 Success Goes Beyond You
19:13 Curiosity About Real Ones vs Imposters
22:13 Curiosity About Authenticity (& Three Authenticity Pillars)
25:12 Character at Home
27:03 Curiosity About Alter Egos & Control
28:10 Curiosity & Coaching High Performers
30:47 Curiosity & Social Media
33:30 Closing Thoughts, Prep for Part Two, Support & Gratitude
There's a moment every athlete knows. You're in a funk, you're slumping, you're losing confidence, you're not performing like you used to — and instead of moving forward, you grip tighter. To the stats. To the reputation. To the player you remember being. To the past.
That grip feels like effort — doing the work you're supposed to do. But what if it's actually a trap?
When your identity is anchored to a past version of yourself, your brain treats the gap between then and now as a threat — and it shifts from performance mode into survival mode. Tight muscles. Overthinking. Playing not to fail instead of playing to win.
You're not broken. Your brain is responding normally, but that doesn't mean it's what's best in these situations. It's trying to keep you safe, but it's holding you back.
This episode is about learning to put down the old version — not because it didn't matter, but because you can't build who you need to become if both hands are gripping so tight to who you were.
👉 Learn more about 1:1 Coaching for active athletes and ATLAS athletes at nextseasonathletes.com
00:00 Intro & Highlights
01:19 Spring Reset & Quitting
03:44 High School Identity
05:44 College Reality Check
07:23 Winter Break Quit
08:24 Mental Highlight Reel
10:35 Brain Threat Response
13:02 Letting Go Science
15:54 Reset Routines Cues
19:28 Build New Identity
22:49 Reinvent To Last
24:38 Closing Thoughts, Assessments, Support & Gratitude
We don’t feel suffering or pain because of life's challenges. As an athlete, you may not be struggling because of the pressure and the competition.
We struggle because we try to avoid that suffering. We try to avoid the pain. We try to stay clear of the challenges.
We resist.
In this episode, I break down suffering, self-reliance, pressure, grit, and resilience - and what they actually mean in real life.
Drawing from Ralph Waldo Emerson’s essay Self-Reliance and powerful conversations with Tony Robbins, Alex Hormozi, Chris Williamson and Arthur Brooks, we talk about:
Why pressure builds identity
Why confidence comes after courage
Why avoiding discomfort weakens you
And how suffering can shape you instead of crush you
If you’re in a hard season - on the field or after sport - this one’s for you.
👉 Learn more about 1:1 Coaching for active athletes and ATLAS athletes at nextseasonathletes.com
In the old myth, Atlas loses a fight and is condemned to carry the sky forever — not for a moment, but for a lifetime.
Knees bent. Back hunched. No recognition. No help in sight.
That’s what life feels like for a lot of athletes after the game ends.
And that’s why I built ATLAS Athletes.
This episode marks the official launch of ATLAS — a new coaching program for athletes adjusting to life after sport.
Not the pressure of game day, but the quieter, heavier pressure that follows: identity loss, uncertainty, responsibility, and the question nobody prepares you for...
“If I’m not an athlete anymore… who am I?”
In Episode 041, I break down:
why athletes often struggle more after sport than during it
how identity tied to performance becomes a trap
why grinding harder stops working in real life
and how ATLAS helps athletes rebuild direction, confidence, and purpose without carrying everything alone
This is for ATLAS Athletes — former competitors, transitioning athletes, and high performers who still feel the weight long after the lights go off.
The game may be over. Your life isn't.
This is the start of your Next Season.
👉 Learn more about ATLAS Athletes at nextseasonathletes.com
00:00 Intro & Attention
00:48 The Myth of Atlas: A Deeper Meaning
02:12 The Pressure and Weight of Life
05:01 Identity Beyond Athletics
08:26 A Mindset Shift
11:06 Announcing: Athletes Adjusting to Life After Sport
16:52 Practical Actions for ATLAS Athletes - 1: Name Your Throughline
19:40 Practical Actions for ATLAS Athletes - 2: Stack Bricks of Evidence for Confidence
20:49 Practical Actions for ATLAS Athletes - 3: Win the Inning
21:50 Wrap-Up & Closing Thoughts
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