When we are kinds we think that when we will be adult we will have it all figured out. Who we are, what we want to do, how do we want to live.... That is the biggest disappointment for me in regards to being an adult... I have NO IDEA what i want to do or even really who I am. But to get started I looked at my life and thought about the 3 main values the lead me in my life: family, loyalty and internal strength