The Rediscovered Mother

The One About Preparing For The Holiday Chaos


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Show Notes: Staying Grounded During the Holiday Chaos

Episode Summary:
Welcome to this special episode of The Rediscovered Mother! With the holidays fast approaching, we know this season can bring both joy and chaos. While it's a time to create cherished memories, it can also be overwhelming for your nervous system. In this episode, Cristina shares practical tools and tips to help you protect your energy, stay grounded, and truly enjoy the holiday season. From setting boundaries to creating moments of connection, this episode will empower you to approach the holidays with intention and calm.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • How to prepare for the holidays with intentional conversations with your partner and kids.
  • Tips for setting boundaries to protect your energy.
  • The importance of delegating tasks to avoid overwhelm.
  • How to stay grounded when overstimulation sets in.
  • Creative ways to stay connected with your kids during family gatherings.

Key Takeaways:

  1. Pre-Holiday Preparation:
    • Have a clear conversation with your partner to align on expectations, boundaries, and areas where you need support.
    • Create a “safe word” or phrase to signal when you need help during gatherings.
    • Involve your kids by explaining the day's plans in a way they can understand, and give them their own "safe word" for when they feel overwhelmed.
  2. Protect Your Energy:
    • Set clear boundaries and stick to them, even if it feels uncomfortable.
    • Remember that your needs are just as important as everyone else’s.
  3. Delegate Tasks:
    • Don’t feel the need to do everything yourself. Let others contribute by bringing dishes or helping with prep.
    • Use this as an opportunity to embrace the idea of a "modern village."
  4. Stay Grounded During Chaos:
    • Plan moments of connection with your kids during the festivities (e.g., a special wink or signal to check in with each other).
    • Take time to breathe, reset, and focus on what truly matters to you during the day.
  5. Reframe Your Perspective:
    • Shift from perfectionism to prioritizing joy and connection.
    • The holidays are about creating memories for you and your loved ones — you deserve to enjoy them, too!

Quote of the Episode:
“This holiday season is just as much about you as it is your family. You are the magic maker, Mama, and you deserve to enjoy every moment of it.”

Resources Mentioned:

  • Simple breathing techniques for calming the nervous system.
  • Ideas for family-friendly signals or “safe words” to stay connected.

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The Rediscovered MotherBy Cristina