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The One on Waiting is Hard


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Change is coming — but you can’t see it yet.

That foggy, restless in-between? That’s where new life takes form.

In this episode, Devany and Meredith sit inside the “goo” of becoming — the uncomfortable, beautiful not-yet — and share how resisting the urge to rush their rebrand opened a third way forward.

They unpack the systems that make waiting feel unbearable — capitalism, patriarchy, and the myth of productivity — and offer practices that root us back into body and trust: Centering Prayer, the inner posture “I can wait,” and the slow medicine of time itself.

An invitation to stop forcing what’s still forming — and to believe that what’s growing in the dark is already on its way.


Gentle note: strong language at times — use care if little ears are nearby.

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Key Themes
  • Waiting isn’t absence — it’s formation.
  • Discomfort is information, not failure.
  • Cultural wiring makes waiting feel unsafe — we can unwire it.
  • Slowness invites trust, connection, and imagination.
  • The “third way” emerges when we stay in relationship with tension.
  • Practices & Takeaways
    • Practice the inner posture: “I can wait.”
    • Return to Centering Prayer or silence as an anchor of consent and release.
    • Notice when your body wants to rush — pause, breathe, soften.
    • Allow slow integration — what’s unseen is still forming.
    • You don’t have to earn your belonging; you can return to it.

    • Notable Quotes

      “Waiting is not the absence of movement — it’s the place where new life takes form.”

      “It’s easier to imagine the end of the world than the end of capitalism.”
      “Efficiency has replaced meaning — and meaning lives in the spaces we rush past.”
      “Your discomfort isn’t failure — it’s an invitation to listen for what’s trying to take form.”
      “I can wait isn’t stillness; it’s consent to life moving through me.”
      “Think in geological time, not capitalist time — the soul is slow.”

      Books & Mentors Mentioned
      • Capitalist Realism — Mark Fisher
      • The Dance of the Dissident Daughter — Sue Monk Kidd
      • Thomas Keating — Centering Prayer & the Spiritual Journey
      • Teilhard de Chardin — Ecological Time
      • Rumi — The Counterfeit Coin

      • Stay Connected

        Devany — Illumine Within: 1:1 sessions & Centering Circles

        Meredith — Hibernate Healing: energy work & guidance

        A gentle reminder: We share from lived experience and practice. This isn’t medical, mental-health, or legal advice. Use discernment, take what resonates, and leave the rest.

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