In this episode of The Feminine Rebellion, I join host Natty Frasca to discuss the realities of open relationships. As a certified sex and relationship coach, I share my personal journey—from experiencing sexual dissatisfaction to embracing ethical non-monogamy with my partner, Scott.

Together, Natty and I explore different relationship styles, address common misconceptions, and highlight the importance of communication, consent, and self-discovery. Our conversation encourages listeners to question societal norms, honor their desires, and approach relationships with curiosity, openness, and respect. I also offer practical advice for anyone considering or navigating open relationships.

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Host gives a content warning and introduces the episode’s focus on open relationships and guest Jennifer Callow.

Jennifer’s Backstory: Awakening and Therapy (00:02:56)

Jennifer shares her limited sexual experiences, therapy journey, and decision to propose an open relationship.

The Turning Point: Therapy Session and Decision (00:05:04)

Jennifer describes the pivotal therapy session and the ultimatum that led to opening her marriage.

Sexual Exploration and Inspiration (00:06:19)

Jennifer discusses influences like “Sex, Love & Goop,” and her initial solo exploration of sexuality.

Discovering New Sexual Possibilities (00:08:24)

Jennifer recounts her first experiences outside marriage and the contrast with her previous sex life.

Defining Open Relationships and Types (00:10:10)

Jennifer explains what open relationships are, including swinging, polyamory, and hybrid dynamics.

Jennifer and Scott’s Unique Dynamic (00:13:01)

Jennifer details her and Scott’s polyamorous relationship, dating women together, and their specific boundaries.

Navigating Jealousy and Relationship Rules (00:15:33)

Discussion on jealousy, emotional responses, and why they only date together to strengthen their bond.

Evolution of Their Open Relationship (00:17:42)

Jennifer describes the trial-and-error process of finding the right dynamic, including dating couples and single women.

Being Public vs. Private About ENM (00:22:58)

Jennifer talks about being open publicly, how friends and family react, and the importance of personal choice in disclosure.

Common Mistakes When Opening Up (00:26:23)

Jennifer outlines mistakes couples make, like abrupt conversations, and emphasizes education and gradual exploration.

Stigma and High-Achieving Women in ENM (00:30:07)

Discussion on the stigma of polyamory, and how many successful women are exploring open relationships.

Exploring Fetishes and Desires (00:32:41)

Jennifer introduces FetLife, discusses discovering new desires, and how different partners fulfill different needs.

Permission to Play and Mainstreaming Kink (00:36:50)

Conversation about the importance of play, mainstream depictions of kink, and the empowerment of sexual exploration.

Resources and Erotica for Exploration (00:40:39)

Jennifer recommends women-focused porn, audio erotica, and smut literature as safe ways to explore desires.

Final Thoughts: Curiosity and Permission (00:42:48)

Jennifer encourages curiosity, slow exploration, and permission to discover what works for each individual or couple.

In this episode of The Open Bedroom Podcast, I interview Rob Kancler, an expert in men’s sexual health and intimacy. We discuss the widespread crisis of physical intimacy, the impact of cultural conditioning, and the lack of honest conversations about sex—especially among men. Rob shares insights from his "Men of Substance" program, emphasizing the importance of body intelligence, nervous system regulation, and authentic connection. Together, we explore practical tools for cultivating deeper intimacy and announce upcoming programs for both men and women to foster healthier, more fulfilling sexual relationships.**Witnessing a 45-Minute Orgasm (00:00:04)** Rob describes witnessing a man induce a prolonged orgasm, sparking his curiosity about sexual potential.**The Crisis of Sexual Intimacy & Male Communication (00:01:51)** Rob discusses men’s lack of honest conversations about sex, cultural taboos, and the impact of sexual “lineages.”**Sexual Operating Systems & Widespread Dysfunction (00:07:08)** Rob explains the concept of a “sexual operating system” and common issues like mismatched libido and sexual dysfunction.

**Unfulfilled Sex Lives & Societal Statistics (00:11:45)** Rob highlights how few people experience fulfilling sex lives, referencing statistics on sexual dissatisfaction.

**Men’s Sexual Satisfaction & Awakening (00:16:20)** Discussion about when men realize their sexual approach is lacking and the importance of listening to partners.

**Beyond Routine Sex: Emergent Experience (00:20:05)** Rob describes the value of letting go of expectations and choreography to access deeper intimacy and pleasure.

**Sexual “Magic” and Forgetting What You Know (00:26:21)** Rob explains that advanced sexual experiences aren’t magic, but require unlearning cultural scripts.

**Horniness, Consciousness, and Spiritual Sex (00:33:28)** Rob introduces the idea of a bridge between horniness and consciousness leading to spiritual sexual experiences.

**Addiction, Arousal, and Embodied Safety (00:38:42)** Rob discusses how addiction to peak orgasms and dysregulation block deeper sexual experiences.

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In this episode of The Open Bedroom Podcast, I welcome Candia Raquel, a Mexican sensualist, scientist, and artist, to discuss how pleasure can be a powerful antidote to anxiety.

We explore the difference between sensuality and sexuality, the impact of societal conditioning on our relationship with pleasure, and practical somatic tools—like mindful rituals, breathwork, and embracing bodily signals—to help us reconnect with our bodies and the present moment.

Candia shares accessible strategies for busy listeners to cultivate daily pleasure, offering a compassionate approach to overcoming anxiety and fostering greater fulfillment.

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In this episode of The Open Bedroom Podcast, I talk with Andrea Dindinger, a veteran marriage and family therapist, about why couples have the same arguments repeatedly—often over small issues like running late or household chores.

Andrea explains these fights usually mask deeper needs for love, respect, and connection. We discuss relationship archetypes, emotional triggers, and practical tools like “bookmarking” conflicts.

Our conversation offers actionable advice for breaking negative cycles, improving communication, and turning recurring disagreements into opportunities for greater intimacy and understanding.

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Sex and Money: The Roots of Power Struggles (00:00:03)

Andrea discusses how sex and money are complex, power-based issues in relationships.

Podcast Introduction and Guest Welcome (00:00:32)

Jen introduces the podcast, Andrea’s background, and the episode’s focus on recurring fights.

Why Do Couples Have the Same Fights? (00:01:07)

Andrea explains why couples repeat the same arguments and the emotional needs beneath them.

Common Triggers: Running Late and Household Habits (00:01:44)

Discussion of typical recurring fights, like lateness and household chores, and their deeper meanings.

The Loop as an Invitation for Intimacy (00:03:23)

Andrea reframes recurring fights as opportunities for connection rather than blame.

Breaking Down the “Running Late” Archetype (00:04:22)

Jen and Andrea analyze the punctual “drill sergeant” archetype and its roots in childhood or military experiences.

Emotional Layers Behind Punctuality (00:06:07)

Exploring the fear, anxiety, and shame beneath anger about lateness.

The “Airy Fairy” and Multitasker Archetypes (00:08:05)

Discussion of the partner who is less time-focused, often multitasking or losing track of time.

Disassociation and Entitlement in Time Perception (00:10:18)

Andrea explains how some people disconnect from time and its social impact.

How Opposites Attract in Relationships (00:10:51)

Why punctual and non-punctual partners are drawn to each other and how their dynamics play out.

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What is New Relationship Energy? (00:01:19) Explains the chemical basis of NRE, its emotional impact, and outlines the episode’s structure: dangers, benefits, and management.Dangers of NRE: Neglect and Rash Decisions (00:02:44) Discusses neglecting existing relationships, children, work, and making impulsive decisions due to NRE.Dangers of NRE: Ignoring Red Flags and Jealousy (00:04:07) Covers ignoring red flags in new partners and how NRE can fuel jealousy and insecurities in existing relationships.Dangers of NRE: Partners Aren’t Therapists (00:05:28) Advises against using partners as emotional dumping grounds for NRE excitement; suggests finding friends or therapists instead.Dangers of NRE: Emotional Instability (00:06:42) Addresses emotional highs and lows, and the importance of maintaining emotional regulation and security with existing partners.Benefits of NRE: Mood, Libido, and Connection (00:09:09) Highlights NRE’s positive effects: mood boost, increased libido, emotional closeness, and willingness to try new experiences.Benefits of NRE: New Experiences and Growth (00:11:25) Shares personal stories illustrating how NRE encourages trying new things and expanding personal horizons.Managing NRE: Setting Boundaries (00:13:30) Emphasizes the importance of boundaries with new and existing partners to maintain relationship health.Managing NRE: Calendaring and Scheduling (00:16:01) Describes using calendaring systems to organize time with multiple partners and ensure everyone’s needs are met.Follow The Open Bedroom Podcast:https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast

In this episode of The Open Bedroom Podcast, I interview Alley, the first “third” (a person joining a couple) featured on the show. Alley shares her candid experiences as a third in a polyamorous triad, discussing communication challenges, emotional complexities, and the importance of clear boundaries and self-awareness.

Our conversation explores misconceptions about thirds, the need for honest dialogue, and the realities of navigating love, jealousy, and logistics in ethical non-monogamy. Both Alley and I emphasize treating all partners as equals and highlight the ongoing growth required in open relationships.

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Ever wonder why some relationships feel effortlessly passionate while others lose their spark? The secret lies in masculine and feminine polarity. In this episode, we’re diving deep into how embracing your natural energy—whether masculine or feminine—can transform your relationship and help you get exactly what you want in love.We’ll explore: ⚡ Why polarity creates attraction and deepens connection 💃 How stepping into your feminine energy invites him to step up 🕺 The masculine drive to protect, provide, and pursue 🔥 Practical shifts to bring more balance, passion, and harmony to your relationshipIf you’re ready to create a dynamic that feels magnetic and deeply fulfilling, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about the power of polarity!👉 Tune in now and start shifting your love life today!Ashanti’s Story of Loss and Resilience (00:02:21)Ashanti recounts losing her home, financial collapse, and rebuilding her life and business.Defining Resilience vs. Strength (00:05:35)Ashanti explains the difference between resilience and traditional strength, emphasizing emotional processing.Moving Through Life Transitions (00:06:18)Jen shares her own experiences with life changes, motherhood, and emotional transitions.Privilege, Perspective, and Emotional Collapse (00:07:18)Ashanti discusses privilege, international experiences, and how people collapse after trauma or rejection.Turning Tragedy into Power (00:09:47)Ashanti describes how resilience can transform heartbreak or loss into personal growth and empowerment.Fluidity, Resilience, and Business Lessons (00:10:25)Jen and Ashanti discuss resilience in business, letting go, and trusting the process.Trust, Feminine Energy, and Blind Decisions (00:12:36)Ashanti talks about trusting intuition, making decisions without evidence, and shifting social media strategies.Divine PTSD and Growth vs. Running (00:14:13)Ashanti introduces the concept of “divine PTSD” and differentiates between running from problems and expanding.Love Languages and Self-Love (00:15:36)Ashanti challenges traditional love languages, advocating for self-sourced love and validation.Divine Love Bombing and Non-Attachment (00:17:26)Ashanti shares her approach to relationships, expressing feelings without attachment to others’ reactions.Self-Love, Divine Narcissism, and Sisterhood (00:20:19)Ashanti explains “divine narcissism,” loving oneself and others, and overcoming jealousy and sister wounds.Fulfilling Your Own Love Language (00:22:49)Jen and Ashanti discuss practical ways to meet your own needs, like physical touch and affirmation.Ordering from the Energetic Buffet (00:23:25)Ashanti explains manifesting ideal partners authentically, not through manipulation.Modern Relationship Challenges and Solutions (00:24:16)Jen asks about high divorce rates, unrealistic expectations, and how to restore polarity and happiness.Emotional Intelligence as the Foundation (00:25:48)Ashanti emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence and energy work for women’s fulfillment.Inner Masculine and Manifesting Partners (00:29:43)Ashanti introduces the concept of the “inner king” and building a relationship with your inner masculine.Relationship Evolution and Masculine/Feminine Dynamics (00:32:04)Jen shares her relationship history and current challenges with masculine/feminine balance.Self-Worth Warriors Program and Offerings (00:50:16)Ashanti describes her Self-Worth Warriors course, community, and other coaching offerings.

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Driven by technological advancements and a growing emphasis on sexual wellness, the sextech market has exploded on a global scale in recent years. The wearables category has arguably seen the most interesting and compelling growth with products that do things like help alleviate pain during penetration, others use AI to map changes in the pelvic floor, and innovations like FirmTech’s award-winning Tech Ring—the first smart intimacy wearable of its kind—enhances pleasure while improving cardiac health.Join Dr. Justin Elliot and I a we talk about erections!Introduction and Erection Ring Demonstration (00:00:02) Dr. Justin demonstrates how an erection ring helps men maintain erections longer by holding blood in the penis.Podcast Introduction and Guest Welcome (00:00:44) Jen introduces the podcast, its topics, and welcomes Dr. Elliot Justin as the guest.Defining Erections and Erectile Dysfunction (00:01:21) Discussion on the definition of erections, erectile dysfunction, and the problematic broadness of the term.Causes of Erectile Dysfunction (00:02:06) Explains the difference between men who can't attain erections (blood flow issues) and those who can't sustain them.Nocturnal Erections as a Health Indicator (00:03:54) Nocturnal erections are discussed as a vital sign for cardiovascular and sexual health.Tracking Nocturnal Erections with Technology (00:04:57) Introduction of Firm Tech’s sensor-embedded erection ring for monitoring nocturnal erections.How the Erection Ring Works (00:05:48) Explains the dual function of the ring: tracking vital signs and sustaining erections.Importance of Nighttime Monitoring (00:06:22) Why nocturnal erections are a better health indicator than daytime erections.Predictive Value of Nocturnal Erections (00:06:44) Decrease in nocturnal erections predicts higher risk of heart attack; importance of early detection.Preventive Sexual Health and Standard of Care (00:08:33) Advocates for routine monitoring of erectile health as preventive care for men over 45.

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In this episode of The Open Bedroom Podcast, I sit down with Veronica Lynn Clark, a transformative coach and spiritual teacher, to explore conscious dating, self-discovery, and intimacy.

We discuss how beliefs and past trauma shape our relationship patterns, the importance of self-awareness, and embodying the qualities we seek in a partner. Veronica shares her personal healing journey, the value of vulnerability, and offers practical advice for authentic connection.

Our conversation emphasizes intentionality, clear boundaries, and doing the inner work as keys to attracting meaningful, heart-centered relationships. We hope to inspire you to pursue deeper intimacy and personal growth in your own love life.

Meeting from Innocence and Curiosity (00:00:02)

Veronica discusses meeting people from a place of innocence, curiosity, and embodied presence rather than intellect.

Being Present with Others (00:01:15)

Veronica emphasizes the importance of being present with others and how it impacts connection.

Letting Go of Preconceived Notions (00:02:30)

She talks about letting go of preconceived notions and expectations when interacting with others.

Embodied Presence (00:03:45)

Veronica explains what it means to be in embodied presence during conversations.

Listening Deeply (00:05:10)

She highlights the value of listening deeply to others without judgment.

Responding Authentically (00:06:25)

Veronica discusses responding authentically rather than reacting from habit.

The Power of Vulnerability (00:07:40)

She shares insights on the power of vulnerability in building genuine connections.

Creating Safe Spaces (00:09:00)

Veronica talks about creating safe spaces for open and honest dialogue.

Mutual Understanding (00:10:15)

She emphasizes the importance of mutual understanding in relationships.

Transformative Encounters (00:11:30)

Veronica describes how transformative encounters can arise from authentic presence.

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