The Open Bedroom Podcast

Intro(00:00:00)

Jennifer welcomes Jason and introduces the topic of pleasure in men's sex lives.

Father's Day Story Begins (00:01:24)

Jason shares his Father's Day experience and the plans made with his wife.

Exploring New Dynamics (00:02:55)

Jason reflects on the typical sexual routine and the desire to try something different.

The Role of the "Commander" (00:03:19)

Discussion on Jason's usual dominance in their sexual encounters and his nickname.

Incorporating Sensory Play (00:05:03)

Jason describes the introduction of sensory play tools in their intimate life.

Transformative Sensory Experience (00:06:10)

Jason details the sensations he experienced during the sensory play with his wife.

Edging and Intense Stimulation (00:08:05)

Jason explains the prolonged stimulation and its effect on his experience.

The Best Orgasm of His Life (00:08:50)

Jason shares the outcome of their session, highlighting its intensity and pleasure.

Guilt and Shared Pleasure (00:09:10)

Post-experience guilt leads to a conversation about mutual enjoyment in pleasure.

The Importance of Eye Contact (00:12:03)

Discussion on the significance of being seen and making eye contact during intimacy.

Vulnerability in Intimacy (00:13:10)

Exploration of vulnerability when allowing a partner to give pleasure.

Advice for Partners (00:14:16)

Encouragement for women to initiate conversations about pleasure with their partners.

Scheduling Relationship Dynamics (00:15:45)

Jennifer shares the benefits of scheduling different types of intimate experiences.

Balancing Spontaneity and Planning (00:17:29)

Discussion on finding a balance between spontaneous and scheduled intimate time.

Communication and Trust (00:18:58)

Importance of open communication in exploring new dynamics in relationships.

Using Storytelling to Communicate (00:21:05)

Jason shares how he used storytelling to introduce new ideas to his wife.

Final Advice for Men (00:22:52)

Encouragement for men to be open to receiving pleasure and not just giving.

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Today I'm discussing the pressure of holiday commitments and the importance of saying no to create personal space.

Intentional Time with Partners (00:01:28)

Planning Date Nights (00:02:35)

Holiday-Themed Activities (00:04:46)

Avoiding Overcommitment (00:06:48)

Engaging in Festive Activities (00:07:51)Jennifer encourages couples to do holiday-themed activities together, fostering connection and seasonal joy.

Adding Spice with Lingerie and Toys (00:08:51)

Winter Dating Guide Promotion (00:12:46)

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Empowered Sexuality Connection (00:00:00)

Serena emphasizes the link between empowered sexuality and becoming an OnlyFans creator.

Validating Anxiety (00:04:04)

Serena validates feelings of anxiety while encouraging a perception shift towards excitement.

Identifying Your Why (00:05:04)

Importance of understanding personal motivations for starting an OnlyFans page.

Navigating Family Concerns (00:06:26)

Addressing fears about family discovering an OnlyFans account and managing those conversations.

Openness with Children (00:08:19)

Jennifer shares her perspective on discussing her work with her children.

Anonymous Accounts (00:09:11)

Serena discusses the option of using stage names for privacy on OnlyFans.

Empowerment Through OnlyFans (00:10:24)

Serena reflects on her personal empowerment journey through creating content on OnlyFans.

Evolution of Content (00:11:01)

Serena shares how her content style and intentions have shifted over time.

Sexual Empowerment and Art (00:13:37)

Discussion on the beauty of women's bodies and the importance of self-love in content creation.

Educational Content on OnlyFans (00:14:54)

Serena confirms that she continues to provide educational content alongside her erotic offerings.

Personal Experiences with Empowerment (00:15:49)

Jennifer shares her own experiences with empowerment and sexuality through her platform.

Connection with Followers (00:17:35)

Exploring the deeper connection content creators have with their audience on OnlyFans.

Freedom of Expression (00:18:38)

Serena discusses the creative freedom and boundaries within the OnlyFans platform.

Setting Boundaries (00:20:40)

Importance of establishing personal boundaries as a content creator on OnlyFans.

Setup for OnlyFans (00:21:51)

Jennifer and Serena discuss what equipment and preparation are needed to start an OnlyFans page.

Boudoir Photo Shoot Benefits (00:22:49)

Exploring the empowerment and self-discovery from doing a boudoir photo shoot.

Starting an OnlyFans Page (00:23:55)

Encouragement to start an OnlyFans page and learn through exploration and observation.

Understanding Your Vibe (00:25:15)

Discussion on identifying personal vibe and target audience for content creation.

Content Creation and Professionalism (00:27:17)

Importance of quality and professionalism in content creation, leveraging previous experiences.

Differentiating on OnlyFans (00:28:18)

Strategies for standing out among numerous creators on OnlyFans.

Niche Identification (00:29:17)

Advice on selecting three main focuses for content to establish a niche.

Marketing Strategies (00:30:00)

Insights on effective marketing methods for promoting OnlyFans accounts.

Leveraging Unique Skills (00:33:10)

Encouragement to combine existing skills and interests with OnlyFans content.

Connection with Subscribers (00:36:42)

Importance of building authentic connections and maintaining boundaries with subscribers.

Diverse Content Creators (00:38:24)

Discussion on non-sexy content creators on OnlyFans and their potential success.

Consulting Services Overview (00:42:55)

Details about coaching and consulting services for starting an OnlyFans account.

Coaching Empowerment (00:45:47)

Serena offers coaching for sexual empowerment, addressing BDSM, kink, and age play topics.

Anxiety and Support (00:46:11)

Serena discusses the emotional support she provides for OnlyFans creators facing anxiety and fear.

Podcast Conclusion (00:46:39)

Jennifer expresses gratitude for Serena's appearance and plans for future discussions on OnlyFans.

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Episodes Referenced:

EP# 154 OnlyFans with Kate Shelor

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Ep#91: Sex Ed Censorship: Where to Find Amazing How-To Videos with Whitni Miller

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Ep#70: S*X Work 101 with Kiley

https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/episodes/Ep70-SX-Work-101-with-Kiley-e1utarq

Timestamps by PodSqueezeIntroduction to the Episode (00:00:02)

Jennifer introduces the podcast and discusses the importance of staying within relationship boundaries.

Catching Up (00:00:51)

Scott and Jennifer share personal updates, including Scott's education and recent surgery.

Protecting Your Bond (00:03:41)

The couple emphasizes the importance of maintaining their bond while exploring open relationships.

The Beginning of Their Relationship (00:08:14)

Scott reflects on their early relationship and the importance of mutual growth and exploration.

First Encounter with Guardrails (00:10:04)

Jennifer recalls a pivotal moment when Scott redirected her focus on strengthening their relationship.

Establishing Boundaries (00:17:39)

Scott discusses the importance of establishing clear boundaries and understanding each other's needs.

Jealousy and Growth (00:20:10)

The couple talks about navigating jealousy and the importance of growing together rather than apart.

Conclusion on Open Relationships (00:22:46)

Scott and Jennifer conclude by sharing their successful experiences in an open relationship and mutual respect.

Attention and Excitement in Relationships (00:23:38)

Scott reflects on maintaining excitement in long-term relationships to avoid mundane routines.

Deterioration of Bond (00:25:05)

Jennifer introduces themes that weaken relationships, emphasizing the decline in attention, interest, and intimacy.

Engagement and Connection (00:26:16)

Scott discusses the importance of actively engaging and staying connected with each other amidst distractions.

Chasing New Excitement (00:29:10)

Jennifer and Scott explore the thrill of new attractions and how it relates to their primary relationship.

Navigating Attraction (00:30:32)

Scott shares how he prioritizes their bond when faced with new romantic interests.

The Risk of New Relationships (00:33:12)

Jennifer raises concerns about partners abandoning long-term relationships for new, exciting connections.

Cheating in Open Relationships (00:35:12)

Jennifer discusses the phenomenon of cheating within open relationships and its impact on partners.

Self-Control and Respect (00:36:09)

Scott emphasizes the need for personal discipline and respect in open relationships to avoid betrayal.

Rekindling the Spark (00:40:07)

Jennifer questions how to revive excitement in a relationship when partners feel neglected or bored.

Important Questions to Ask (00:44:09)

Scott lists critical questions couples should consider to assess their motivations and connection in open relationships.

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This is Part II of The Play featuring Michael Hollis.

Be sure and go pack to EP#162 to catch the first half.

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Intro (00:00:00)

Michael describes the welcoming atmosphere at play parties, including bag and phone checks.

Size Doesn't Matter (00:00:33)

Discussion on perceptions of penis size and the importance of personality and skills in intimate settings.

Consent and Boundaries (00:03:59)

Emphasis on the importance of consent and setting boundaries, especially regarding voyeurism.

Intimacy Exercise (00:05:05)

Explanation of an intimacy exercise involving eye gazing to foster nonverbal communication.

Dibs: Desires, Intentions, and Boundaries (00:08:10)

Introduction to the "dibs" concept for sharing desires and boundaries among participants.

Creating a Positive Space (00:10:17)

Discussion on fostering a positive culture around play parties through open communication and shared experiences.

Art and Performances at Parties (00:12:29)

Michael describes the creative performances that enhance the atmosphere at play parties.

Crowdsourced Art Experiences (00:14:06)

Michael shares a memorable puppet show performance that humorously addresses insecurities in relationships.

Late-Night Connections (00:16:29)

Observations of various intimate and playful interactions occurring at parties, showcasing diversity in experiences.

Goddess Garden Concept (00:19:37)

Explanation of a female-only space at parties to encourage exploration and comfort among women.

Vulnerability and Connection (00:20:40)

Michael emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in fostering deeper connections at play parties.

After Party Dynamics (00:21:09)

Discussion on the continuation of the party atmosphere and the challenges of ending a successful event.

Play Party Leadership (00:22:29)

Discussion on leadership dynamics and the importance of knowing when to follow.

Scarf Cocking Humor (00:23:12)

Light-hearted exchange about a production manager's choice of attire at a party.

Next Steps for Community Involvement (00:24:07)

Guidance on how to apply and engage with the play party community.

Introducing the Play Network App (00:24:54)

Overview of a new app designed for community connection and sharing experiences.

Community Engagement and Features (00:26:31)

Discussion on app features for connecting people and sharing kinks.

Networking and Job Opportunities (00:27:38)

Exploring networking, job listings, and community events within the app.

Appreciation for Community Builders (00:29:06)

Acknowledgment of the importance of courageous individuals in sex-positive discussions.

Validation of Efforts (00:30:54)

Reinforcement of the shared mission in promoting sex positivity and community support.

Closing Remarks (00:31:44)

Final thoughts on community building and encouragement for continued efforts.

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Introduction to Partners (00:00:00)

Jennifer introduces her four partners and discusses her busy life with children and work.

Mastering Multiple Relationships (00:01:10)

She shares how managing multiple partners expands one's capacity over time.

Kitchen Table Polyamory (00:04:26)

Explains the concept of kitchen table polyamory, emphasizing transparency among partners.

Using Calendars and Schedules (00:06:39)

Discusses the importance of shared calendars for managing time effectively with multiple partners.

Daily Contact for Connection (00:11:15)

Stresses the need for daily communication to maintain strong connections with each partner.

Apps for Communication (00:13:09)

Highlights various apps like Telegram and Marco Polo for effective communication with partners.

Planning Fun Dates (00:17:15)

Encourages planning enjoyable activities and dates to strengthen relationships.

Having Fun in the Bedroom (00:19:10)

Describes different sexual dynamics with partners and introduces the use of a sex chair for enhanced experiences.

BDSM Corner Experience (00:21:59)

Jennifer shares her experience shopping for high-quality BDSM toys and discusses the importance of usability.

Using Toys in Relationships (00:23:00)

She emphasizes making sex fun with toys and encourages partners to bring their own for shared experiences.

Scheduling and Capacity (00:23:30)

Jennifer addresses common questions about dating multiple partners, focusing on scheduling and managing relationship capacity.

Podcast Review Shoutout (00:24:09)

She reads a listener's review, encouraging others to rate and review the podcast for greater engagement.

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Intro (00:00:00)

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Intro (00:00:00)

Jennifer shares insights about her relationship with Scott and their polyamorous journey.

Fluidity in Relationships (00:02:23)

The concept of fluidity in relationships is explored, highlighting changes over time.

Navigating Open Relationships (00:03:36)

Jennifer discusses her experiences and challenges in transitioning to an open relationship.

Exploring Relationship Configurations (00:04:40)

Different relationship configurations are examined, including throuples and dating couples.

Desire for a Closed Throuple (00:05:39)

Scott expresses a wish for a semi-closed throuple, emphasizing safety and commitment.

Updating Dating Profiles (00:07:41)

The couple updates their dating profiles to reflect their new relationship intentions.

Successful Matching Experience (00:08:52)

Jennifer recounts a successful match with a woman interested in their dynamic.

Unexpected Connection with a Man (00:10:03)

Jennifer shares an unexpected connection with a man looking for a couple for his wife.

Embracing Polyamorous Vibes (00:11:54)

Jennifer expresses excitement about the positive dynamics with their new partners.

Desire for Shared Experiences (00:12:54)

Jennifer reflects on the importance of shared experiences and connections in polyamory.

Dating Apps as a Portal (00:13:57)

Jennifer views dating apps as a magical portal for finding compatible partners.

Current Relationship Configurations (00:14:53)

Jennifer outlines her current relationships, including two throuples and solo dating.

Encouragement for Partner Support (00:15:53)

Jennifer encourages partners to support each other in finding additional partners.

Shared Efforts in Dating (00:16:51)

The couple collaborates on dating efforts, ensuring mutual understanding and communication.

Challenges with New Partners (00:17:46)

Jennifer discusses the challenges of integrating new partners into their relationship.

Alignment and Intentions (00:18:49)

Emphasizing alignment in dating profiles, Jennifer highlights the importance of clear intentions.

Podcast Introduction (00:20:07)

Jennifer thanks listeners and encourages them to like, subscribe, and share the podcast for more discussions.

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