It's the last episode (at least for now) of The Open Bedroom Podcast!

Michelle and I explore Cuddle and Surrogate Partner therapy in today's episode!

Timestamps by PodSqueezeIntroduction to Memory Reconsolidation (00:00:02)

Discussion on memory reconsolidation and questioning childhood beliefs about touch.

Welcome to the Podcast (00:00:29)

Jennifer introduces the episode's focus on surrogate partner therapy and professional cuddling with Michelle Renee.

Michelle's Background (00:01:09)

Michelle shares her role as a surrogate partner and professional cuddler, emphasizing her supportive approach.

Community Building in Intimacy (00:01:24)

Michelle discusses her involvement in community building within the intimacy sector and her initiative, Soft Cock Week.

Professional Cuddling Explained (00:01:45)

Jennifer inquires about professional cuddling, highlighting the need for more touch and connection in people's lives.

Cuddles Training Overview (00:02:23)

Michelle explains the training and code of conduct for professional cuddlers, emphasizing client-led sessions.

Client Autonomy in Cuddling (00:03:21)

Discussion about the importance of clients articulating their needs and maintaining boundaries during sessions.

Finding a Professional Cuddler (00:04:23)

Michelle advises on reputable organizations for finding professional cuddlers and the challenges of the industry.

Qualities of an Ideal Cuddler (00:05:54)

Michelle describes the ideal qualities for professional cuddlers, focusing on passion for helping others.

Cuddle Session Dynamics (00:09:25)

Overview of what a typical cuddle session looks like, emphasizing client comfort and choice.

Exploring Client Preferences (00:11:09)

Jennifer and Michelle discuss how clients express their needs and preferences during cuddle sessions.

Vetting Clients (00:12:03)

Michelle explains her process for vetting clients to ensure a comfortable and safe environment.

Addressing Client Concerns (00:13:59)

Discussion on handling natural physical responses during cuddle sessions and ensuring client comfort.

Navigating Client Needs (00:16:44)

Michelle shares insights on clients' struggles with touch and how she helps them explore their needs.

Stories from Cuddle Sessions (00:17:49)

Michelle recounts memorable cuddle sessions, illustrating the emotional and therapeutic aspects of her work.

Introduction to Surrogate Partner Therapy (00:19:19)

Michelle introduces the concept of surrogate partner therapy and its historical context in addressing intimacy issues.

Introduction to Surrogate Partner Therapy (00:20:08)

Discussion on the evolution of surrogate partner therapy and its portrayal in media.

Building Relational Skills (00:21:08)

Exploration of how surrogate partner therapy aids clients in developing relational skills.

Platonic Surrogate Partner Therapy (00:22:41)

Transition from erotic to platonic surrogate partner therapy for deeper emotional support.

Cuddle Sessions Explained (00:24:00)

Description of cuddle sessions and the balance between nurturing and challenging clients.

Client Experience and Healing (00:25:09)

Sharing a client's journey of healing through cuddling and emotional safety.

Collaborative Therapy Approach (00:27:56)

Insights on the collaborative relationship between the surrogate partner, client, and therapist.

Soft Cock Appreciation Week (00:35:41)

Introduction of a week dedicated to celebrating soft penises and normalizing discussions around erectile issues.

Anti-Oppression Rate System (00:41:40)

Michelle discusses her experiment with clients choosing their own rates based on a self-assessment of privileges.

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Introduction to Boudoir Photography (00:00:00)

Discussion on the transformative moment when women see their boudoir photos for the first time.

Jamie's Journey into Boudoir (00:01:17)

Jamie shares her personal experience and motivation for becoming a boudoir photographer.

Comfort and Vulnerability in Boudoir Shoots (00:02:39)

Exploration of how Jamie creates a comfortable environment for clients during shoots.

Understanding Body Dysmorphia (00:05:05)

Discussion on body dysmorphia and the disconnect between self-image and reality.

Client Reactions to Photos (00:08:55)

Jamie describes the emotional reactions clients have when they see their photos.

Using Boudoir Photos (00:09:40)

Conversation about what clients do with their boudoir photos and privacy concerns.

Personalizing Boudoir Sessions (00:11:04)

Jamie explains how she tailors each session to fit the client's preferences and desires.

Lingerie Choices for Boudoir (00:12:08)

Discussion on the importance of lingerie selection and where to find it.

Fun and Creative Boudoir Shoots (00:14:25)

Jamie shares a memorable baking-themed boudoir shoot experience.

Location for Boudoir Photography (00:18:00)

Jamie describes her studio location and invites listeners to consider booking a session.

Encouraging Self-Confidence (00:19:46)

Tips on how to feel sexy and confident, including involving partners in the process.

Favorite Boudoir Shoot Memory (00:21:00)

Jamie reflects on a special shoot that blossomed into a lasting friendship.

Closing Remarks (00:22:23)

The host thanks listeners and encourages them to like, subscribe, and share the podcast.

Invitation for Feedback (00:22:46)

Listeners are invited to comment on topics of interest and share the podcast with friends.

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The Proposal at the Triad Date (00:00:02) Dr. Rachel shares the story of a joint proposal to Aaron before their commitment ceremony.

Living in Florida (00:02:05)

The throuple discusses their current living situation in Florida and societal perceptions of their relationship.

The Origin of Their Relationship (00:03:51)

Rachel recounts how they met in August 2019 while living in Mexico and the quick connection formed.

Moving in Together (00:04:40)

The throuple shares their decision to move in together after just 12 days of knowing each other.

Navigating Relationship Dynamics (00:06:48)

Discussion about the intentionality behind their relationship and the importance of communication.

Long-Distance Phase (00:08:40)

They describe the long-distance aspect of their relationship before officially moving in together.

Adjusting to Co-Habitation (00:09:42)

The challenges faced while adapting to living together in a small space and unpacking personal items.

Coping with COVID-19 (00:13:34)

The throuple reflects on how COVID-19 impacted their relationship while living together.

Finding a Bigger Living Space (00:15:02)

They discuss their decision to move to a larger home in Florida to accommodate their working needs.

Buying a House Together (00:16:56)

The unique experience of purchasing a home as a throuple and the legal considerations involved.

Planning the Wedding (00:18:34)

The throuple shares their thoughts on the significance of their wedding and the planning process.

Joint Proposal Surprise (00:20:09)

Discussion about the surprise joint proposal planned for Rachel's birthday, including escape room details.

Engagement Ring Discovery (00:24:01)

Rachel found Jennifer's Pinterest ring board, leading to the selection of an appropriate engagement ring.

Aaron's Proposal Inclusion (00:24:43)

Jennifer and Casey planned a joint proposal for Aaron to ensure he felt included in their commitment.

Destination Wedding Planning (00:27:02)

The throuple discusses their destination wedding in Puerto Vallarta and the challenges of family acceptance.

Wedding Ceremony Insights (00:30:12)

Details about their wedding ceremony, including vows and officiation by Aaron's brother.

Navigating Relationship Dynamics (00:31:53)

Exploration of the challenges and conversations that shaped their unique relationship structure over time.

Holiday Celebrations Approach (00:35:40)

Discussion on how they celebrate holidays, balancing family traditions with personal priorities.

Strengthening Dyad Relationships (00:38:20)

Focus on enhancing individual relationships within the throuple through dedicated date nights.

Initiating Date Nights (00:38:41)

The idea of date nights emerged from a poly zoom call during COVID.

Maintaining Weekly Date Nights (00:39:24)

They continue weekly date nights, even during COVID, with various activities to keep the connection alive.

First International Vacation Plans (00:40:17)

Rachel and Casey plan their first international vacation to Bali, highlighting personal interests within the throuple.

Evolving Relationship Dynamics (00:41:09)

The throuple discusses evolving feelings of security and confidence in their relationships over time.

Enjoying Alone Time (00:42:05)

They share the joy of alone time, appreciating personal space amidst their close living situation.

Closing Remarks and Thanks (00:42:30)

Jennifer thanks Rachel and Aaron for sharing their insights on throuple logistics and dynamics.

Podcast Outro (00:42:51)

The host encourages listeners to like, subscribe, and share the podcast for more engaging content.

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Personal Journey of Bisexuality (00:01:31)

Jennifer shares her experiences of exploring bisexuality after opening her marriage.

Childhood Experience with Sarah (00:02:56)

Recounting a childhood kiss with a friend, Jennifer reflects on early attractions to women.

Opening Up to New Experiences (00:04:15)

Jennifer discusses her decision to explore her bisexuality through dating apps.

First Date and Connection (00:05:30)

Details of Jennifer's first date with a woman, including their initial kiss and chemistry.

Realization About Preferences (00:06:39)

Jennifer realizes her desire for both women and men during her date.

Preparing for Their First Night Together (00:07:50)

Jennifer describes her preparations and excitement for her first intimate encounter with a woman.

Intimate Encounter Description (00:10:02)

A detailed account of Jennifer's first sexual experience with a woman, including sensations and emotions.

Exploring Each Other's Bodies (00:11:30)

Jennifer shares her feelings about the differences between male and female bodies during intimacy.

Communication in Bed (00:12:34)

The importance of open communication and feedback during sexual encounters is emphasized.

Dynamics of Girl-on-Girl Sex (00:14:49)

Jennifer discusses the unique aspects of sexual experiences between women compared to men.

Using Toys in Same-Sex Encounters (00:15:57)

Exploration of using dildos and other toys when engaging in sex with women.

Responsive Desire in Women (00:17:24)

Jennifer explains how women's bodies communicate pleasure and desire differently than men's.

Techniques for Female Pleasure (00:20:01)

Sharing techniques for stimulating female anatomy, emphasizing the importance of patience and attention.

The Joy of Extended Sessions (00:22:35)

Jennifer highlights the ability for women to have prolonged sexual experiences and multiple orgasms.

Recommendation for One-on-One Sessions (00:23:51)

Encouragement for women to explore intimacy without male partners to enhance their experiences.

Podcast Episode Timestamps

Fun Games in the Bedroom (00:26:05)

Discusses playful sexual challenges with partners to enhance intimacy and enjoyment.

Reclaiming Sex Explained (00:27:11)

Introduces the concept of reclaiming sex in open relationships and its emotional significance.

Personal Journey of Reclaiming (00:28:35)

Shares Jennifer's personal experiences and realizations about the need for reclaiming after encounters.

The Importance of Closure (00:29:52)

Explores the necessity of closure after sexual experiences with others to maintain connection.

Reclaiming Process Ritual (00:31:07)

Compares reclaiming to a closure ritual, emphasizing its importance in intimate relationships.

Experiences with Threesomes (00:32:21)

Describes the dynamics and challenges faced during threesomes and the need for individual connection.

Physical and Emotional Needs (00:34:43)

Discusses the complexity of emotional and physical satisfaction in multi-partner scenarios.

The Bonding After Sharing (00:37:14)

Highlights the emotional reconnection experienced after sharing intimate moments with others.

Community Feedback on Reclaiming (00:41:01)

Invites listeners to share their thoughts on reclaiming sex and personal experiences in relationships.

Closing Remarks and Call to Action (00:41:58)

Encourages audience engagement through feedback and sharing experiences related to the topic.

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Timestamps by PodSqueezeExploring Self-Pleasure (00:00:02)

The importance of understanding one's own body and preferences for sexual pleasure.

Introduction to the Episode (00:00:31)

Jennifer introduces the topic of sexual empowerment for women later in life.

Angelique's Background (00:01:33)

Angelique shares her life as a mother and her journey into self-discovery.

Meeting Jennifer (00:01:58)

Angelique recounts how she met Jennifer at a BDSM event, highlighting their connection.

Angelique's Early Relationships (00:03:45)

Discussion of Angelique's teenage relationships and the challenges of understanding her desires.

Understanding Jealousy (00:06:01)

Angelique reflects on jealousy and the lack of communication in her early relationships.

Love Bombing Defined (00:06:40)

Angelique explains the concept of love bombing in relationships with narcissistic partners.

Impact of Marriage (00:09:20)

Angelique discusses the controlling nature of her ex-husband and its effect on her self-esteem.

Health Turning Point (00:10:39)

Angelique's diabetes diagnosis leads to a significant lifestyle change and weight loss.

Reclaiming Sexuality (00:11:18)

Angelique begins to explore her sexuality after her divorce, focusing on her own needs.

The First Empowering Experience (00:13:42)

Angelique describes her first fulfilling sexual experience that changed her perspective.

Exploring Desires (00:16:25)

She talks about her curiosity in exploring different sexual experiences and relationships.

Introduction to Fet Life (00:17:56)

Angelique discovers Fet Life, a platform for exploring diverse sexual interests.

Understanding Dominant/Submissive Dynamics (00:19:08)

Angelique explains her interest in dominant/submissive relationships and the trust involved.

Navigating the BDSM Community (00:23:17)

Angelique shares her experiences finding a true dominant partner in the BDSM community.

Exploring a New Relationship Dynamic (00:25:08)

Angelique shares her experience of entering a new relationship and the lessons learned from it.

Sexual Exploration Beyond Traditional Roles (00:26:23)

Discussion on how Angelique's journey involves exploring her sexuality after a long relationship.

Understanding the 'Trad Wife' Concept (00:27:08)

Angelique explains the 'trad wife' role and its implications in her personal exploration.

Role Play and Empowerment (00:28:52)

Angelique discusses the excitement of role-playing and exploring different dynamics in her relationships.

Finding Partners Who Understand Your Needs (00:31:20)

Challenges of finding partners who can recognize and respond to varying sexual cues.

Exploring Dominance and Submission (00:33:25)

Angelique expresses her preference for being dominant in female relationships and the desire to explore that further.

The Thrill of Being Watched (00:34:28)

Angelique shares her enjoyment of exhibitionism and the excitement of public encounters.

Learning Through Exploration (00:36:28)

The importance of exploration in understanding personal desires and preferences in relationships.

Confidence Boost Through Sexual Experiences (00:38:16)

Angelique discusses how exploring her sexuality has empowered her and boosted her confidence.

Communicating Desires with Partners (00:41:53)

The significance of open communication about desires and preferences in enhancing sexual experiences.

Encouraging Exploration Nights (00:42:52)

The idea of scheduled exploration nights to try new experiences and activities together.

Starting Small in Sexual Exploration (00:46:11)

Angelique advises beginners to start small with toys and personal exploration to build confidence.

Closing Remarks (00:48:23)

Jennifer thanks the audience and signs off, inviting them to join another episode.

Listener Engagement (00:48:29)

The host encourages listeners to like, subscribe, and stay updated on new episodes.

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Opening Up the Marriage (00:01:13)

Whitney's Background (00:01:38)

Whitney shares her role as a sex educator and pleasure coach, highlighting her work and retreats.

Top Reasons Couples Stop Having Sex (00:02:02)

Whitney introduces Todd Barish's study on the main reasons couples cease sexual activity.

Unwanted Pain During Sex (00:02:11)

Whitney explains how pain during sex, like vaginismus, can deter sexual activity and emphasizes communication.

Addressing Pain (00:03:15)

The importance of addressing unwanted pain and using lubrication to enhance sexual pleasure is discussed.

Understanding Pain as Abnormal (00:04:02)

Whitney clarifies that unwanted pain during sex is not normal and should be addressed.

Vaginal Anatomy and Arousal (00:04:36)

Whitney explains how arousal affects vaginal elasticity and the importance of adequate foreplay.

Recognizing Arousal from the Outside (00:06:58)

Whitney shares how partners can gauge arousal levels through touch during intimate moments.

Menopause and Sexual Health (00:09:38)

Whitney discusses menopause, its effects on sexual health, and the importance of hormone replacement therapy.

Quality of Life Post-Menopause (00:11:07)

The conversation highlights how women can maintain a satisfying sex life post-menopause.

Boring Sex as a Barrier (00:14:06)

Whitney introduces unresolved conflict and boring sex as major reasons for decreased sexual desire.

Communication in Relationships (00:15:39)

The importance of conscious communication in resolving conflicts and enhancing intimacy is emphasized.

Creativity in Sex (00:16:54)

Whitney stresses the need for creativity in sexual experiences to maintain interest and pleasure.

Role-Playing Experiences (00:18:31)

Whitney and Jennifer share their experiences with role-playing to keep their sex lives exciting.

Pleasure Mapping (00:20:15)

The concept of pleasure mapping is introduced as a way to deepen understanding of a partner's body.

Exploring Novelty in Sex (21:27)

Discussion on incorporating novelty and surprises in sexual encounters to enhance excitement.

Scheduling Intimacy (22:07)

Importance of scheduling sex for couples with busy lives, ensuring regular intimacy.

Communicating Sexual Needs (24:06)

The significance of clear communication about desires and energy levels in a relationship.

Responsive Desire (26:13)

Exploring the concept of responsive desire and how it can ignite intimacy.

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Intro (00:00:00)

Intro(00:00:00)

Jennifer welcomes Jason and introduces the topic of pleasure in men's sex lives.

Father's Day Story Begins (00:01:24)

Jason shares his Father's Day experience and the plans made with his wife.

Exploring New Dynamics (00:02:55)

Jason reflects on the typical sexual routine and the desire to try something different.

The Role of the "Commander" (00:03:19)

Discussion on Jason's usual dominance in their sexual encounters and his nickname.

Incorporating Sensory Play (00:05:03)

Jason describes the introduction of sensory play tools in their intimate life.

Transformative Sensory Experience (00:06:10)

Jason details the sensations he experienced during the sensory play with his wife.

Edging and Intense Stimulation (00:08:05)

Jason explains the prolonged stimulation and its effect on his experience.

The Best Orgasm of His Life (00:08:50)

Jason shares the outcome of their session, highlighting its intensity and pleasure.

Guilt and Shared Pleasure (00:09:10)

Post-experience guilt leads to a conversation about mutual enjoyment in pleasure.

The Importance of Eye Contact (00:12:03)

Discussion on the significance of being seen and making eye contact during intimacy.

Vulnerability in Intimacy (00:13:10)

Exploration of vulnerability when allowing a partner to give pleasure.

Advice for Partners (00:14:16)

Encouragement for women to initiate conversations about pleasure with their partners.

Scheduling Relationship Dynamics (00:15:45)

Jennifer shares the benefits of scheduling different types of intimate experiences.

Balancing Spontaneity and Planning (00:17:29)

Discussion on finding a balance between spontaneous and scheduled intimate time.

Communication and Trust (00:18:58)

Importance of open communication in exploring new dynamics in relationships.

Using Storytelling to Communicate (00:21:05)

Jason shares how he used storytelling to introduce new ideas to his wife.

Final Advice for Men (00:22:52)

Encouragement for men to be open to receiving pleasure and not just giving.

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