Intro (00:00:00)

Your partner can actually help you find dates online! Here's how.

Intro (00:00:00)

Jennifer shares insights about her relationship with Scott and their polyamorous journey.

Fluidity in Relationships (00:02:23)

The concept of fluidity in relationships is explored, highlighting changes over time.

Navigating Open Relationships (00:03:36)

Jennifer discusses her experiences and challenges in transitioning to an open relationship.

Exploring Relationship Configurations (00:04:40)

Different relationship configurations are examined, including throuples and dating couples.

Desire for a Closed Throuple (00:05:39)

Scott expresses a wish for a semi-closed throuple, emphasizing safety and commitment.

Updating Dating Profiles (00:07:41)

The couple updates their dating profiles to reflect their new relationship intentions.

Successful Matching Experience (00:08:52)

Jennifer recounts a successful match with a woman interested in their dynamic.

Unexpected Connection with a Man (00:10:03)

Jennifer shares an unexpected connection with a man looking for a couple for his wife.

Embracing Polyamorous Vibes (00:11:54)

Jennifer expresses excitement about the positive dynamics with their new partners.

Desire for Shared Experiences (00:12:54)

Jennifer reflects on the importance of shared experiences and connections in polyamory.

Dating Apps as a Portal (00:13:57)

Jennifer views dating apps as a magical portal for finding compatible partners.

Current Relationship Configurations (00:14:53)

Jennifer outlines her current relationships, including two throuples and solo dating.

Encouragement for Partner Support (00:15:53)

Jennifer encourages partners to support each other in finding additional partners.

Shared Efforts in Dating (00:16:51)

The couple collaborates on dating efforts, ensuring mutual understanding and communication.

Challenges with New Partners (00:17:46)

Jennifer discusses the challenges of integrating new partners into their relationship.

Alignment and Intentions (00:18:49)

Emphasizing alignment in dating profiles, Jennifer highlights the importance of clear intentions.

Podcast Introduction (00:20:07)

Jennifer thanks listeners and encourages them to like, subscribe, and share the podcast for more discussions.

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Michael Hollis started The Play, a lifestyle sex party where art meets erotic expression located in Los Angeles to be a place for people in open relationships that was different.

This is Part 1, where we discuss who The Play is For, The Price, the STI Testing policy, what to expect, and more.

Part II coming out soon...

Introduction (00:00:00)

Becoming Ethically Non-Monogamous (00:00:52)

Michael shares his and his wife's transition to ethical non-monogamy and its impact on their lives.

Experiences in the Lifestyle (00:01:13)

Discussion of various party experiences, from large hotel takeovers to intimate gatherings in Joshua Tree.

Inspiration for Play Parties (00:04:08)

A memorable movie night sparks the idea for a party focused on self-expression and artistic performances.

Establishing Party Pillars (00:06:13)

Michael explains the foundational pillars of health, consent, intimacy, and artistry in his play parties.

Testing Process and Inclusions (00:09:27)

Michael details the STI testing requirements and how they accommodate individuals with different health statuses.

Community Health Focus (00:12:06)

The importance of community health and regular testing is discussed, highlighting the growth of the play community.

Handling STI Outbreaks (00:14:50)

The protocol for attendees who experience outbreaks is explained, emphasizing community support and understanding.

Inclusivity of the Play Parties (00:17:54)

Michael discusses who the play parties are for, emphasizing inclusivity and the intersection of art and sexuality.

Overview of a Night at the Play (00:19:03)

An outline of what attendees can expect during a night at the play party is provided to manage expectations.

Expectations Based on Pricing (00:20:06)

Discussion on how price points create expectations and power dynamics at play parties.

Diversity in the Community (00:24:03)

Michael highlights the diverse makeup of attendees, ensuring a welcoming environment for all.

Artistic Expression at Parties (00:25:55)

Exploration of how guests' fantasies are realized through creative performances at play parties.

Unique Experiences at Each Party (00:30:02)

Every play party is different, with new themes and guests creating unique atmospheres.

Preparation and Boundaries for Couples (00:34:07)

Discussion on how couples should communicate their boundaries before attending play parties.

Navigating Open Relationships (00:36:39)

Michael advises on the necessary conversations for couples exploring open relationships and boundaries.

Introduction to Intimacy at Play Parties (00:39:27)

Discussion on boundaries and the role of intimacy in play parties.

Overview of Play Party Structure (00:39:49)

Michael explains the preparation and entry process for attendees at play parties.

Encouraging Creative Expression (00:41:17)

Attendees are encouraged to bring creative items, enhancing the party's atmosphere.

Phone Policy to Reduce Anxiety (00:42:11)

The importance of phone checks to maintain focus and reduce distractions during the event.

Rules for Entry (00:42:57)

Three core rules: no phones, no money, and no hierarchy to ensure equality.

Building Authentic Connections (00:47:02)

How the initial activities foster intimacy and authentic connections among attendees.

Boundary Conversations (00:47:32)

Encouraging attendees to discuss their boundaries as a way to enhance communication.

Understanding and Respecting Boundaries (00:48:38)

The significance of boundary conversations for respectful interactions at play parties.

Consent Education (00:52:12)

Discussion on what consent looks like and emphasizing the importance of enthusiastic yes.

Responding to No (00:54:10)

Advice on how to gracefully accept a no and maintain respect for personal boundaries.

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Today I'm teaching you how to write a dating profile that ACTUALLY gets dates. And not just dates, but aligned, perfect dates!

XO,

Jen

Creating an Effective Dating Profile (00:00:00)Jennifer shares tips for crafting a dating profile that attracts aligned partners.

Client Success Story (00:02:29)Feedback from a client who received over 200 right swipes on her dating profile.

Understanding Right and Left Swipes (00:03:30)

Explanation of swipe terminology and its significance on dating apps.Tinder Overview (00:03:30)

Discussion on Tinder as a dating app and how to use it effectively.Bumble Overview (00:06:46)

Insights on Bumble, emphasizing women’s control in initiating connections.

Field App Overview (00:07:58)

Introduction to Field, a dating app for the open community and polyamorous relationships.Identifying Your Ideal Match (00:10:02)

Guidance on determining who you want to date when signing up for an app.Crafting Your Dating Profile (00:10:56)

Jennifer offers a free resource to help optimize dating profiles.Personal Manifestation Experience (00:12:05)

Jennifer shares her journey of manifesting partners and relationship dynamics.Client Testimonials (00:17:08)

Discussion on helping clients find their ideal partners through tailored profiles.Optimizing Your Dating Profile (00:18:08)

Tips on enhancing your profile for better visibility and matches.Profile Picture Importance (00:20:11)

Jennifer discusses the significance of using authentic profile pictures in dating profiles.Tips for Profile Photos (00:21:00)

Advice on what types of pictures to avoid and how to represent interests accurately.Showcasing Hobbies (00:22:02)

Encouragement to include images that reflect personal hobbies and passions.Personal Profile Example (00:23:01)

Jennifer shares her own dating profile pictures to illustrate her points.

Field App Features (00:26:02)Overview of the features available on the Field dating app, including partner visibility.

Crafting Your About Section (00:27:08)Guidance on writing an engaging and informative "About" section for dating profiles.

Desires and Interests (00:28:14)

Discussion on how to effectively list desires and interests on dating profiles.Creating Connection in Profiles (00:29:21)

Examples of how to write profile descriptions that foster deeper connections.

Client Profile Example (00:31:43)Jennifer shares a crafted profile for a client navigating open relationships.

Cuffing Season Insights (00:36:16)

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Meet Wendy Perkins, an orgasm and neuro pleasure coach, discussing open relationships, conscious uncoupling, and alternative family dynamics.

Wendy shares her journey of separating from her husband while continuing to co-parent their children in a supportive environment. She emphasizes the importance of open communication and prioritizing children's needs.

Wendy also reflects on her bisexuality and the challenges of navigating societal norms. Explore non-traditional relationship structures and maintain integrity and love in your breaking up and co-parenting interactions.

Intro (0:00:00)

Wendy's Relationship History (00:02:59)

Realization of Polyamory (00:03:46)

Challenges of Monogamy (00:05:52)

Understanding Bisexuality (00:07:06)

The Importance of Open Conversations (00:11:25)

Navigating Co-Parenting (00:12:28)

Wendy's Decision to Separate (00:15:37)

Creating a Supportive Family Dynamic (00:19:40)

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[object Object]Introduction to Flirting with Women (00:00:02)

Jennifer introduces the episode's focus on how women can flirt with women.

Personal Exploration of Sexuality (00:00:14)

She shares her journey of realizing her attraction to women and exploring it during her last marriage.

Societal Programming and Body Image (00:01:14)

Jennifer discusses societal norms that discourage women from exploring their bodies and sexuality.

Differences in Sexual Curiosity (00:02:23)

She contrasts bi-curious women with those who are truly bisexual, highlighting their different experiences.

Understanding Women's Bodies (00:04:38)

Jennifer emphasizes the need for women to learn about their bodies and how to engage with other women.

Types of Bi-Curious Women (00:05:44)

She categorizes bi-curious women into two types: bi-situational and truly bisexual.

Craving Connection with Women (00:07:07)

Jennifer expresses her desire for intimacy with women and the joy it brings her.

Learning Through Experience (00:09:14)

She reflects on how her experiences with different women have taught her about sexuality and pleasure.

Flirting as a Skill (00:10:31)

Jennifer discusses her journey in learning how to flirt with women and the importance of verbal communication.

Desire and Affirmation (00:11:43)

She emphasizes that women want to feel desired and beautiful, just like men do.

Direct Communication of Desires (00:12:50)

Jennifer encourages women to express their desires openly without excessive caution.

Using Flirting in Everyday Life (00:15:00)

She shares personal examples of how to flirt and express attraction in casual conversations.

Engaging in Flirty Conversations (00:18:05)

Jennifer highlights the importance of maintaining flirtatious communication throughout the day.

Flirting Ideas (00:20:02)

Jennifer shares tips on starting daily conversations with female partners to enhance flirting.

Navigating Bi-Curious Feelings (00:21:02)

Discussion on exploring bi-curiosity and using existing partners to ease into relationships with women.

Building Connection Through Dates (00:22:02)

The importance of one-on-one time and physical connection during dates to foster intimacy.

Fun Flirting Experiences (00:23:14)

A humorous personal story about a memorable kissing moment during a date with another woman.

Naked Exploration (00:24:14)

Encouragement to engage in naked play to understand sexual orientation and connect with each other.

Coaching Offer (00:25:27)

Jennifer offers one-on-one coaching for women seeking guidance in dating and flirting with other women.

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Today I have Cordelia Gaffar, known as the "ultimate joy goddess" on the podcast. Cordelia, a movement facilitator and bestselling author, discusses "multi-orgasmic living," a lifestyle emphasizing self-care, pleasure, and movement for women.

We explore the importance of nurturing oneself, maintaining vitality with age, and fostering emotional and physical connections, especially in ethically non-monogamous relationships.

Cordelia offers practical advice on incorporating movement into daily routines and highlights the significance of self-exploration and communication in enhancing intimacy and overall well-being.

Introduction to Multi-Orgasmic Living (00:00:00)

Cordelia explains her concept of multi-orgasmic living and its personal significance.

Nurturing Self (00:01:26)

Discussion on the importance of self-care and maintaining vitality, especially for mothers.

Staying Juicy (00:03:05)

Cordelia shares secrets to staying vibrant, emphasizing movement and physical activity.

Nutrition Tips (00:05:07)

Advice on nutrition, particularly for women approaching menopause, including the impact of alcohol and caffeine.

Choosing Pleasure (00:07:29)

The significance of being mindful about who and what brings pleasure into one’s life.

Self-Exploration (00:10:52)

Cordelia encourages self-touch and exploration to rediscover personal pleasure.

Connection with Partners (00:14:28)

Exploration of how to gauge emotional and physical connections with partners in non-monogamous relationships.

Negotiation in Relationships (00:15:52)

The importance of taking time to negotiate and explore boundaries with new partners.

Reconnecting with the Body (00:22:50)

Cordelia discusses helping individuals reconnect with their bodies through movement, meditation, and somatic awareness.

Juiciness and Orgasmic Living (00:33:18)

Exploration of how Cordelia defines and experiences 'juiciness' and orgasmic living post-divorce.

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One of the key takeaways from our recent podcast episode is the importance of emotional safety in sexual experiences. Sierra Bucher and I chat about how feeling completely safe and secure can make a huge difference in achieving squirting. It’s not just about the physical act but also the psychological release. How do you ensure emotional safety with your partner? Let’s discuss!

Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)

Jennifer welcomes listeners and introduces the topic of squirting and sexual pleasure.

Sierra's Experience with Squirting (00:00:22)

Sierra' shares her journey to understanding squirting and feeling safe with partners.

Squirting as a Popular Fantasy (00:00:47)

Jennifer prompts Sierra' to discuss the appeal and misconceptions surrounding squirting.

Research and Personal Insights (00:01:09)

Sierra' talks about her extensive research on squirting and surprising revelations from friends.

Hydration and Squirting Mechanics (00:03:19)

Sierra' explains the importance of hydration for squirting and its physiological aspects.

Understanding Squirting Fluid (00:05:28)

Discussion on the origin of squirting fluid and common misconceptions about it being urine.

Psychological Aspect of Squirting (00:07:24)

Sierra' highlights the psychological factors that influence the ability to squirt.

Personal Experiences with Squirting (00:08:41)

Sierra' shares her first squirting experience and the emotional release it brought.

Techniques for Achieving Squirting (00:10:42)

Sierra' explains various techniques and tools that can help stimulate squirting.

Jennifer's Personal Squirting Story (00:12:09)

Jennifer recounts her experiences with a partner known for helping women squirt.

Exploring Different Partner Experiences (00:15:27)

Jennifer discusses the variations in sexual experiences with different partners.

Future Topics on Male Pleasure (00:16:50)

Sierra' suggests discussing differences in male pleasure between circumcised and uncircumcised men.

Variation in Vaginal Sensations (00:17:25)

Jennifer shares insights into the diverse sensations experienced with different partners.

Preparation for Future Experiences (00:18:01)

Jennifer talks about acquiring a king-size splash blanket for future intimate encounters.

Podcast Episode Timestamps

Struggles of Squirting (00:18:19)

Discussion on challenges faced by squirters, including difficulties with spontaneous sexual activities.

Understanding G-Spot Stimulation (00:19:25)

Sierra' explains the mechanics of squirting and its relation to G-spot stimulation.

Intentional Exploration (00:20:11)

Jennifer shares her plans to experiment with toys for personal exploration of squirting.

Curiosity about Partner Experiences (00:20:42)

Sierra' wonders about the experiences of Jennifer's girlfriend regarding masturbation as a squirter.

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