As conversations about equality expand beyond workplaces and politics, there’s another space where inequality still quietly exists: the bedroom. In this special International Women’s Day episode of Sex and Breakfast, the hosts explore the research behind the “orgasm gap”—the documented difference in how often men and women report orgasming during heterosexual encounters. Drawing on decades of studies, the conversation reveals that the gap isn’t rooted in biology but largely shaped by social norms, sexual scripts, and gaps in education about anatomy and pleasure. They also examine how familiarity, emotional safety, and collaboration between partners can narrow the gap over time. Rather than blaming any gender, this thoughtful conversation invites listeners to approach intimacy with generosity, shared responsibility, and open dialogue, reminding us that when pleasure becomes collaborative, everyone benefits.

Show Notes:

1. Research on the Orgasm Gap
2. Article referenced: Emily Nagoski — “Has the Orgasm Gap Closed in the Last 30 Years?”
3. Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

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