The Original Design Restored Podcast

We close our parenting mini-series by exploring one of the best pieces of parenting advice Katie has ever received.  To expound on this piece of parenting advice, Katie invites two “childhood experts” onto this episode to share their insights on good parenting.  

Conversation Highlights:

{01:00} Review from our parenting series

{01:48} Best parenting advice I have ever received 

{07:26} Interview with my son Solomon  

{09:30} Interview with my son Silas 

{12:28} Challenge to all parents

Special Mention:

To find The Rad Chickens YouTube channel mentioned in the show, click here.

Special Thanks:

To Artist M.D. and Bloom Sounds for the beautiful intro and outro music.

To loreleeproduct for the excellent audio editing. 

The ODR Podcast is a ministry of Original Design Restored:

www.originaldesignrestored.org

THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

In this episode we explore the Gospel framework by looking inward and dealing with the weight of past failures. The past parenting episodes may have left you feeling the heaviness of where you have been, where you are, and where you are going. God loves you and is with you.  Join with Katie in exploring this hope as it relates to our parenting.

Conversation Highlights:

{02:50} The grieving process as we face where we’ve been

{05:50} Developmentally appropriately confession and repairing of our sin

{08:30} Gospel-informed parenting

{12:26} Pursing healing

{15:30} If I had coffee with you, this is what I would say

{24:00} The one thing I know to do when we feel the heaviness of our parenting failures

Resources:

“The Soul of Shame” and “The Soul of Desire” by Curt Thompson:

https://curtthompsonmd.com/books/

“Parenting from the Inside Out” by Daniel Siegel

https://drdansiegel.com/book/parenting-from-the-inside-out/

Special Thanks:

To Artist M.D. and Bloom Sounds for the beautiful intro and outro music.

To loreleeproduct for the excellent audio editing. 

The ODR Podcast is a ministry of Original Design Restored:

www.originaldesignrestored.org

THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

We continue our parenting series with the topic of purposeful parenting. Parenting our children healthily and wholeheartedly includes facing and dealing with our past. Katie explains the different attachment styles and asks the listener to examine not only their attachment style with their children, but also their attachment with their own parents.  Katie encourages each of us to pursue earned secure attachment.  Katie also shares what lends to becoming a good parent. 

Conversation Highlights:

{05:00} Attachment styles

{07:30} Hallmarks of security

{08:40} Your development and security as a person

{12:00} Making sense of your growing up years

{14:00} A story from Katie’s life

Resources:

“The Soul of Shame” and “The Soul of Desire” by Curt Thompson:

https://curtthompsonmd.com/books/

“Parenting from the Inside Out” by Daniel Siegel

https://drdansiegel.com/book/parenting-from-the-inside-out/

Special Thanks:

To Artist M.D. and Bloom Sounds for the beautiful intro and outro music.

To loreleeproduct for the excellent audio editing. 

The ODR Podcast is a ministry of Original Design Restored:

www.originaldesignrestored.org

THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

This is our second episode in our parenting series. In this episode, Katie shares about the eight words she wished she had known before she started parenting.  Some, none, or all of these words may be new to you; however, as you process each of them further, you may find them powerfully informing your parenting. 

Conversation Highlights:

{4:30} Regulation

{06:33} Dysregulation

{10:00} Attunement

{13:00} Attachment Styles

{17:00} Rupture

{17:00} Repair

{19:52} Enmeshment

{25:00} Triangulation 

Resources:

“Parenting from the Inside Out” by Daniel Siegel, click here .

“The Soul of Shame” by Curt Thompson, click here.

“The Big Six” by Adam Young, click here.

Click here for Adam Young's episode "Parenting: How Your Story is Affecting Your Relationship with Your Children, Part 1"

Click here for Adam Young's episode "Parenting: How Your Story is Affecting Your Relationship with Your Children, Part 2"

Click here for  Adam Young's episode "Why Your Story Matters More than You Think"

Click here for Adam Young's episode "Why Your Family of Origin Impacts Your Life More than Anything Else"

“13 Signs You Grew up in an Enmeshed Family” by Sharon Martin, click here.

 Special Thanks:

To Artist M.D. and Bloom Sounds for the beautiful intro and outro music.

To loreleeproduct for the excellent audio editing. 

The ODR Podcast is a ministry of Original Design Restored:

www.originaldesignrestored.org

THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

This is our first episode in our parenting series. As we heal and grow, our parenting approach often shifts as well.  In this episode, we ask the question, “What does the Bible say about parenting?” Katie shares today that she is on this parenting journey with you, sharing what she is learning in along the way! Today we are talking about three words that epitomize the theology of parenting.  We are called to love, guide, and discipline.

Conversation Highlights:

{07:30} Love

{12:20} Guide

{17:30} Discipline

Resources:

Flourishing Homes and Families:

https://flourishinghomesandfamilies.com/

Special Thanks:

To Artist M.D. and Bloom Sounds for the beautiful intro and outro music.

To loreleeproduct for the excellent audio editing. 

The ODR Podcast is a ministry of Original Design Restored:

www.originaldesignrestored.org

THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

Katie shares some exciting news: the dates for the 2022 ODR Intensive!

The 2022 ODR Intensive will be held in Tulsa, Oklahoma, from Thursday, October 20 - Sunday, October 23.  Listen through this bonus clip to hear how to sign up!

What is an ODR Intensive?  Our Intensives are a sacred space intended for you to meet with God, reflect on your life, and receive feedback.  Each ODR Intensive follows a specific sequence of sessions designed specifically to make space for you to pursue transformation. 

To find out more, click here. 

In this season’s final episode, Katie answers questions that pertain how to make healing next level, how to take our healing journey beyond ourselves.

Conversation Highlights:

{01:30} How does our story give us clues to God’s purpose in our lives?

{08:31} How do I create a culture in my family where I facilitate ongoing healing and growth?

{22:05} How do I find my limits?

{25:47} How do I know when to set limits vs. when to serve and love others?

{31:15} Thank-you  

Resources:

“Restless” by Jennie Allen

https://www.jennieallen.com/books

Parenting Episodes from “The Place We Find Ourselves” Podcast

Part 1:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/parenting-how-your-story-is-affecting-your-relationship/id1373926216?i=1000516655399

Part 2:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/parenting-how-your-story-is-affecting-your-relationship/id1373926216?i=1000518539620

“Parenting from the Inside Out” by Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. and Mary Hartzell, M.Ed.

https://drdansiegel.com/book/parenting-from-the-inside-out/

Jo Saxton

https://www.josaxton.com/

Special Thanks:

To Artist M.D. and Bloom Sounds for the beautiful intro and outro music.

To loreleeproduct for the excellent audio editing. 

The ODR Podcast is a ministry of Original Design Restored:

www.originaldesignrestored.org

THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

In today’s episode. Katie answers questions about story work:  Is story work self-centered? What if people judge me? Can I do story work with my friends? 

Conversation Highlights:

{01:42} Who is safe to share your story with?

{09:07} What do I do when people judge my pain?

{14:30} What if my spouse thinks story work is too self-focused?

{19:29} What do you do when you feel alone in your healing journey? 

Special Thanks:

To Artist M.D. and Bloom Sounds for the beautiful intro and outro music.

To loreleeproduct for the excellent audio editing. 

The ODR Podcast is a ministry of Original Design Restored:

www.originaldesignrestored.org

THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

In today’s episode, Katie answers questions that have arisen from Season 2 of The ODR Podcast. Katie talks about starting the healing process, finding a good-fit therapist, and maintaining your relationships while you heal. 

Conversation Highlights:

{03:53} How do you start healing? What is the first small step?

{11:20} How do I start therapy?

{14:16} What do I do if I don’t have access to programs and/or therapy?

{18:48} How do you engage healing and still function in your relationships?

{23:27} Can you engage healing the same time as your spouse or should you take turns?

{25:58} How can we engage in kindness to ourselves?

Quote Reference:

“Trauma comes back as a reaction, not a memory.” – Bessel Van Der Kolk

Resources:

First Steps:

EMDR Therapy

https://www.emdria.org/about-emdr-therapy/

Your One Degree

https://www.youronedegree.com/

SoZo Prayer

https://www.bethelsozo.com/book-sozo

ODR Intensive

https://originaldesignrestored.org/register

Books:

“The Soul of Shame” by Curt Thompson

https://curtthompsonmd.com/books/

“You Are Free” by Rebecca Lyons

http://youarefreebook.com/

“Parenting from the Inside Out” by Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. and Mary Hartzell, M.Ed.

https://drdansiegel.com/book/parenting-from-the-inside-out/

Free Resources:

“In the Light” Podcast

https://www.anitaphillips.com/in-the-light-podcast

“The Place We Find Ourselves” Podcast

https://adamyoungcounseling.com/podcast/

Special Thanks:

To Artist M.D. and Bloom Sounds for the beautiful intro and outro music.

To loreleeproduct for the excellent audio editing. 

The ODR Podcast is a ministry of Original Design Restored:

www.originaldesignrestored.org

THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

In today’s episode Katie is joined by her husband Val to talk about Sabbath as regular rhythms of rest.  They share about what Sabbath is, how they each started practicing Sabbath rest, and how that has looked over various seasons of life. 

Conversation Highlights:

{01:27} What is Sabbath?

{07:15} Practicing Sabbath Rest

{13:00} Sabbath while raising a family

{18:25} How to determine what to do/not do on a Sabbath?

{24:41} Celebrating God

{30:25} Practicing a seven-year Sabbath

{46:14} Sabbath for us today

Resources:

The Chosen: https://watch.angelstudios.com/thechosen/watch

Special Thanks:

To Artist M.D. and Bloom Sounds for the beautiful intro and outro music.

To loreleeproduct for the excellent audio editing. 

The ODR Podcast is a ministry of Original Design Restored:

www.originaldesignrestored.org

THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.