Dustin Pari | Biography
So, who am I? I could sit here and tell you that throughout my life I have witnessed many extraordinary people struggle against incredible odds. I could tell you that my life has been so difficult, and at times emotionally crippling that I doubted my own survival. I could tell you anything and spin it to be motivational. But I must be honest. Things have been okay. Some days have been full of wonder and pure happiness- days I wish would never end. Other days I just want to go to bed and dream my troubles away until tomorrow. Truly I am no different than anyone else. None of us are. If you have that beautiful and unique snowflake line running through your head, you might as well let that image melt away right now as that is the first hurdle you will face on your path to living an inspired life. You must admit to yourself that at our core, we are all the same.
We may be struggling against different circumstances- but at the core, we are the same. We may be set in different financial brackets- but at the core, we are the same. We may possess different abilities and talents- but at the core we are the same. All of us go through similar battles at one time in our life or another. The people are different, the circumstances are slightly misarranged – but at the core, it’s all the same.
We all experience loss, betrayal, sadness and moments of pure injustice. Sadly, these things must exist. What is even more disconcerting is the development of a subculture who wears their misery on their shirtsleeves, always championing their own issues as more troublesome than those of the people around them, for no one can have it worse off than they do. Misery is their crown and they will fight for it.
Despite all of this… the realities of negativity, darkness, and injustice, there are truly some awe inspiring moments in life of wonder, joy and love. However, in our 9-5 world…and probably more accurately, our working two jobs just to get by world… we often fail to notice the good things. We live through unhealthy comparison, so that even on those rare occasions when we glimpse happiness- it is not as impressive as what someone else has, so our happiness is self-negated. For many, the world consists of only them, their struggles, their problems, and their entitlement. They cannot see beyond the screen of their cell phone. As a society, many are simply losing focus.
So, who am I? I am someone that wakes up every morning and believes that I can change the world for at least one person and make a difference each and every day. I stand for appreciating the little things in life. I don’t forget those things that made me happy as a child, as a matter of fact- I make a point of searching those things out and celebrating them every single day.
Our lives are a long journey, and the magnitude of that journey can be very daunting and even oppressive at times. We need to change the way we look at everything. We need to break down our lives into tangible fragments. Not years, not months, not weeks, days or even hours… we need to break our lives down into mere moments. Each moment in itself holds great possibility. Each moment holds both the opportunity for happiness or sadness. Each moment clutches within itself a pearl of inspiration that is there for the taking, should you choose to see value in it. By managing these moments, and appreciating them, you will change your life forever and learn to live an inspired life; and I am the guy who wants to help you do so. Be Inspired!
- Dustin J. Pari