The Other Side of the Atlantic

The Other Side of the Atlantic

By Shade and RolakeSociety & CultureRelationships
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The Other Side of the Atlantic episodes

  • On Divorce from Both Sides of the Atlantic
    We…are…BACK! So…..we know we’ve been MIA for a bit but we took most of 2021 off to get our lives in order. We’ve missed you guys and hope you’ve missed us too as the podcast has been like therapy for us and it’s time to get our butts back on that couch, so please join us for more laughs, reflections and stimulating debates (aka gist sessions). In today’s episode, we begin with our What I’m segment where we share the TV shows, books and music we’ve loved while we were away (BTW, the *other* Black British actress Shade was referring to was Naomie Harris, Mahershala Ali’s co star in Swan Song). In our main topic, we discuss the unraveling of the relationships between Meagan Good and Devon Franklin and the Ooni and Olori of Ife. Join us as we reflect on the pressures of social media, the impact of external gaze and the role that the commercialization of relationships may have played in their demise.
    We’re on social! Follow us and share your thoughts on current and future episodes: IG @othersideoftheatlantic Email @[email protected]
    Links to article referenced in episode and Rolake’s music recommendations:
    https://music.apple.com/us/album/sad-girlz-luv-money-feat-moliy-remix/1596135552?i=1596135564
    https://music.apple.com/us/album/im-getting-ready-feat-nicki-minaj/1440881369?i=1440881575
     https://www.insider.com/divorce-rate-changes-over-time-2019-1
    59 min
  • On Keeping Up with the Windsors

    Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve heard of all the drama surrounding Megan and Harry’s bombshell interview with the Queen (no, not that one) of TV, Oprah. As our first episode was on Megexit, you know we had to do an episode on our reaction to the interview, the implications to the monarchy and Megan and Harry Kardashian‘s next steps. Have our opinions of Harry and Megan changed after the interview? Tune in to figure out! Before we get into all the juicy gossip, Shade discusses her new life in suburbia and Rolake gives us an update on her first month as CEO #girlboss. In our What I’m segment, Rolake and Shade discuss the messiness of Rosamund Pike in I Care A lot and Rolake tells us about the South African slay queen in the book she’s reading, The Blessed Girl.

    Episode Table of Contents

    What I’m 9:49

    Harry and Megan 33:23

    We’re on social! Follow us and share your thoughts on episodes: IG @othersideoftheatlantic, Twitter @sideofatlantic, Email [email protected]

    1 hr 15 min
  • On Leveling Up For Love
    You all know we’ve both been in seasons of our lives where self love and friendships have given us so much joy. However, in this week's episode, Rolake and Shade prepare for Valentine’s Day by talking about leveling up for love. We get philosophical and talk about mental and practical steps to get in the right space for romantic love and also friendship. As usual, we kick off with our What I’m segment where Rolake and Shade debate which Francophone Netflix show, after Lupin, is best; Shade's pick is The Hook Up Plan and Rolake's pick is Call My Agent. 
    Episode Table of Contents 
    What I'm 13:43
    Leveling Up for Love 33:17
    We're on social! Follow us and share your thoughts on episodes: IG @othersideoftheatlantic, Twitter @sideofatlantic, Email [email protected]
    1 hr 7 min
  • On Creating a 2021 Vision in a Time of Grief
    What a time of collective and individual grief for the world. It seems not a day goes by without news of the death of a friend of a friend, a job loss of a family member or closing of a business we’ve cherished.  Each piece of news is another blow and we mourn with those who have loss in the many ways there is to lose during this time. In spite of all the pain, it is still ok to hope and dream. Some might say the perfect antidote to grief is to muster up the strength to dream. In this episode , Shade and Rolake talk about the importance of setting goals for 2021 and share their own personal reflections on 2020 and how that has shaped their vision board for 2021. Its time to dream again so join us as we talk about our big plans for 2021!
    Episode Table of Contents 
    What‘s I’m - 5:31
    Main Topic - 25:00
    We’re on social! Follow us and share your thoughts on episodes: IG @othersideoftheatlantic, Twitter @sideofatlantic, Email [email protected]
    1 hr
  • On Women's Reproductive Health and Fertility Issues Featuring (Future Doctor) Chi Chi
    In this very special bonus episode, we discuss women’s reproductive and fertility issues with future doctor Michelle aka Chi Chi. We dive into the two big "Fs", fibroids and fertility, in detail and discuss treatment options, symptoms and if it’s possible to have a safe pregnancy with fibroids. Additionally, we discuss when to consider freezing your eggs, the process of doing so, the initial and ongoing cost and how long the eggs are viable for. This is part one of a two part series, in part two, we will discuss pap smears, HPV and cervical cancer and different types of birth control options for different stages in a women’s life. Please email questions you would like answered anonymously at [email protected] and we will answer them in part two.
    Women delivers baby using embroyo frozen 27 years ago: https://www.health.com/condition/pregnancy/baby-27-year-old-frozen-embryo#:~:text=Tina%20Gibson%2C%2028%2C%20gave%20birth,days%20later%2C%20on%20February%2012.
    We’re on Social! Follow us and share your thoughts on episodes: IG @othersideoftheatlantic, Twitter @sideofatlantic , Email [email protected]
    30 min
  • On What Quarantining At Home Has Taught Me About Adult Relationships
    We've missed you! It's been an exhausting past month and a half with all that's been going on in Nigeria and across the world so we took a mental health break to digest and recalibrate but we're back and as crazy and as candid as ever! We begin this episode with our opinions on the #EndSars protest and next steps. In the "What I'm" segment, we catch you up on the TV shows, movies and books that we've loved over the past month and we share the items we've converted like Rolake's orange heels and Shade's LeCruset pot and pan set. In our main segment, we discuss what quarantining with our moms (and mummies) has taught us about what it means to adult while coexisting in physical spaces with parents and how you can achieve this while both bonding AND respecting each other's boundaries. There CAN be two queens under one roof ; ) . 
    We're on Social! Follow us and share your thoughts on episodes: IG @othersideoftheatlantic , Twitter @sideofatlantic , Email  [email protected] 
    Episode Table of Contents 
    What I'm - 16:14
    Quarantining with Parents - 33: 44
    Atlantic Article https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2020/07/pandemic-young-adults-living-with-parents/613723/
    1 hr 11 min
  • On Why Dating in Nigeria is Trash
    In this episode, Rolake and Shade discuss different dating cultures around the world and compare them to the dating and marriage culture in Nigeria to examine why the dating culture in Nigeria is trash. From North America to Asia and Scandinavia, the duo explore what it’s like to date as a millennial in these countries and their experiences dating in the US and Denmark. The duo also discuss all that is problematic in the often times toxic dating culture in Nigeria and the transactional nature of marriages. This hot button issue explores why some relationships aren’t built on friendships but on image and how our generation can break these chains of bad marriages and relationships. In the weekly what I’m segment, Rolake and Shade explore their love of all things Indian and share their thoughts on the #Netflix show Masaba Masaba and #BBC show A Suitable Boy. Shade shares her love of Tiwa Savage’s Celia album and Rolake shares her thoughts on the latest book she’s read, The Family Next Door.
    What I’m – 8:18
    Main Topic – 31:34
    We’re on social! Follow us and share your thoughts and suggestions on episodes: IG @othersideoftheatlantic and Twitter on @sideofatlantic
    Link to Insider article: https://www.insider.com/what-dating-is-like-in-different-countries-2018-5#dating-in-the-united-states-is-usually-casual-1
    1 hr 27 min
  • On the Pros and Cons of Marrying a Mr. Big
    In this episode, Shade and Rolake revisit the defining show for the 2000s’ single girl, Sex and The City. They discuss the pros and cons of Carrie ending up with Big and discuss whether single women should settle down with the Mr Big’s in their own life. The ladies completed absolutely important and crucial research that involved rewatching old episodes and the SATC movies for this episode (such a difficult task but it had to be done!). Tune in for laughs and some wisdom . As usual, the show starts with the “What I’m” segment where the ladies discuss what they’ve been watching, reading, buying etc since the last episode.
    Episode Table of Contents
    What I'm - 9:10
    Main Topic - 31:54
    We're on social! Follow us and share your thoughts and suggestions on episodes: IG @othersideoftheatlantic Twitter @sideofatlantic
    1 hr 8 min
  • On Filling Your Own Cup First

    Hey! We missed you...but we're back and glad you are too! On episode one of season two, Shade (based in DC) and Rolake (based in Lagos) catch up on what’s been happening in their lives over the last 5 weeks. Listen to their recommendations on the Netflix shows, books, music and self care regimens they've been hooked on (look out for their thoughts on #BlackisKing). In the main topic this week, the ladies speak on the importance of looking after numero uno before trying to meet the needs of co-workers, family, friends and/or bosses. From the beginning of time, women have been pre-conditioned to put ourselves last; we often end up looking after the needs of others at the expense of our mental and physical health and joy. Hear the ladies talk through personal decisions they're making to relearn what it means to be a good colleague, daughter, friend, wife, mom...etc by filling their own cups first. 


    Episode Table of Contents 

    What I'm - 15:43

    Filling Your Own Cup First - 39:04


    11 Year Old Nigerian Ballet Sensation - https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/kidspost/11-year-old-nigerian-ballet-dancer-receives-scholarship-after-viral-video/2020/08/07/3f4b92f6-d8c2-11ea-930e-d88518c57dcc_story.html 

    1 hr 13 min
  • On Dating In Your 30s vs 20s
    In the season 1 finale, Shade and Rolake discuss how dating is different in their 30s vs in their 20s with special guest Salewa. The ladies revisit their 20s and how their expectations and non-negotiables have evolved as they have grown into their 30s. 
    Episode Table of Contents 
    What I'm - 7:21
    Dating in your 30s vs 20s - 21:57
    We're on social! Follow us and share your thoughts and suggestions on episodes: IG @othersideoftheatlantic Twitter @sideofatlantic
    1 hr 4 min

About The Other Side of the Atlantic

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From the US to Lagos (with a layover in London), two global girls chit chat about all things relevant and irrelevant from celebrities to politics to their love lives...stay tuned for the laughs, tears…