The Ownership Game

By Gary Montalvo

Welcome to The Ownership Game with Gary Montalvo, where weekly I bring you interviews, conversations, coaching, or insightful ramblings all with one purpose, to get you in the driver's seat of your li... more

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March 04, 2025Break Free From Financial Stress: A New Approach to Money - Kelsa Dickey
Are you in control of your money, or is your money controlling you?
Most of us weren’t taught how to manage money in a way that actually works for our lives. We’ve been told to budget, cut expenses, and “just be disciplined.” But if you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck in a cycle of financial stress—constantly avoiding your bank account or feeling guilty about your spending—you’re not alone.
This week, I’m sitting down with Kelsa Dickey, a financial coach and former financial advisor who’s spent years helping people rewrite their money stories. Kelsa’s approach is all about empowerment, not restriction—because money isn’t just numbers, it’s emotional, personal, and deeply tied to our mindset.

In this episode, we discuss:
✔️ Why most budgeting advice fails and what actually works
✔️ The hidden emotions & beliefs that shape your money habits
✔️ How to stop avoiding your finances and start taking control
✔️ The small shifts that turn financial stress into financial power
✔️ How to align your money with the life you actually want
This isn’t just another budgeting episode. It’s a deep dive into how you can own your financial story and create real freedom—on your own terms.

Chapters
00:00 Understanding the Emotional Side of Money
01:02 Redefining Financial Relationships
02:59 The Importance of Buy-In for Financial Success
05:50 Empathy in Financial Coaching
09:14 Aligning Financial Goals with Personal Values
12:13 Transforming Money from Survival to Fulfillment
14:49 Planning Ahead: From Reaction to Proaction
17:57 Overcoming Financial Challenges in Tough Times
25:44 The Power of Facing Financial Realities
30:27 Common Pitfalls in Financial Management
39:06 Building Trust and Systems for Financial Success
49:12 Final Thoughts on Financial Empowerment

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Website: https://fiscalfitnessphx.com/
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moneycoachkelsa/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelsadickey/
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December 12, 2024Just Start: Lessons From My First Year of Podcasting - Gary Montalvo
On the last episode of Season One of The Ownership Game, Host Gary Montalvo gets honest and shares some of the struggles and lessons he learned from his first year of podcasting. He emphasizes the importance of just starting, embracing surprises and lessons along the way, and acknowledging every step of the journey no matter how small you think it is. This is an inspiring episode for anyone who’s ever thought of starting something but has been sitting on it for years waiting for the right time. The episode ends with an expression of gratitude for the support received from listeners over the last year. Season 2 of The Ownership Game will return in February 2025.

In this episode, we discuss:
How reflecting on experiences and integrating the lessons is a crucial part of growth.
Being open to and seeking out the unexpected lessons and surprises that come along the way to teach us.
Celebrating all the small wins will support you in staying connected to your joy and passion when the result is not there yet.

Chapters
00:00 Reflecting on the Journey
04:10 Lessons Learned from Podcasting
05:06 The Importance of Starting
10:44 Embracing Surprises
12:09 The Challenge of Persistence
14:07 Celebrating Every Step
19:16 Gratitude and Looking Ahead

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Website: https://www.garymontalvo.com/
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December 03, 2024What Your Body Knows About Happiness - Janice Kaplan
In this episode, I sit down with New York Times Best Selling Author, Janice Kaplan to explore the profound connection between the body and mind, and how our physical state influences our emotions, decisions, and overall happiness. We also discuss the importance of recognizing the body's intelligence, the impact our environment can have on our well-being, and how simple changes in posture and surroundings can enhance our mood and creativity. The conversation also touches on the effects of anxiety, pain, and the significance of reconnecting with our bodies in a fast-paced, technology-driven world.

In this episode, we discuss:
How our brains are not the sole center of intelligence; our bodies also play a crucial role.
How understanding the body-mind connection can help manage anxiety and stress.
How simple changes in our environment can lead to profound changes in our emotional health.
How anxiety often begins with physical sensations that can spiral into mental loops.

Chapters
00:00 The Body-Mind Connection
02:59 Exploring Body Intelligence
06:09 The Role of Environment in Happiness
08:53 Understanding Anxiety and Body Responses
11:46 Nature's Impact on Well-Being
15:03 The Power of Physical Surroundings
17:52 The Influence of Posture on Mood
21:07 Reconnecting with Our Bodies
27:07 The Impact of Noise on Well-Being
29:57 Pain and the Mind-Body Connection
32:47 Creativity and Physical Movement

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Connect with Janice:
Website: http://www.janicekaplan.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/janice.kaplan.5
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janice.kaplan/

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November 26, 2024The Costly Mistakes of Starting a Business - Kasey D’Amato
In this episode, Gary Montalvo explores some of the common challenges facing Entrepreneurs with Speaker, Author, Business Coach, and Seasoned Entrepreneur, Kasey D’Amato. The covers a host of valuable topics for anyone in business or thinking of starting a business with the focus being on Leadership and how Leadership is a key element to the success of any business (even when you are a one-person show!) This conversation was a master class that you do not want to miss.

In this episode, we discuss:
Holistic Leadership: Success in entrepreneurship is rooted in a holistic leadership approach that includes business acumen, self-leadership, team leadership, and industry leadership.
Harnessing Fear and Failure: Having failures in business is a necessary part of growth and development. Fearing them will only slow down your progress and growth.
Building a Team: Creating a solid team is essential for scalability and freedom in entrepreneurship. Start small with part-time help and work towards expanding your team as it supports revenue growth.
Implementing Systems and Strategies: Use structured goal-setting and time blocking to ensure continuous growth and improvement, backed by essential data and metrics tracking.
Three Levels of 'Who's': Surround yourself with coaches, peers, and a capable team to propel forward motion and support systems.

Chapters
00:00 Embracing Failure as a Learning Tool
01:52 The Essence of Holistic Leadership
05:40 The Importance of Team Dynamics
09:50 Preparing for Future Growth
14:33 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Failure
20:30 Building a Supportive Network
25:33 Building a Supportive Team
37:01 The Importance of Metrics and Data
48:01 Leadership in Small Business

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Connect with Kasey:
Website: https://www.kaseydamato.com/
Business Growth Cheat Sheet: https://kaseydamato.myflodesk.com/businesscheatsheet
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kasey.damato/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kaseydamato/?hl=en
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCThYeaAT6dyEMGRSRUFFpvg

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November 19, 2024East Meets West: Where Do You Turn When You Have 3-Months To Live - Meagan Price
In this episode, Gary Montalvo speaks with Megan Price. 8 years ago she received a life-threatening diagnosis which gave her 3 months to live. Faced with the impossible task of having to say goodbye to her new 8-month-old and husband, Meagan got to work at finding alternative ways to stay alive. Her journey has taken her around the world learning ancient practices like Qigong, Reiki, Breathwork, and other modalities. Now she’s devoted her life to teaching others the power of these practices and how to integrate them into their daily lives.

In this episode, we discuss:
Integrating Ancient Practices and Modern Science: Discover how blending traditional methods with contemporary knowledge can lead to holistic healing and well-being.
Understanding Qigong: Learn about the three branches of qigong—martial, medical, and spiritual—and how they can complement Western medicine and enhance your quality of life.
The Impact of Mindset on Health: Meagan shares her journey of overcoming illness through mindset shifts and holistic practices, underscoring the power of mental healing.
The Power of Simple Meditation: How to begin a meditation practice by incorporating small, mindful habits like intentional breathing and gratitude exercises into daily routines.
The Role of Breath in Wellness: Explore the fundamental connection between deep breathing and physical, mental, and spiritual health.

Chapters
00:00 Facing Mortality: A Mother's Journey
02:59 The Power of Mindset and Healing
05:49 Exploring Ancient Practices: Qigong and Beyond
09:12 The Intersection of Western Medicine and Holistic Healing
11:56 The Role of Energy and Mindfulness in Health
18:09 Understanding Qigong: History and Benefits
20:45 Integrating Mind, Body, and Spirit for Wellness
24:04 The Importance of Holistic Approaches in Modern Life
29:20 The Journey of Meditation
35:05 Understanding Tools for Wellness
41:40 Types of Meditation Explained
49:34 Breath as a Foundation for Wellness

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Connect with Meagan:
Website: https://www.healingthymeutah.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Healingthymeutah/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/healing_thyme_ut/
Booking Link: https://app.squarespacescheduling.com/schedule/18f49788

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November 12, 2024The Entrepreneurial Drive: How a refuge built a Multi-Million Dollar Business from nothing - Joel Gandara
In this episode we take a deep dive into what it takes to build a six-figure empire from nothing with Entrepreneur Joel Gandara. Joel shares his struggle in coming to the United States as a child and Refugee, trying to fit it, learn the language and build a life here after leaving everything he knew behind. He started his first business in the 4th grade and little by little built a 6 figure empire which he now retired from before he was 45 years old.
The episode offers a great deal of inspiration and practical advice for anyone looking to build a personal or business legacy.

In this episode, we discuss:
The power of resilience, determination, and resourcefulness in overcoming adversity and achieving financial freedom.
The power leveraging small successes into larger opportunities, especially when coming from modest beginnings.
Developing emotional intelligence and personal accountability are crucial elements in navigating modern masculinity and building meaningful relationships.
Finding balance between traditional masculine roles/expectations and vulnerability to create healthier relationships and personal fulfillment.

Chapters
00:00 The Early Entrepreneurial Spirit
02:28 From Cuba to America: A Journey of Resilience
07:23 The Drive to Succeed: Overcoming Adversity
12:07 Building an Empire: The Underwear Business
22:08 Lessons Learned: Trusting Your Gut
28:19 The Journey of Entrepreneurship: Step by Step
31:02 Building Brands with Purpose
35:44 The Journey to Financial Freedom
36:41 Transitioning from Business to Mentorship
39:36 Creating a Brotherhood for Growth
43:20 Exploring Masculinity and Emotional Availability
50:51 Redefining Masculinity in Modern Times

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Connect with Joel:
Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/joel.gandara.3/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joelgandara/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joelgandara/
31 Daily Challenge: https://31dailychallenges.com/
Podcast: www.JoelGandara.com

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November 05, 2024Finding Your Purpose on a Meandering Road - Danielle Woodhouse Johnson
Join host Gary Montalvo as he engages in an inspiring conversation with Danielle Woodhouse Johnson, founder of The Oasis Alliance. A Nonprofit organization that merges empathy with interior design to create personalized and healing living spaces for individuals and families recovering from trauma.
In the episode, we dive deep into Danielle’s interesting life: From her time in the Peace Corps in the Dominican Republic, then later as a Case Manager in Virginia, and then ultimately as an interior designer. Her journey is a testament to how one’s meandering path can come together is beautiful ways to create something new and unexpected. A testament to how creativity and compassion can drive meaningful change in the lives of those who are often overlooked the most.

In this episode, we discuss:
Faith and Intuition: How listening to one's inner voice and following your intuition can lead to transformative opportunities and success.
The Value in the Journey: There are moments in the journey that you don’t yet understand how it all connects. But every single step is always preparing you for the next, even if it’s not yet obvious to you.
Integrating Design and Social Work: How Danielle is combining her background in social work and design to address the overlooked needs for trauma-informed, personalized spaces for survivors.

Chapters
00:00 The Journey of Interests and Failures
02:52 Background and Early Experiences
07:37 The Birth of Oasis Alliance
10:43 Transformative Peace Corps Experience
18:44 Transitioning to Design and Home Staging
22:59 Embracing Change and Taking Risks
27:47 Embracing Struggle for Growth
36:10 The Journey of Creating Oasis Alliance
41:54 Funding and Support for Nonprofits
49:56 The Impact of Design on Mental Health

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Connect with Danielle:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1519258
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danijaydesign/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielle-woodhouse-johnson-a374266a/

Connect with The Oasis Alliance:
The Oasis Alliance Website: https://www.theoasisalliance.org/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theoasisalliance_/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielle-woodhouse-johnson-a374266a/

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October 29, 2024Denied Identity: How a Woman’s DNA Test Changed Everything - Michelle Waldman
In this Episode, Gary Montalvo speaks with Entrepreneur and Mother Michelle Waldman about her journey of self-discovery after taking a DNA test that revealed unexpected family secrets. Michelle shares her experiences of growing up with a different understanding of her identity, the emotional impact of discovering her true ancestry, and the complexities of navigating family dynamics in light of these revelations. The discussion delves into themes of identity, cultural heritage, and the emotional toll of uncovering hidden truths about oneself and one's family.

In this episode, we discuss:
How DNA tests like those offered by 23andMe and Ancestry DNA are bringing hidden family stories to light, posing ethical and emotional challenges for many.
The significant impact that discovering hidden family truths through DNA testing can have on personal and familial identity.
How fostering a new sense of belonging and identity can come with embracing newfound heritages and cultural roots.

Chapters
00:00 Uncovering Family Secrets Through DNA Testing
05:08 Michelle's Journey of Self-Discovery
09:53 The Impact of Ancestry on Identity
15:02 Navigating Family Dynamics and Truths
19:46 Embracing New Identities and Cultures
24:52 The Emotional Toll of Discovering the Past
30:02 The Dilemma of Seeking Truth
35:12 Reflections on Family and Identity
40:02 Finding Peace Amidst Uncertainty

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Website: www.coachingwithcari.com
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October 15, 2024Grief: The Five Letter Word No One Talks About - Katherine Brito
In this episode, we sit with Grief Coach Katherine Brito to explore the Grief Process and how we support those going through grief in society. Through the sharing of Katherine’s personal story, we learn how platitudes often place well-meaning expectations of timelines and shows of strength on those grieving all the while disguising and avoiding our own discomfort with grief. This conversation inspires people to take ownership of their Grief and gives tools and a lot of grace to those who are supporting loved ones who are grieving.

In this episode, we discuss:
The Grief Timeline: Grief is a deeply personal journey that doesn’t adhere to a standardized timeline or set of stages.
Well-Meaning Platitudes: Traditional platitudes offered to those grieving can often be more harmful than helpful because they invalidate or minimize a person’s experience.
Loneliness: As much as people mean well, it’s hard to be supported by someone who has not lived this experience. Seeking community and shared experiences are vital for healing and understanding one’s grief
Maintaining a Bond: It is possible, and healthy, to maintain a continued bond with loved ones who have passed away.

Chapters
00:00 Understanding Grief: A Journey Through Loss
10:12 The Impact of Sudden Loss
19:47 Navigating Life After Loss
30:13 Creating a New Normal
40:14 The Role of Community in Grief
45:55 Finding Support and Moving Forward

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October 07, 2024Successful Co-Parenting After Divorce - Cari D’Angelo
Successful Co-Parenting After Divorce - Cari D’Angelo
In this episode, we bring back Divorce Coach, Cari D’Angelo to do a follow-up on our #1 downloaded March 12th episode: Embracing Life After Divorce. For this conversation, we dive into the complexities of co-parenting. As always Cari brings saged advice that is tried and true. If you can put your ego aside for this candid and perhaps confronting conversation you will walk away with some incredible tools to create a positive environment for your children and yourself.

In this episode, we discuss:
A Children First Approach: Focus on prioritizing the well-being of children over personal grievances to create a stable and loving environment.
Modeling Behavior: Parents should model forgiveness, resilience, and grace as children learn behaviors by observing their parents.
Seeking Support: It’s crucial to seek professional help, such as a therapist or divorce coach, to break free from harmful patterns and improve co-parenting dynamics.
Creating New Patterns: Having a vision and setting new agreements or guidelines for co-parenting can help both parents navigate their relationship positively.
Personal Responsibility: Parents must take ownership of their actions and emotions, focusing on personal growth and the greater good of the family rather than past conflicts.

Chapters
00:00 Breaking the Toxic Cycle
00:49 Embracing Life After Divorce
04:05 Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges
08:04 The Role of Parents in Co-Parenting
11:52 Modeling Behavior for Children
19:09 The Impact of Nurture on Development
22:56 Catalyst for Change in Co-Parenting
29:57 Letting Go of the Need to Be Right
37:07 Creating a New Vision for Co-Parenting
43:09 Final Thoughts on Co-Parenting

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Connect with Cari:
Website: www.coachingwithcari.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coaching_with_cari/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556230619128
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cari-d-angelo-1051b8b6/

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