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We've been lied to about purpose. 👀

Growing up, most of us were taught that purpose = career. Get the grades. Get the job. Get the title. And somehow, you'll feel fulfilled.

But what if that's not the whole truth?

Well, In the first Episode of the series PURPOSEFULLY, I share what purpose really means and how you might have been in someone else’s lane unknowingly!

As always, I’d love to connect with you

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New series alert!!

What does it actually mean to live on purpose?

Purposefully is a new series by The PAB Chat, created for those who are done performing for the world and ready to start living for something deeper.

For Each episode on this series, we will get honest — about calling, identity, pressure, comparison, and what it looks like to trust God with the life you're building.

This isn't a series with all the answers. It's a space for everyone still sitting with the questions.

New episodes dropping regularly. Follow so you never miss any of the episodes .

In this episode, I sit down with a newly married couple for an honest and insightful conversation about what it really takes to build a healthy relationship.

We talk about the importance of boundaries and open communication, how to navigate the delicate balance between recognizing red flags and extending grace, and what it means to grow spiritually together as a couple.

Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode has something in it for you.

As always, I’d love to connect with you

Follow me on Instagram @Ponmiiley and on X @Zaileyy3

In many cultures, men are taught to be strong, stoic, and emotionally guarded. But what does love actually look like in the heart of a man—especially one striving to follow Christ?

In this episode, we explore the intersection of how men experience love, biblical leadership, emotional vulnerability, and what it truly means to love like Christ.

Join us for an honest conversation about the heart of a man, the courage to love deeply, and the call to lead like Christ

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Instagram: @ponmiiley

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“From he’s just my Best Friend to He’s my Husband”

In this episode I have a heartfelt and honest conversation with Tolu, my friend from way back and she shares her journey of the transition from being a single girl to being married .

Whether you’re single, engaged , newly married or years in ~ this episode will challenge you to think about love not as perfection but as partnership.

I'd love to connect with you ,reach me on:

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Instagram: @ponmiiley

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What do you do when you desire love… but it hasn’t found you ?

On this episode , I talk about the period of waiting with a special guest who shares her personal journey through the waiting season before finding love.

Together, we unpack what it really means to embrace singleness instead of just enduring it.

If you’ve ever felt forgotten, delayed, or pressured because you’re single — this conversation is for you. The waiting season isn’t punishment. It’s preparation. And sometimes, it’s protection.

I'd love to connect with you ,reach me on:

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Instagram: @ponmiiley

X: @Zaileyy3

Can We Talk About Love?

It’s February, and suddenly is red,pink, and heart-shaped. Love is in the air or at least, that’s what every store, instagram ads and vendor is telling us.

In this episode, we’re cutting the noise of the valentine season and talking about real love not from movies , instagram or TikTok but according to God’s word.

Happy New Year!

Better late than never right ? 2026 is already ticking and the momentum is starting to fade.

At one point or the other at the start of every year we have all said : “This is MY year” but if we are being honest , does our expectations at the beginning of year match our reality at the end of year?

In this episode, I share my most profound thoughts and lessons coming into 2026 and how I know 2026 is sorted already!

I promise, this will bless you and as always please share across your various social media platforms.

Don’t forget to leave a comment. Cheers🥂

2025 was one for the books and should be documented. I know I’m late to the party but it’s better late than never😉.

If you enjoyed this episode please share across your various social media platforms.

Don’t forget to leave a comment. Cheers🥂

As I approached my birthday few days back, I was thinking about some of the things I accomplished in the previous year and how much I’ve grown.

And bruhh, God has been good!

Tune in for an inspiring and honest conversation about my journey and what God has been teaching me.

I'd love to connect with you ,reach me on:

[email protected]

Instagram: @ponmiiley

X: @Zaileyy3