We have a tendency to think that we have to do extraordinary things to change things about ourselves. That's a lie and it prevents us from growing in every aspect: physically, mentally, emotionally, socially, and spiritually.

On this edition of The Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve and Julia lay out for us what it looks like to improve these area's of our lives in small increments of whole-hearted living. The results allow us to lead healthier lives as partners to our adult kids and open up new avenues of relationship.

Resources mentioned on this podcast:

"The Gift of Being Yourself" by David Benner

"Emotionally Healthy Spirituality" by Pete Scazzero Grandparenting Summit 2025

The holidays are upon us and that can mean stress when we gather with extended family, right? Our past experiences for Thanksgiving can bring great, family memories - or stressful conversations, especially when alcohol is involved and everyone is sharing their opinions.

Pivoting from parent to partner just went to the next level. How do we steer clear of the volatile conversations?

On this episode of The Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve and Julia - (okay, mostly Julia) provide some ways to "keep your mouth shut and the welcome mat out" while loving your family well. Be sure to watch this one!

Resources mentioned: 

Grandparenting Summit 2025

None of us like a detour. It messes up our timing, our plans, and causes stress and anxiety. Can I get an "AMEN!"?

Detours are never convenient. They take us out of our way, and they are LONGER than than we originally planned to travel. "But God . . . "

On this edition of The Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve shares what has helped him by his Bible Apps and Dr. Tony Evans that will help you see these detours as something God is using to develop us as good "pivoting partners." #detours #tonyevans #youversionbibleapp

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Now that we have your attention, there IS a path toward healthy social media use that can actually draw your adult kids closer to you.

WHAT??

It's true. When it comes to how we use social media, there are some changes in how we use it that requires a pivot as well.

On this podcast of The Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve and Julia outline what those changes are, that they personally went through, to help us make a good pivot to thoughtful social media use. Your adult kids will thank you!

Resources mentioned: "The 40-Day Social Media Fast: Exchange Your Online Distractions for Real-Life Devotion"

Grandparenting Summit 2025 - February 21-22, 2025. 

You know that feeling. The one that causes your chest to puff out when someone tells you something about your character they like or something you did that was AMAZING, right?  We were given respect and what did that do to the relationship? It enhanced and deepened it. Why?

Respect is so important in relationships because it helps us feel safe and express ourselves, while building trust and wellbeing in relationships.

On this edition of The Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve and Julia walk us through what that looks like and the many rewards and benefits that are out there for us to enjoy as partners with our adult "offspring." Be sure to watch, subscribe and share in your social media channels.

Resources mentioned on the broadcast:

"Holidays, Traditions and Change: How Do We Navigate This Season" 

Often times life can get so busy, hectic, and burdensome it feels like we aren't really making progress. Ever felt this way? Maybe you do now.

God never intended us to live this way.

When it comes to making a good pivot from parent to partner, there is one key aspect that makes that pivot smoother: Grace.

On today's Parent Pivot Podcast Steve and Julia guide us down this path and how as Partners - we can gain respect while celebrating our adult kids - never mentioning anything about ourselves, but keeping our mouths shut. They even give us a homework assignment to get us started.

Resources mentioned on the broadcast: Tim Keller podcast, "Marriage in Christ" 

When we've been hurt by a parent or by our adult child, the natural reaction is to protect our heart. We will either withdraw,  fight, freeze for flee. We only have control over our own response.  So when a family relationship is fractured, repairing it can be difficult.

On this edition of the Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve and Julia bring their years of combined wisdom, counsel, empathy and words from Scripture to help you begin your journey of repairing the relationship.

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As mentioned in today's broadcast - to book time with Julia to discuss YOUR personal relationship issue, text her at: 714-392-2060 or email her at [email protected].

When pivoting parents don't pivot to partner well and don't accept your choice of who you married (or are dating) - it can cause issues on so many fronts!  If this is where you find yourself today on either side of the issue, this podcast is for you.

On this edition of The Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve and Julia carefully walk both adult kids and pivoting parents down multiple scenarios toward acceptance and healing in their relationship.  It's a 5-star podcast you won't want to miss!

Relationships are hard enough in-person but when we use our phones to text our adult kids, fracturing a relationship is always one text away.

As we pivot from being a parent after 20-30 years, we also need to pivot to healthier texting as partners.

On this edition of The Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve and Julia give us some healthy tips and boundaries on texting communication that will help improve how we respond to our adult kids - especially in an emotionally charged situation.

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Resources mentioned on this podcast: "The Social Dilemma"

The pivot from parent to partner is a life-learning process that includes many facets. One facet we don't often think is related to pivoting to being a partner to our adults kids, is our long-term health choices.

On this edition of the Parent Pivot Podcast, Steve and Julia bring to our attention the truth behind the foods we eat and how they are creating life-long disease that can end up crippling and limiting our time with our kids and grandkids.

Resources mentioned: "Good Energy - The Surprising Connection Between Metabolism and Limitless Health"  by Casey Means, MD - available on Amazon.

Legacy Grandparenting Summit - February 21-22, 2025. Attend in-person or online at legacycoalition.com/summit