The Parenting Out Loud

My 3-min book review

1/ Chris Patten: The Hong Kong Diaries

2/ Jefferson Fisher: The Next Conversation

Last week, Daniel @thewayof_positive_discipline invited me onto his podcast. 😂I didn't realize we chatted for over an hour!

We started with his movie 🎥 《An Abandoned Team》 then we talked about bullying 💬

Here’s what we talked about (feel free to jump around):

02:47 ｜💭 Reflections after watching the 🎥

11:40 ｜😔 What bullying looks like

14:00 ｜A Parent’s First Response 💬what to say, what not to say, and how to really show up when your kid is hurting

26:10 ｜The 3 Roles in Bullying and why each role matters

44:40 ｜Restorative Justice

56:24 ｜Resources from Daniel

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🎧Daniel's Podcast: 🔎Cantonese parenting program

His spotify ep link: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6KKehy0FirhK0KD6aaEBgT?si=FItHmhZzSCqzS-LZQpCZog

His Apple Podcast ep link:

https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/%E6%95%99%E4%BB%94%E5%85%B6%E5%AF%A6%E5%8F%AF%E4%BB%A5%E5%A5%BD%E6%AD%A3-%E5%BB%A3%E6%9D%B1%E8%A9%B1%E8%82%B2%E5%85%92%E9%A0%BB%E9%81%93-cantonese-parenting-program/id1690721096?i=1000704187975

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🎧Becca's Daily Cantonese Podcast on www.cantonese4parents.com

Got new microphone for the podcast

In today’s episode, be talking about 3 simple but powerful games you can play with your kids to build courage

In today’s episode, we’ll use real-life examples and positive parenting phrases to walk through three gentle, practical steps that parents can use to help their children build courage over time:

1. Acknowledge fear — without judgment
2. Set small, doable goals
3. Celebrate effort — not just outcomes

In today's episode, we'll talk about how a child speaking up in class, even when they’re afraid of being judged, is actually a powerful act of bravery.

Tired of eating the same old breakfast every day? Me too. That’s why I asked my dietitian friend to help me switch things up. 

Note: Subtitles are auto-generated and lightly reviewed, less polished than my usual work. Thanks!

A quick video on buzzwords people use to describe older generations online. ***Heads up: This episode may include some rude or inappropriate words. Just a reminder in case you’re listening with your kids.

Self reflection: parenting.

Audio version at www.Cantonese4Parents.com

Note: Subtitles are auto-generated and lightly reviewed, less polished than my usual work. 🙇🏻‍♀️ Thanks!

There was a post on Threads that blew up.

A 15-year-old was talking about his first trip to Japan and used trendy Gen Z buzzwords to make a joke, he was making fun of himself.

But a lot of grown-ups didn’t catch the tone.

They thought he was seriously trying to act superior just because he went to Japan.

Then different people started leaving comments like, “I brought my child to Japan when she was one.” They completely missed the joke and started comparing with each other instead. ((🫣 As a grown-up, I felt secondhand embarrassment.))

🗳️ Is comparison deeply rooted in Cantonese culture?