The Parenting Standard

Imagine this: You blink, and your child is dangling from the top of a jungle gym. Your breath catches. One wrong move and—your mind races. You want to shout. You need to shout. But instead… you stay silent.

Because deep down, you’re testing something: What if your instinct to help is causing harm?

This episode lays bare the invisible tension every parent carries—the crushing belief that constant instruction equals love, safety, responsibility. We unpack how that belief, born of fear, becomes a trap.

With raw honesty, we explore what happens when we stop directing our children and instead trust the chaos of their becoming. Featuring insights from Montessori and Alfie Kohn, this is the parenting story you didn’t know you needed—but won’t forget.

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This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.

Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.

Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.

You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path...

...yet.

These episodes are:

- Short

- Too the point

- Engaging

- Weekly

And they have:

- Zero scripting.

- Zero planning.

- Deep insights.

- Inspiring stories.

- Decades of Parenting experience.

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There you are, within earshot of a conversation that stops you cold: a mom tells her little boy she hopes he marries an ""Elsa."" It sounds sweet, but a nagging feeling surfaces.

Are we sleepwalking into accepting potentially harmful role models for our kids?

Frozen is everywhere, its songs inescapable, but what dangerous ideas might be hiding beneath the sparkle?

We tackle the Elsa paradox head-on. Is her story truly empowering, or does it glorify running away, shirking duty, and a self-centeredness that leaves others (literally) out in the cold?

What happens when ""you do you"" becomes a justification for neglecting the impact we have?

This episode digs into the dark side of beloved characters, questioning if our passive acceptance is setting our children up for a future where accountability melts away.

Listen before the fairy tale ending turns sour.

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This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.

Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.

Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.

You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path...

...yet.

These episodes are:

- Short

- Too the point

- Engaging

- Weekly

And they have:

- Zero scripting.

- Zero planning.

- Deep insights.

- Inspiring stories.

- Decades of Parenting experience.

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Picture this: You’re standing in your kitchen, exhausted. Your kid just rolled their eyes at you—again. You tried reasoning, consequences, maybe even a sticker chart. But nothing’s working.

Now imagine this: What if the real problem wasn’t your kid—but the entire system you’ve been using?

We’ve all been conditioned by behaviorism—rewards, punishments, control tactics we don’t even question. But what if there’s another way? A way that doesn’t rely on bribes or power struggles?

In this episode, we expose the unseen grip of behaviorism on parenting, education, and even the workplace. We reveal why sticker charts, timeouts, and “gentle consequences” are just behaviorism in disguise. And we show you how to break free.

If you’re ready to step outside the Skinner box and raise kids who act responsibly—not because they fear punishment, but because they genuinely want to—join us.

It’s time to stop raising rats.

Let’s raise incredible human beings.

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This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.

Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.

Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.

You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path...

...yet.

These episodes are:

- Short

- Too the point

- Engaging

- Weekly

And they have:

- Zero scripting.

- Zero planning.

- Deep insights.

- Inspiring stories.

- Decades of Parenting experience.

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Picture this: Your child slumps onto the couch, sighing, "I'm bored." You reach for a solution—an activity, a screen, something to end their discomfort. But what if boredom is exactly what they need?

In this episode, we dive into the power of boredom and discomfort in shaping resilient, independent kids. We explore why today’s children crave constant stimulation, how overscheduling steals their ability to self-entertain, and the dark side of "screenagers"—dopamine-driven, emotionally volatile, and addicted to instant gratification.

We unpack why shielding kids from hardship does more harm than good and how small doses of discomfort—like being cold or device-free—build emotional strength. Plus, a chilling revelation: adults who never learned to sit with themselves often fear looking inward, afraid of what they might find.

Inspired by the song "Wish You Pain," we challenge parents to give their children the ultimate gift: the ability to grow through struggle. Let’s raise kids who can sit with boredom, face themselves, and thrive.

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This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.

Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.

Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.

You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path...

...yet.

These episodes are:

- Short

- Too the point

- Engaging

- Weekly

And they have:

- Zero scripting.

- Zero planning.

- Deep insights.

- Inspiring stories.

- Decades of Parenting experience.

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Picture this: You're late for school, tension’s high, and you casually ask, ""What makes a sleepover unforgettable?"" It seems random, but that’s where real conversations begin.

In this episode, we reveal why heavy, planned ""talks"" at dinner or bedtime often miss the mark—and how brief, casual chats during everyday moments can build lasting trust. Hear stories of kids opening up about loss and bullying, not during scheduled talks, but over casual lunches and car rides.

Discover how small, playful questions can create deep, meaningful connections without pressure. It's about turning life's chaos into your greatest parenting tool.

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Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission!

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This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.

Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.

Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.

You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path...

...yet.

These episodes are:

- Short

- Too the point

- Engaging

- Weekly

And they have:

- Zero scripting.

- Zero planning.

- Deep insights.

- Inspiring stories.

- Decades of Parenting experience.

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Picture this: Your teenager stands in the kitchen, face serious. “Mom, can you celebrate me? Like... really celebrate me?”

Turns out, he’s been craving the same over-the-top praise you used to give him when he was little—potty dances and all.

In this episode, we explore what happens when the cheering stops. When milestones become expectations, and our kids quietly wonder if anyone notices them at all. We share wild stories—road rage, racist drivers, and the terrifying truths of sending our teens into the world.

But more importantly, we ask: How do we keep the praise going? For the small wins. The self-made promises. The unnoticed daily efforts.

Because if we don’t, who will?

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Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission!

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This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.

Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.

Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.

You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path...

...yet.

These episodes are:

- Short

- Too the point

- Engaging

- Weekly

And they have:

- Zero scripting.

- Zero planning.

- Deep insights.

- Inspiring stories.

- Decades of Parenting experience.

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Picture this: You’re exhausted. It’s been a day of breaking up sibling fights, micromanaging homework, reminding them—again—to be kind, to share, to clean up. And yet, tomorrow, it’ll be the same. Because here’s the truth: the more you control, the less they learn.

This episode is about why most parents set their kids up for failure by over-managing instead of guiding. We’ll break down Priya's very own ""RADaR"" framework and why forced kindness and “we don’t do that” parenting can backfire.

Want your kids to grow into capable, independent people? Then stop cleaning up their messes—literally and figuratively.

Listen now.

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Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission!

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This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.

Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.

Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.

You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path...

...yet.

These episodes are:

- Short

- Too the point

- Engaging

- Weekly

And they have:

- Zero scripting.

- Zero planning.

- Deep insights.

- Inspiring stories.

- Decades of Parenting experience.

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Imagine this: Your teen is about to leave home. You’ve spent years modeling good habits, values, structure. But as the days tick down, panic sets in. Did they even learn anything? Will they fall apart the moment they’re on their own?

This is the fear that haunts so many parents. We cling to the belief that if we model well enough, our children will mirror us. But what if that’s the very thing pushing them away?

In this episode, we uncover the painful truth about forced modeling—how it backfires, why it can fracture relationships, and what truly prepares a child for independence. Before they walk out that door, listen in. Because how you let go might be the key to whether they come back.

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Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission!

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Want more value from Priya & Harry?

Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coaching: https://priyanarthakii.com/about/

Mindset & Performance Life Coaching: https://harry-goldberg.com/

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This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.

Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.

Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.

You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path...

...yet.

These episodes are:

- Short

- Too the point

- Engaging

- Bi-weekly

And they have:

- Zero scripting.

- Zero planning.

- Deep insights.

- Inspiring stories.

- Decades of Parenting experience.

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There you are. Your five-year-old is frozen in fear on a ski slope. What was supposed to be fun has turned into panic. You’re 15 meters below, a two-year-old strapped to your chest, and your wife waiting further down. You climb back up. Now what?

Shout encouragement? Give a pep talk? Bark orders? Carry her down?

This isn’t just skiing—it’s parenting in real time. It’s the moment when fear takes hold, and you have to decide: is this a lesson in toughness or something else entirely?

In this episode, we rethink fear, failure, and what kids really need in tough moments. Is this a destiny-shaping event—or just another Tuesday?

Listen in. You might rethink how you guide your child through life’s steeper slopes.

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Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission!

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Want more value from Priya & Harry?

Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coaching: https://priyanarthakii.com/about/

Mindset & Performance Life Coaching: https://harry-goldberg.com/

----------------------------

This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.

Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.

Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.

You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path...

...yet.

These episodes are:

- Short

- Too the point

- Engaging

- Bi-weekly

And they have:

- Zero scripting.

- Zero planning.

- Deep insights.

- Inspiring stories.

- Decades of Parenting experience.

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Three simple steps:

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Picture this: You say the same thing every single morning. “Put your shoes on.” “Brush your teeth.” “Stop hitting your sister.” You’re a broken record, and no matter how many times you say it today, you’ll have to say it again tomorrow.

But what if we told you it doesn’t have to be this way?

Parents have spent the last century obsessed with controlling behavior—believing that if we just shape our kids the right way, they’ll grow up successful. And yet, anxiety, depression, and screen addiction are at an all-time high. Future generations may look back and wonder: What were we thinking?

This episode is your wake-up call. Ditch behavior management. Instill values. Parent without reminding. And finally, break free from the exhausting cycle of micromanagement.

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Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission!

Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form

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Want more value from Priya & Harry?

Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coaching: https://priyanarthakii.com/about/

Mindset & Performance Life Coaching: https://harry-goldberg.com/

----------------------------

This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.

Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.

Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.

You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path...

...yet.

These episodes are:

- Short

- Too the point

- Engaging

- Bi-weekly

And they have:

- Zero scripting.

- Zero planning.

- Deep insights.

- Inspiring stories.

- Decades of Parenting experience.

----------------------------

Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights?

Three simple steps:

1. Subscribe.

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3. Turn On Notifications!