The Path We Choose

The Path We Choose

By Umer FarooqueEducationSelf-Improvement
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  • 50 Years of Coaching Wisdom: Leadership, Football Strategy & Player Development | Glenn Crooks

    50 Years of Coaching Wisdom: Leadership, Football Strategy & Player Development | Glenn Crooks

    What does 50 years of elite football coaching teach you about leadership, mindset, and building winning teams?

    In this powerful episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque speaks with veteran soccer coach, broadcaster, and author Glenn Crooks about high-performance coaching, player development, sports psychology, and leadership in football.

    With five decades of experience in competitive soccer, Glenn breaks down what separates average players from elite athletes, why talent is overrated, and how discipline, repetition, and mental resilience create long-term success.

    If you enjoy conversations like The Tim Ferriss Show, The Diary of a CEO, The Ed Mylett Show, or insights from authors like Simon Sinek, James Clear, and Jocko Willink, this episode delivers deep lessons from the world of elite sports that apply directly to business, entrepreneurship, and life.

    This episode is essential for:

    • Football & soccer coaches
    • Athletes and parents of young players
    • Sports leaders & performance coaches
    • Entrepreneurs & founders
    • High achievers building long-term success

    Chapters:

    Chapters
    • 00:00:00 Introduction: The Path to Soccer and Broadcasting
    • 00:04:35 The Brooklyn Challenge: Building a Program from Nothing
    • 00:10:40 Mindset Over Talent: What Makes a Great Player
    • 00:19:33 The Captain Announcement Mistake: Learning to Communicate
    • 00:24:15 Fundamentals of Communication: Training and Repetition
    • 00:30:28 The Art of Listening: From Coaching to Interviewing
    • 00:34:21 Midpoint Break: The Mission of Authentic Storytelling
    • 00:35:27 Building Confidence: The Ant Farm and Automatic Negative Thoughts
    • 00:15:02 Patrick Vieira's Secret: Adversity Creates Mental Strength
    • 00:57:11 Diego Luna's Eye Contact Story: Self-Awareness and Growth
    • 01:03:44 The Baby-Wise Philosophy: Discipline Creates Freedom
    • 01:15:09 John Wooden's Wisdom: What You Learn After You Know It All
      In this episode, you’ll learn:

      • Why talent alone never guarantees success in football
      • The mindset difference between good and elite players
      • How adversity builds mental toughness
      • The science of repetition and deliberate practice
      • Leadership lessons from 50 years on the touchline
      • How football strategy translates into business leadership

      Whether you're part of the North American soccer community, an aspiring coach, or someone passionate about high performance and leadership development, this conversation offers timeless coaching wisdom backed by real-world experience.

      Follow Glenn Crooks:
      https://glenncrookssoccer.com/
      https://www.youtube.com/@glenncrookssoccer2206
      https://www.linkedin.com/in/glenn-crooks-6b8296b 

      Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC):
      Website: https://thepathwechoose.com
      Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/
      LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/
      TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/

      Subscribe for more conversations on sports leadership, coaching philosophy, mental resilience, elite performance, and personal growth.

      1 hr 17 min
    • Why High Performers Burn Out More (And How to Recover) | EP11 Clip

      In this clip of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with burnout recovery expert, speaker, and author Cait Donovan to unpack the growing burnout epidemic affecting professionals across North America.

      This conversation explores the real causes of burnout, how chronic workplace stress impacts the nervous system, and why burnout is not just a mental health issue but a physical and neurological condition. Cait explains how high performers, entrepreneurs, and corporate leaders can recognize early burnout symptoms and begin sustainable recovery.

      If you follow top leadership and mental health podcasts featuring voices like Brené Brown, Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Simon Sinek, or Adam Grant, this clip offers practical, science-informed insights aligned with today's conversations around workplace mental health and performance burnout.

      In this clip, you'll learn:

      • The root causes of the burnout epidemic

      • How chronic stress affects the brain and body

      • The link between workplace burnout and physical health

      • Evidence-based burnout recovery strategies

      • How leaders can prevent burnout in high-performance environments

      • Whether you're a founder, executive, healthcare professional, or ambitious entrepreneur, this clip provides actionable tools to support long-term resilience, nervous system regulation, and sustainable success.

        Follow Cait Donovan:
        Website: https://www.caitdonovan.com/
        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/caitdonovanspeaks (https://www.instagram.com/caitdonovanspeaks/?hl=en)
        LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/caitdonovanspeaks/ 

        Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC):
        Website: https://thepathwechoose.com
        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/
        LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/
        TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/

        Subscribe to TPWC for deeper conversations on burnout recovery, leadership psychology, workplace wellbeing, and personal growth.

        14 min
      • The Burnout Epidemic Explained: Causes, Recovery & Workplace Mental Health | Cait Donovan

        The Burnout Epidemic Explained: Causes, Recovery & Workplace Mental Health | Cait Donovan

        In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with burnout recovery expert, speaker, and author Cait Donovan to unpack the growing burnout epidemic affecting professionals across North America.

        This conversation explores the real causes of burnout, how chronic workplace stress impacts the nervous system, and why burnout is not just a mental health issue but a physical and neurological condition. Cait explains how high performers, entrepreneurs, and corporate leaders can recognize early burnout symptoms and begin sustainable recovery.

        If you follow top leadership and mental health podcasts featuring voices like Brené Brown, Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Simon Sinek, or Adam Grant, this episode offers practical, science-informed insights aligned with today’s conversations around workplace mental health and performance burnout.

        In this episode, you’ll learn:

        • The root causes of the burnout epidemic

        • How chronic stress affects the brain and body

        • The link between workplace burnout and physical health

        • Evidence-based burnout recovery strategies

        • How leaders can prevent burnout in high-performance environments

        • Chapters:

          Chapters
          • 00:00:00 Introduction: The Moment Burnout Became Real
          • 00:00:49 The Meandering Path: From Doctor to Chinese Medicine
          • 00:04:17 Success in Poland: The Big Fish in a Small Pond
          • 00:07:48 The Harvard Business Review Article That Changed Everything
          • 00:08:18 Two Years to Recover: The Journey Out of Burnout
          • 00:09:53 Foundational Self-Care: Pee When You Need to Pee
          • 00:11:41 The Resentment Journal: Following the Data to Better Boundaries
          • 00:19:08 The Brain Science of Burnout: Why You Feel Stupid
          • 00:29:20 Capacity and Boundaries: We Are Not Machines
          • 00:16:20 The Pandemic Pivot: From Acupuncture to Speaking
          • 00:45:27 Burnout Beyond the Workplace: Caregivers and Entrepreneurs
          • 00:50:05 The Values Bridge: Discovering Radius and Non-Sibi
          • 00:49:10 Rebuilding Your Life: Who Were You and Who Must You Become?
          • 01:00:28 The Overflow Principle: Pouring from Your Saucer
          • 01:03:51 Closing Wisdom: Burnout as Signal, Not Failure

            Whether you’re a founder, executive, healthcare professional, or ambitious entrepreneur, this episode provides actionable tools to support long-term resilience, nervous system regulation, and sustainable success.

            Follow Cait Donovan:
            Website: https://www.caitdonovan.com/
            Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/caitdonovanspeaks
            LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/caitdonovanspeaks/ 

            Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC):
            Website: https://thepathwechoose.com
            Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/
            LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/
            TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/

            Subscribe to TPWC for deeper conversations on burnout recovery, leadership psychology, workplace wellbeing, and personal growth.

            1 hr 5 min
          • Why You Don't Need a Gym to Stay Healthy | EP10 Clip

            What if the fear holding you back isn't telling you to stop—it's telling you to pay attention?

            In this clip of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with somatic practitioner and wellness expert Rochelle Rice for a deeply insightful conversation about intuition, fear, confidence, and the power of embodiment. This clip explores how our bodies hold the answers we're searching for—and why learning to listen to them is the key to emotional wellbeing, personal growth, and authentic confidence.

            Follow Rochelle Rice:

            Website: https://rochellerice.com
            LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rochellerice/

            Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC):

            Website: https://thepathwechoose.com
            Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/
            LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/
            TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/

            Subscribe to The Path We Choose for more authentic conversations about embodiment, confidence, nervous system regulation, and personal growth.

            12 min
          • The Body-Mind Connection Explained: Healing, Trauma & Emotional Wellbeing | Rochelle Rice

            In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with somatic practitioner and wellness expert Rochelle Rice to explore the powerful body–mind connection and how healing, trauma, and emotional wellbeing are deeply interconnected.

            This conversation dives into how unresolved trauma lives in the body, how emotional patterns shape our nervous system, and why true healing requires awareness of both the mind and the body. Rochelle shares practical insights on regulation, embodiment, and self-awareness that are especially relevant in today’s high-stress world.

            Designed for North American audiences, this episode will resonate with listeners who follow leading voices and podcast authors such as Brené Brown, Gabor Maté, Andrew Huberman, Jay Shetty, and Esther Perel. The discussion aligns with modern conversations around mental health, emotional intelligence, trauma healing, and holistic wellbeing.

            In this episode, you’ll learn:

            • What the body–mind connection really means

            • How trauma is stored in the body

            • The link between emotional wellbeing and physical health

            • Practical tools for nervous system regulation

            • Why embodiment is key to long-term healing

            • Chapters:

              Chapters
              • 00:00:00 Introduction: From Dancer to Somatic Wisdom Expert
              • 00:00:47 The Foundation of Dance: Medicine and Movement
              • 00:02:59 From Dance to Fitness: Working with Full-Figured Women
              • 00:08:42 The Eating Disorder Story: Never Thin Enough
              • 00:10:01 External Fixes: Food, Alcohol, and Marriage
              • 00:13:15 Listen, Learn, and Live: The Framework for Body Wisdom
              • 00:12:12 The Honesty Factor: Acknowledging Problems and Making Choices
              • 00:07:04 Disassociation in a Profit-Driven World
              • 00:20:44 Intuition vs Fear: The Inner Edge Framework
              • 00:34:36 The Breathe and Eat Program: Finding Your Center
              • 00:23:27 Posture and Confidence: The Instant Shift
              • 00:28:43 The ABCs of Movement: Beyond the Gym
              • 00:43:13 Resilience Through Flexibility: Regulating Your Nervous System
              • 00:51:05 Physical and Mental Strength: Working in Parallel
              • 00:56:06 Women in Leadership: The Baby Question and Career Balance
              • 01:01:24 Advice for the 18-Year-Old: Trust Yourself and Find the Right People
              • 01:04:25 Closing: The Most Important Relationship Is Within


                Whether you’re a wellness professional, therapist, coach, entrepreneur, or someone on a personal healing journey, this episode offers grounded, science-informed insights to help you reconnect with yourself and move toward emotional balance.

                Follow Rochelle Rice:

                Website: https://rochellerice.com
                LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rochellerice/ 

                Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC):

                Website: https://thepathwechoose.com
                Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/
                LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/
                TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/

                1 hr 5 min
              • The Confidence Exercise That Actually Works | EP09 Clip

                What if the difference between success and struggle isn't talent, intelligence, or opportunity—but something far more fundamental?

                In this powerful episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque dives deep into the psychology of confidence, communication, and self-awareness with an expert who has dedicated their career to helping people unlock their authentic voice and transform how they show up in the world.

                This conversation goes far beyond surface-level advice. It explores the hidden mechanics of confidence—how to build it, rebuild it when it's shaken, and why most people struggle to truly feel their accomplishments even when they achieve them. You'll discover why self-awareness is the ultimate superpower for success, how your internal mindset shapes your external communication, and the critical difference between being a great speaker and being someone who truly connects.

                Whether you're preparing for a big presentation, navigating self-doubt, or simply want to communicate with more authenticity and impact, this episode will shift how you think about confidence, feedback, and personal growth.

                What you'll learn in this episode:

                • The real meaning behind "I don't feel confident" and how to address it

                • The power of complement linking: how to emotionally connect to your achievements

                • Why feeling your accomplishments matters more than listing them

                • How to rebuild confidence after failure or setbacks

                • Why self-awareness is the hidden secret of success

                • How to become more self-aware through intentional reading and self-education

                • The distorted mindset trap: why your nerves don't reflect reality

                • The three-legged stool of clear communication: preparation, practice, and feedback

                • How to choose your support team wisely and get the right feedback

                • The difference between being a great speaker and truly connecting with your audience

                • How to avoid arrogance and communicate with genuine care

                • Why connection matters more than charisma in communication

                • This episode is for students preparing for interviews, professionals looking to communicate with more impact, leaders who want to inspire their teams, and anyone who's ever felt like their confidence doesn't match their potential.

                  Confidence isn't something you either have or don't have. It's something you build—one compliment, one achievement, one moment of self-awareness at a time.

                  Self-awareness is the superpower. Connection is the goal. And your voice—when you truly own it—can change everything.

                  Timestamps:

                  Follow Umer & TPWC:
                  Website: https://thepathwechoose.com
                  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/
                  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/
                  TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/

                  Subscribe to The Path We Choose for more authentic conversations about confidence, communication, self-awareness, and personal growth.

                  12 min
                • How to Build Unshakeable Confidence | Karol Ward | TPWC EP09

                  In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Karol Ward, TEDx speaker, author, and expert coach specializing in confidence, communication, and self-awareness.

                  Karol is best known for her powerful TEDx talk “Finding Your Voice”, where she explores how authentic self-expression can unlock personal and professional transformation. In this deeply insightful conversation, Karol shares her journey—from a childhood shaped by constant relocation and family challenges to becoming a performer, therapist, and coach helping people reconnect with their true selves.

                  This episode goes far beyond surface-level motivation. It dives into the psychology of confidence, the physical nature of emotion, and why self-awareness is the real foundation of success. Karol explains how our bodies store experiences, why silence feels uncomfortable, and how learning to truly connect can reshape everything from public speaking to leadership to personal relationships.

                  This conversation is packed with actionable insights for students, professionals, leaders, and creatives who want to communicate with clarity, build real confidence, and show up authentically in every area of life.

                  If you follow thought leaders like Brené Brown, Simon Sinek, or Mel Robbins, this episode is a must-listen. It’s not just about speaking better—it’s about understanding yourself, trusting your voice, and building meaningful connections.

                  Timestamps:

                  Chapters
                  • 00:00:00 Introduction: The Hidden Secret of Success
                  • 00:00:47 The Path of Connection: Growing Up Military
                  • 00:02:29 From Dysfunction to Discovery: The Journey to Psychology
                  • 00:05:36 Breaking the Myth: Confidence Is Not Static
                  • 00:07:55 Building the Foundation: The How Come Before the How To
                  • 00:12:19 The Confidence Crushers: Choosing Your Circle Wisely
                  • 00:15:20 Protected Time: The Power of Disconnecting
                  • 00:17:57 Compliment Linking: Feeling Your Accomplishments
                  • 00:34:41 Finding Your Inner Voice: Good Feelings, Bad Feelings
                  • 00:41:18 Chronic Worry vs Situational Worry: Understanding the Difference
                  • 00:30:30 Communication Under Pressure: The Power of the Pause
                  • 00:52:31 Boundaries and Energy: Slow Down to Speed Up
                  • 01:03:14 The Right People in Your Corner: Do the Work

                    What you’ll learn in this episode:

                    • Why self-awareness is the hidden key to success

                    • How confidence can be built (and rebuilt) over time

                    • The myth that you’re either confident or not

                    • How to stop freezing during public speaking or presentations

                    • The role of the body in communication and emotional expression

                    • How to use silence and pause as powerful tools

                    • Chronic worry vs. situational fear

                    • Setting boundaries without guilt

                    • The importance of choosing the right support system

                    • How to move from fear to confidence through body, mind, and spirit

                    • Whether you’re preparing for your first job interview, struggling to speak up at work, or leading a team and want to connect more deeply, this episode will shift how you think about confidence, communication, and yourself.

                      Self-awareness is the superpower. Connection is the path. And your voice—when you find it—can change everything.

                      Follow Karol Ward:
                      Website: https://karolward.com/
                      LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karolward/

                      Follow Umer & TPWC:
                      Website: https://thepathwechoose.com
                      Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/
                      LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/
                      TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/

                      Subscribe to The Path We Choose for more authentic conversations about identity, confidence, leadership, and personal growth.

                      1 hr 7 min
                    • The Hard Truth About Starting a Business | EP08 Clip

                      Is Your Product Really Enough to Succeed?

                      In this eye-opening clip from The Path We Choose podcast, Rohail Hasan Siddiqui breaks down a crucial lesson that most founders overlook: products don’t sell themselves.

                      The truth? No matter how amazing your product is, without the right sales strategy, storytelling, and human connection, you’ll be left in the dust. Find out why Rohail believes that relying solely on your product’s features is a recipe for failure, and what you should be doing instead.

                      Learn how to:

                      • Create a lasting connection with your audience

                      • Understand the power of sales beyond just the product

                      • Build a strong, value-driven business that thrives in any market

                      • Tune into the full episode to hear more insights from this conversation on building successful ventures, smart partnerships, and what it really takes to grow from the ground up.

                        12 min
                      • Pakistani Entrepreneur Builds a Global AI Business | Ahsan Mashkoor | TPWC EP08

                        In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Ahsan Mashkoor, the Pakistani entrepreneur who built WAI Industries, a global AI company, from scratch. From navigating challenges in starting a business with limited resources to innovating in the AI space, Ahsan shares his journey of resilience, leadership, and entrepreneurship.

                        This conversation is packed with actionable insights for aspiring entrepreneurs, business leaders, and innovators in North America who are looking to scale their ventures globally. Learn how to leverage the power of human capital, strategic decision-making, and mindset shifts to create lasting success.

                        If you follow top podcast authors like Gary Vaynerchuk, Tim Ferriss, Naval Ravikant, and Reid Hoffman, this episode is a must-listen. It’s not just about AI or business it’s about building meaningful connections, embracing failure, and staying committed to your vision.

                        What you’ll learn in this episode:

                        • How Ahsan built a global AI business from zero

                        • Key strategies for entrepreneurship & leadership

                        • Why mindset and resilience are more important than resources

                        • Lessons for North American entrepreneurs scaling globally

                        • The role of collaboration, networking, and human capital in growth

                        • Chapters:

                          Chapters
                          • 00:00:00 Introduction: Opportunity in Pakistan and the Genesis Journey
                          • 00:00:37 Choosing Your Path: Destiny and Doing Many Things
                          • 00:02:35 The Black Sheep: Growing Up in a High-Achieving Family
                          • 00:06:41 Father's Principles: Integrity Over Everything
                          • 00:09:06 Discovering ADHD as a Superpower
                          • 00:25:59 The Moment That Changed Everything: Mother's Shooting
                          • 00:24:17 From Corporate to Entrepreneur: The Genesis Layoff
                          • 00:27:09 The Standard Chartered Breakthrough: Competing with Giants
                          • 00:29:04 Money Is Not the Problem: Starting a Business
                          • 00:36:45 The Shift to AI: Seeing the Future Before It Arrived
                          • 00:43:35 Building What Others Can't: The Alara Operating System
                          • 00:51:21 The Power of Collaboration and Human Capital
                          • 00:51:49 Advice for the Young: Collaborate, Diversify, Don't Fear Failure
                          • 01:06:20 The Hardest Part: Faith, Persistence, and Impossible Problems
                          • 01:15:17 Starting from Zero: The Importance of Human Capital

                            Follow Ahsan Mashkoor:

                            • Website: https://wai.industries

                            • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ahsan-mashkoor/

                            • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ahsanmashkoor/

                            • Follow Umer & TPWC:

                              • Website: https://thepathwechoose.com

                              • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/

                              • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/

                              • TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/

                              • Subscribe to TPWC for more authentic conversations about entrepreneurship, AI innovation, leadership, and personal growth.

                                1 hr 22 min
                              • The Hidden Power of Body Language in Communication | EP07 Clip

                                What if the difference between getting hired and getting ignored isn't your resume—it's how you tell your story?

                                In this powerful continuation of the conversation with Rohail Hasan Siddiqui, founder of Master Orator and corporate communication coach, host Umer Farooque dives deeper into the non-verbal side of communication—the body language, facial expressions, and storytelling techniques that separate great speakers from forgettable ones.

                                This isn't about memorizing scripts or faking confidence. It's about understanding the psychology of the person listening to you—and using every tool at your disposal to make them feel heard, engaged, and connected.

                                Rohail breaks down the subtle but powerful signals we send without saying a word: where your eyes go, how your eyebrows move, what your phone placement says about respect, and why a poker face kills inspiration. He reveals why most job candidates fail before they even open their mouths—and how storytelling transforms a boring interview into a memorable conversation.

                                Whether you're preparing for a job interview, leading a team, or simply trying to connect better in everyday conversations, this episode will change the way you think about communication.

                                Key topics covered:

                                • Why body language is the most important part of communication

                                • The psychology of eye contact and what it signals to the listener

                                • The phone power move: why flipping your phone face-down changes everything

                                • How to make people feel heard through simple body language cues

                                • The role of facial expressions: why your eyebrows matter more than you think

                                • Breaking the poker face: how to show emotion and inspire others

                                • The two types of job candidates—and why both fail

                                • Using storytelling in interviews to reveal personality, not just qualifications

                                • The STAR method: embedding your story into every answer

                                • Why interviewers remember stories, not CVs

                                • Your words matter. But your presence matters more.

                                  Follow Rohail:


                                  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/master.orator/
                                  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rohail-hasan

                                  Follow Umer & The Path We Choose:


                                  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/
                                  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/
                                  TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/
                                  Website: https://thepathwechoose.com/

                                  The Path We Choose explores real conversations about identity, growth, purpose, and the choices that shape who we become. Subscribe for more long-form conversations and behind-the-scenes content.

                                  9 min

                                About The Path We Choose

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                                Exploring who we become through the path we choose.