The 4 O'Clock Pour

The Pour On..."That Wasn't Me... That was my Representative"


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In this pour, we're talking about representatives- you know, that version of yourself you present when dating someone new. 

But is showing up as your representative a red flag.. or just human? We're breaking down whether it's better to lay everything on the table from day one or whether some things should be revealed only when they're earned. 

We also get into the truth nobody likes to admit: sometimes when people change after six months, it's not because they were being fake-it's because the dynamic shifted. They got comfortable. The relationship shifted into real life. And comfort doesn't always mean deception.

Join us as we sip and spill on first impressions, emotional pacing, when to open up, and how to show up authentically without oversharing.

If you've ever wondered, "Was that their representative... or just their honeymoon phase?" - this pour is for you.

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