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Episode Summary

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00:00 Introduction to the Conversation

00:15 Discovering the Right Use of Power

03:02 Exploring the Wheel of Consent

04:35 The Practice and Impact of Receiving

06:32 Unpacking Giving and Receiving Dynamics

11:43 Personal Power and Responsibility

16:59 Navigating Role Power and Personal Power

23:46 The Interplay of Power and Responsibility

25:37 Exploring Power and Responsibility Dynamics

26:06 The Emotional Labor of Power Differentials

26:57 Consent and Power: Navigating Complexities

28:32 The Impact of Power Dynamics in Relationships

31:46 Misuse of Power: Underuse as a Form of Misuse

32:52 The Bystander Phenomenon and Collective Power

34:23 Spiritual Leadership and Power Vulnerabilities

37:23 Addressing Misuse of Power and Restorative Justice

43:39 Personal Power and the Wheel of Consent

48:03 Reparenting Through Experiential Learning

48:36 Closing Thoughts on Power Dynamics and Personal Growth

About Our Guest:

Betty Martin is the originator of the Wheel of Consent and co-founder of the School of Consent, where she has trained facilitators and educators around the world in consent, boundaries, and embodied communication. With a background in chiropractic care, body-mind integration, and intimacy coaching, she brings decades of experience in group facilitation, somatic practice, and peer-led learning. Betty now focuses on mentoring practitioners and contributing to professional trainings, continuing her lifelong work of helping people feel at home in their own skin.

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Understanding Power Dynamics with Mischa Byruck: Accountability and Transformation

In this episode of the Power Dynamic Podcast, Dr. Amanda Aguilera, executive director of the Right Use of Power Institute, converses with Mischa Byruck, a men's integrity coach. They explore the nuanced realms of power dynamics, accountability, and the role of power in personal and social contexts. Mischa shares insights from their professional experience in transforming power misuse into opportunities for growth and reflects on the intersectionality of power, sex, and harm. Tune in to understand how intentionality and awareness in power dynamics can reshape our relationships and societal structures.

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 Amiya Srinivasan: https://users.ox.ac.uk/~corp1468/Welcome.html

Evolve Men Website: https://www.evolve.men/

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Transformative Journeys: Navigating Power Dynamics with Spring Up Collective

In this inspiring episode from the Power Dynamic Podcast hosted by Dr. Amanda Aguilera, Stas and Leander from Spring Up Collective discuss their organization's journey. Spring Up focuses on transformative and restorative justice, equitable power navigation, and conflict resolution; cultivating a culture of consent & liberty for all. The discussion emphasizes the 2-3 year-long orientation process of becoming a full partner of the collective, internal practices mirroring external teachings, and extensive preparation of new members. Key themes include decentralization, mindfulness, generational perspectives on power, community empowerment, and integrating somatic practices. This episode highlights resources, personal stories, and the significance of collective responsibility in achieving societal transformation.

Leander (they/he), Stas (they/them), and shaïna (they/them) founded Spring Up in 2013-2014 to build a community of practice embodying consent and liberation within our relationships, creative practices, and daily lives. For 10 years, Spring Up has used fiction, art, role play, and community education to popularize the skills and frameworks necessary to be free together. We have grown into a collective of 12 creatives, care workers, liberatory educators, transformative justice practitioners, and an alumni community of over 1500 people.

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Spring Up hosts liberatory learning spaces through online classes at bluelight academy of the liberatory arts, print materials and curriculum, retreats, and coaching. We are a worker coop with 9 other members on the journey to co-ownership: Mara, Brianna, Gaya, rj, Thanh, Amanda, Kai, Juli, and Natasha. Our core values are Consent, Accountability, and Transformation. 

00:00 Welcome to the Power Dynamic Podcast

01:36 Introducing Lea and Stas from Spring Up

03:06 Founding and Evolution of Spring Up Collective

05:26 Training and Internal Practices

09:13 Navigating Power and Conflict

11:43 The Role of Structure in Decentralized Power

17:28 Mindfulness and Social Change

18:41 The Importance of Grief and Acceptance

20:52 Embracing Collective Responsibility

21:46 The Power of Group Transformation

24:14 Intentional Communities and Personal Growth

26:04 The Role of Collective Action in Personal Development

32:49 Navigating Leadership and Power Dynamics

35:48 Spring Up: Practicing Collective Liberation

41:50 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Fall 2024 Power Conscious Authentic Leadership: https://rightuseofpower.org/event/power-conscious-authentic-leadership-2/

In today’s episode, we got to converse with Jeff Couillard, currently the Board President of the Right Use of Power Institute and Co-CEO of the Ally Co. In our conversation, we delve into the nuanced complexities of power dynamics within professional settings. Jeff shares his journey into effectively understanding and utilizing power dynamics in various professional contexts, including addiction treatment programs, healthcare, leadership development, and more. He emphasizes the importance of the Right Use of Power™ and its impact on culture, leadership, and systemic change. Stemming from a need to address power structures within an addiction treatment center, Jeff delves into the meaningful integration of power dynamics understanding into leadership and organizational culture. By emphasizing the significance of collective power, the conversation discusses the challenges of misalignments between intention and impact, the paradox of power and accountability, and the necessity for a shift towards inclusive and participative decision-making in organizations. The dialogue further highlights the significance of deep listening and the responsibility of leaders to align actions with intended impacts. All this is to create a transformative potential of acknowledging and responsibly navigating power dynamics to foster environments of growth, collaboration, and equitable power distribution.

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Promo: Power-Conscious Authentic Leadership Program

https://rightuseofpower.org/leadership-series/

00:00 The Journey to Understanding Power Dynamics

00:41 Discovering the Language of Power in Addiction Treatment

03:08 Expanding the Power Conversation Beyond Addiction Treatment

05:11 Challenges and Resistance in Conversations About Power

07:17 Approaching Power Dynamics in Organizational Cultures

14:10 Navigating the Intention-Impact Gap in Leadership

19:59 Deep Listening and the Role of Power in Diversity and Inclusion

23:31 Exploring Power Dynamics and Organizational Change

24:03 The Role of Power in Healing and Growth

24:46 Systemic Power and Its Influence

27:05 Challenges in Consulting and Leadership Development

27:58 The Impact of Hyper-Individualized Approaches

31:00 Creating Sustainable Change in Organizations

35:32 The Importance of Collective Power and Accountability

42:57 Celebrating Success and Embracing Continuous Improvement

In this episode of the Power Dynamic Podcast, we have a conversation about power dynamics and personal development with Steve Vinay Gunther, an international Gestalt trainer with over 40 years of experience in Gestalt therapy and training. Vinay shares insights from his journey and studies in understanding the use of power within therapy, organizations, and personal development, sparked by his observations of power dynamics in the Gestalt community and his PhD research on middle managers' experiences with power. He delves into the complexities of power in relationships, the importance of self-awareness in wielding power ethically, and the intersection of personal and systemic power dynamics. The conversation also touches on Vinay’s concept of 'un-virtues' and the ethical considerations around the use of power, especially in therapeutic settings and leadership positions. Vinay’s reflections offer a nuanced exploration of how power operates across different domains and the role of self-awareness and ethical responsibility in its exercise.

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Welcome to the first episode of the Power Dynamic podcast! Our guest for this episode is Dr. Cedar Barstow. She is the Founder of the Right Use of Power Institute and the creator of the Right Use of Power™ approach, which is a dynamic, inspiring, and relational approach to the ethical use of power to promote well-being and right-relationship. 

After developing the approach for 35 years she is retiring and moving into a new role at the Institute. In this conversation we are discussing the origins and evolution of Right Use of Power, our conscious transfer of leadership and the challenges of succession planning. We also discuss some insights about the growth of Right Use of Power and the most important aspects of the next phase of curriculum development.

With this introduction of The Power Dynamic Podcast you'll learn about the host, the foundational ideas of Right Use of Power and what you can expect in this podcast series.