Parents and grandparents often want the same thing: what is best for the children they love. Yet differing expectations, unspoken boundaries, and the need to be right can turn that shared goal into family tension. In this episode of The Power of Family, Terry Willis speaks with grandparenting author and TEDx speaker Neil Taft about how grandparents can strengthen the whole family by honoring the parents of their grandchildren.

The conversation also explores intentional family communication, Neil's nearly 20-year tradition of writing a weekly Family Newsletter, and the importance of ensuring that young people feel seen, valued, and connected to a trusted adult.

Guest Bio Neil Taft is a grandparenting expert, great-great-grandfather, author of five books, keynote speaker, TEDx speaker, retired youth minister, and lifelong youth advocate. Through decades of intergenerational family work, he helps grandparents build stronger relationships by respecting parents, communicating intentionally, and ensuring that children feel seen, valued, and connected.

Key Insights / Takeaways

• Honor the parents of your grandchildren. Respect does not require complete agreement, but it does require recognizing that the parents are responsible for their children.
• Never challenge a parent in front of the children. Concerns and disagreements should be discussed privately rather than allowing children to witness adults undermining one another.
• Ask before advising or acting. Questions such as "What are we working on?" or "Would you like my opinion, or would you prefer that I listen?" communicate respect and prevent unnecessary conflict.
• Consider the price of being right. A single comment made from anger, pride, or the desire to win can damage family relationships for years.
• Connection requires attention and intention. Family bonds grow when people consistently notice, remember, communicate, and help one another feel seen and valued.

Chapters

00:00 The Biggest Mistake Grandparents Make

01:04 Meet Neil Taft and His Grandparenting Journey

07:38 Why Grandparents Must Honor the Parents

14:03 Letting Adult Children Build Their Own Families

19:18 How Parents and Grandparents Can Work Together

23:30 Offering Guidance Without Undermining Parents

26:14 The Cost of Needing to Be Right

33:41 Keeping an Extended Family Connected

38:46 What Children Need From Trusted Adults

40:50 The Most Important Family Tool: Pay Attention

Connect with Neil Taft

Website: https://goodtogreatgrandparenting.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goodtogreatgrandparenting/

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In this episode of The Power of Family, Terry Willis speaks with Roland Thompson about creating families and communities where people feel safe, heard, and accepted. They explore how listening without judgment, leading by example, and allowing young people to grow into who they are can strengthen relationships across generations.

Guest Bio

After high school, Roland joined the US Navy for 4 years during the Vietnam War and served 3 tours in Vietnam as a combat veteran.

He then received two AA degrees from Green River College and a Bachelor of Science degree in Accounting from Central Washington University.

He spent 40 years in the Financial Services field as a Financial Advisor primarily helping baby boomers in planning for their retirement and estate planning.

Roland is the Co-Creator and author of Grand Connect- A Guide for Grandparents and future Grandparents.

Currently he and his wife, Teri, have 45 grandchildren and 7 great-grandchildren.

KEY INSIGHTS/TAKEAWAYS

• You cannot force another person to change; you can change how you show up.
• Young people need guidance without judgment or control.
• Trust grows when adults listen and take interest in a young person's world.
• Children and grandchildren learn more from what adults model than from what they say.
• Grandparents can shape future generations through love, presence, and example.

Chapters

00:00 – Why Failure Is Part of Growth 00:58 – Welcome and Meet Roland Thompson 01:49 – Reconnecting Generations Through Family and Faith 04:20 – Grand Connect and "Fishing in Their Pond" 07:04 – Building Stronger Families and Communities 12:27 – Legacy, Ego, and Leading by Example 17:39 – The Power of Listening Without Judgment 22:44 – Meeting Grandchildren in Their World 29:11 – Changing Yourself Instead of Trying to Change Them 39:14 – Letting Young People Learn, Fail, and Grow 44:48 – The Unique Calling of Grandparents 45:45 – Grand Tracker, Grand Connect, and Practical Tools 48:29 – Creating Families Where Young People Feel Safe 50:01 – Final Reflections on Connection and Legacy

Connect with Roland Thompson

Website: https://www.grandconnect.com/

Explore the GrandTracker App: https://www.grandconnect.com/grandtracker

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What happens when becoming a grandfather changes not only your role in the family, but your understanding of leadership, legacy, and love? In this episode of The Power of Family, Terry Willis sits down with Greg Payne, host of The Cool Grandpa Podcast, for a thoughtful conversation about grandfatherhood, emotional connection, and the quiet influence grandfathers can have across generations.

Together, Terry and Greg explore what it means for grandparents to show up as coaches instead of managers, how to respect adult children even when parenting styles differ, and why legacy is about more than money or material things. Listen, subscribe, and share this episode with a father, grandfather, parent, or loved one who may need this conversation.

KEY INSIGHTS/TAKEAWAYS

1. Grandfathers can build legacy through emotional connection, unconditional love, support, and presence, not just through money or possessions.
2. Grandparents are most helpful when they act as coaches, not managers, especially when adult children or grandchildren are working through challenges.
3. Respect between grandparents and parents often means giving space, staying quiet when needed, and supporting parents as they find their own way.
4. Traditions do not have to be big or expensive; simple moments like sharing a joke, reading together, playing online, or creating regular touchpoints can build lasting memories.
5. Encouragement matters. Young parents need to hear that grandparents see the good they are doing and understand how hard parenting can be.

Guest Bio

Greg Payne is the host of the popular The Cool Grandpa Podcast, where he explores the evolving role of grandfathers in modern families through conversations with grandparents, authors, educators, and family experts. Through hundreds of interviews and solo episodes, Greg has become a respected voice in the movement to strengthen multigenerational relationships and encourage intentional grandfatherhood.

A first-time grandfather at age 48, Greg turned his personal journey into a mission to help men embrace grandfatherhood with purpose, humor, wisdom, and emotional connection. His work focuses on the influence grandfathers can have on family culture, mentoring, resilience, and legacy-building.

In addition to podcasting and writing, he has appeared in interviews and collaborations across digital media platforms, including JLJ Media, GRAND Magazine, Caring Grandparents, and other family-focused programs.

He is the author of the award-winning children's book My Grandpa's Grandpa and frequently speaks and writes about family relationships, emotional legacy, and the importance of strong multigenerational families. Greg lives in the Atlanta area with his wife Karen and proudly embraces his favorite title of all: Cool Grandpa.

Connect with Greg Payne

Website: http://www.cool-grandpa.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/greg-payne

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoolGrampaGreg

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thecoolgrandpapodcast

Chapters

00:00 Precap

00:46 Welcome to The Power of Family

01:58 Meet Greg Payne, The Cool Grandpa

04:11 Grandfatherhood, Leadership, and Legacy

07:18 What Emotionally Engaged Grandfathering Looks Like

10:20 Respecting Adult Children and Parenting Differences

13:11 Creating Traditions and Memories Across Generations

16:48 Values Gen X Grandparents Can Pass Down

20:44 The Mindset Shift Every Grandfather Needs

23:55 Mistakes Grandparents Make When Staying Connected

26:24 Using Technology to Deepen Relationships

29:21 Tools and Practices for Stronger Grandparent Relationships

32:27 How to Connect with Greg Payne

33:50 Final Reflection on Legacy and Family Connection

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Why do teens and young people sometimes shut down in family conversations? In this episode, Terry Willis talks with Coach D Williams about the emotional stakes behind youth silence, parent-child communication barriers, and the pressure young people may feel when opening up to adults. Learn how parents and grandparents can respond with curiosity, reduce judgment, and build the kind of trust and connection that helps young people feel safe enough to talk.

Takeaways:

1. Young people often open up where they feel nonjudgment and emotional safety.
2. Adults can build trust by listening, observing, and staying curious before correcting.
3. A parent or grandparent's title does not automatically create connection; emotional work does.
4. Breathing before responding helps adults model regulation in difficult moments.
5. Mental hygiene can become a daily family practice through stillness, affirmation, breathing, and intentional action.

Guest Bio:

Dominique Williams, better known as "Coach D," is an author, coach, business owner, and speaker. A Brooklyn native, Coach D began her career in youth development as a youth counselor and basketball coach. Her early work led her to rebrand her company Get Fit Fly Right from a basketball program into an education company providing mental health resources and programming to youth organizations. GFFR's focus evolved from athletic development to emotional development for youth and their leaders. The TAP Method for mental hygiene has been featured at Jr. NBA and NBA stages, in NYC schools, and continues to impact youth athletic programs across the US.

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www.getfitflyright.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getfitflyright

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GetFitFlyRight/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachdgetfitflyright/

Chapters

00:00 Precap: The Power of Connection

00:24 Introduction: Welcome to The Power of Family

01:44 Coach D's Journey into Youth Mental Health

05:29 Why Youth Stay Silent with Parents

10:02 Connection Before Guidance

14:36 Why Young People Open Up to Trusted Adults

21:58 Creating Safety Before Influence

27:46 How to Respond Without Reacting

32:20 What Youth Silence Really Means

35:43 Mental Hygiene for Families

42:13 Repairing Pressure and Building Trust

52:10 How to Connect with Coach D

55:18 Closing Reflection

This week, try asking one gentle question, then pause, breathe, and really listen before offering advice.

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Asking "How was school?" often feels natural, but it can lead to the same one-word answers: "fine," "good," or "nothing." In this episode, Terry Willis talks with Dr. Amber Johnson about better questions parents, grandparents, and caregivers can ask to help teens open up, build trust, and feel truly heard. Together, they explore how thoughtful family conversations can strengthen parent-teen relationships, support deeper communication, and build connection across generations.

Key Takeaways

• Teens pulling away can be part of normal development, but better communication still matters.
• Predictable questions often lead to predictable answers.
• Questions asked with judgment can shut teens down quickly.
• Grandparents can build connection through shared activities, not just conversations.
• When teens open up, adults should listen, validate, and avoid rushing to fix.

Guest Bio

Dr. Amber Johnson is the founder of Bright Threads Leadership Group, and a leadership and communications expert. Her passion is helping people strengthen relationships and work with more meaning and productivity, through better communication and especially better questions.

Subscribe to Amber's free weekly Substack newsletter, Better than Fine, to be a better leader, partner, and parent in under five minutes a week. https://amberajohnson.substack.com/

Find Amber's TEDx talk on YouTube or at https://www.brightthreadsleadership.com/better-than-fine

Follow Amber on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/amberajohnson/

Chapters

00:00 — Precap00:35 — Welcome to The Power of Family 01:25 — Meet Dr. Amber Johnson 02:27 — Why teen communication changes as kids grow 04:10 — Questions that shut teens down vs. open them up 05:41 — Better questions parents can ask right away 06:34 — Highs, lows, and daily conversation rituals 07:24 — Creative ways to stay connected with older teens 08:30 — Asking questions without judgment 10:04 — How grandparents can help teens feel safe and heard 12:40 — Building connection through doing things together 14:51 — "Where were you?" and the importance of time spent 16:43 — The role of grandparents: support, delight, and wisdom 21:07 — What to do when thoughtful questions get little response 23:21 — How parents should respond when teens open up 25:09 — Active listening and the "last three words" technique 26:20 — Teen estrangement, belonging, and uniqueness 28:45 — How better questions build trust and healing 31:28 — A powerful question families can start using 33:34 — Tools for better communication with your child 35:10 — How to connect with Dr. Amber Johnson 36:13 — Final encouragement and closing reflections

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In this Mother's Day special episode of The Power of Family podcast, Terry Willis sits down with Nijaah Howard, also known as The Single Mom's Coach, for a heartfelt conversation about the emotional labor many mothers and solo parents carry while raising sons. Together, they explore the quiet weight of worry, sacrifice, protection, and pressure that often goes unseen as mothers work to raise boys into healthy, respectful, purpose-driven men.

Listen in for an encouraging, honest, and deeply human conversation about motherhood, manhood, family healing, and why community still matters. If this episode speaks to you, subscribe, share it with another parent, and leave a review to help more families find these conversations.

Key Takeaways

• Mothers are not just raising boys, they are helping shape future men, fathers, leaders, and community members.
• Boys need direction, structure, emotional safety, accountability, and space to use their voice.
• Communication between mothers and sons grows stronger when parents listen more than they lecture.
• Self-care is not selfish; it is necessary for parents who want to pour healthy energy into their children.
• Community is an extension of parenting, and families need support systems that uplift rather than replace a parent's role.

Guest Bio

Nijaah Howard, also known as "The Single Moms' Coach" is a mental health practitioner, author, community leader, and the Founder & CEO of Young Men Strong, a nonprofit dedicated to educating, empowering, and engaging young and adult men through mentorship, emotional wellness, workforce development, and community-based programming.

With more than 20 years of experience in human services, counseling, youth development, and family support, Nijaah uses both her professional background and lived experience as a mother to help families build stronger communication, accountability, and emotional connection. Her work is rooted in the belief that "when we strengthen our boys and men, we stabilize our girls and women."

Chapters

00:00 — Precap: The Emotional Labor of Raising Boys 00:00 — Introduction to The Power of Family Podcast01:45 — Meet Nijah Howard, The Single Moms Coach 03:08 — Raising Sons as a Solo Parent 06:03 — Bringing Back the Village 11:35 — What Mothers Carry Unseen 17:04 — Helping Boys Grow Without Pressure 28:03 — Building Communication Between Mothers and Sons 31:24 — Encouragement for Mothers 32:36 — Tools for Mothers to Celebrate Themselves 36:05 — How to Connect with Nijah and Young Men Strong 37:54 — Closing Reflection: Keep Showing Up

Connect with Nijaah Howard

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nijaah.howard/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/nijaah.howard/ Tiktok: Mone' Luv

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Many families avoid the conversations that matter most. Money, inheritance, aging parents, family expectations, responsibility, regret, forgiveness, and legacy often sit quietly in the background until a crisis forces them into the open. Parents and grandparents wonder what they should leave behind. Adult children may carry questions they are afraid to ask. Younger generations are growing up in a world of social media shortcuts, financial confusion, and constant distraction, while families quietly lose traditions, shared time, and honest communication.

In this episode of The Power of Family podcast, Terry Willis sits down with Brian Pultro, Navy Commander, financial planner, behavioral financial advisor, husband, and father, for a deeply grounded conversation about what legacy really means. Together, they move beyond bank accounts and inheritance to explore the values, discipline, memories, emotional patterns, and everyday choices that shape a family for generations. Brian shares how military service, fatherhood, financial planning, and time away from family changed the way he thinks about presence, money, sacrifice, and responsibility.

This episode is for parents, grandparents, and families who want to build a legacy that lasts far beyond money. Listen or watch as Terry and Brian invite you to begin the conversations now, about family, finances, values, healing, and what your loved ones will remember because of the way you lived.

Key takeaways

• Why legacy is about more than money or inheritance
• How family traditions strengthen connection across generations
• Why money conversations can feel difficult, emotional, or avoided
• How financial fear and behavior patterns get passed down
• Ways to teach children and grandchildren about money, work, and responsibility
• Why presence, time, and discipline shape what families remember
• How families can begin honest conversations about values, forgiveness, and the futur

Guest Bio

Brian Pultro is a United States Navy officer, financial planner, and behavioral financial advisor whose work is rooted in service, leadership, education, and family. A graduate of Auburn University and Villanova University, Brian served ten years on active duty in the Navy, deployed to the Persian Gulf and Southeast Asia, and later taught Naval Science at Villanova University.

Today, Brian serves in the Navy Reserve and works with families through Pultro Financial Management. With certifications as an Accredited Investment Fiduciary, Behavioral Financial Advisor, and Registered Financial Consultant, he brings a thoughtful perspective on money, legacy, responsibility, and the values families pass from one generation to the next.

Chapters

00:00 – Precap: Be careful who teaches you about money

00:39 – Introduction: Legacy is more than money

02:30 – Should parents leave an inheritance?

07:33 – What does legacy mean beyond money?

08:50 – What do families pass down emotionally?

13:00 – What money patterns get passed from generation to generation?

17:30 – Why are money conversations so hard for families?

20:10 – How can families break unhealthy money cycles?

25:10 – How military service changed Brian's view of time and presence

27:50 – Is it ever too late to repair or reconnect?

30:10 – What conversations should families have now?

33:20 – What Brian hopes his sons remember

35:15 – Final advice: Turn down the fear and noise

37:58 – Closing reflection: Keep building a legacy beyond money

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brian-pultro/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BrianPultroPFM

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In this episode of The Power of Family podcast, host Terry Willis talks with Ashley Noelle, creator of Blended Bond, about how families can communicate without reigniting old conflict. Together, they explore why everyday conversations can quickly become tense, especially when past hurts, emotional triggers, tone, parenting differences, co-parenting dynamics, and blended family challenges are involved.

Ashley shares practical insight on neutral communication, rebuilding trust after conflict, and creating space for honest conversations between adults, children, co-parents, and even grandparents. This conversation reminds families that conflict does not always mean failure. Sometimes, it is an invitation to slow down, become more vulnerable, take accountability, and repair what has been strained. Whether you are part of a blended family, raising children, supporting grandchildren, or simply trying to communicate with more care, this episode offers a compassionate look at how families can grow through difficult conversations.

Listen in, reflect with your family, and share this episode with someone who believes in stronger communication, healing, and connection across generations.

Key Takeaways

• Conflict is often not just about the current situation, but about past experiences, triggers, and emotional history.
• Neutral communication means approaching the problem together instead of turning against each other.
• Repair after conflict requires honesty, vulnerability, accountability, and sometimes space to cool down.
• Blended families benefit when adults work together, set guidelines, and avoid letting conflict spill onto the children.
• Family growth often begins with uncomfortable but honest questions, check-ins, and conversations.

Guest Bio

Ashley Noelle is the founder of Blended Bond, a conversation-based tool designed to help blended families, coparents, and single-parent households build stronger connections through meaningful dialogue. Rooted in her own lived experience within a blended family, Ashley created Blended Bond to support families navigating complex dynamics, transitions, and emotional barriers.

With a background in coparenting coaching and a deep understanding of modern family structures, Ashley now focuses on creating tangible resources that help families communicate, connect, and feel less alone in the process.

Chapters

01:00 — Introduction

01:50 — Ashley's work and the story behind Blended Bond

02:53 — What family conflict really means

04:45 — What neutral communication sounds like

08:30 — Why tone, words, and reactions escalate conflict

10:00 — Communication challenges when children are impacted

11:20 — What to do when conflict falls apart

14:30 — Repairing conflict and rebuilding trust

16:00 — When therapy or outside support may help

18:40 — First steps toward a healthier conversation

19:45 — The role of grandparents in co-parenting and blended families

26:00 — How Blended Bond supports families and a special discount code

28:50 — Closing thoughts on family, communication, and community

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What if the distance in your family isn't about love, but about the conversations that never happened?

In this deeply reflective episode, Terry Willis sits down with Neil Taylor to explore why families drift apart and how simple, intentional conversations can bring them back together. After losing his father and becoming a parent just days later, Neil realized something many families quietly carry: the fear of losing not just a loved one, but their story.

Together, they unpack the real barriers families face, busy lives, generational gaps, distance, and the unspoken assumption that "we'll talk about it later." But later doesn't always come. From siblings who reconnect after years apart to grandparents longing to be known beyond their role, this conversation gently reveals what's often left unsaid and why it matters.

You'll hear practical ways to create space, ask meaningful questions, and listen with empathy even if it doesn't feel natural at first.

If you've ever thought, "I wish I had asked," this episode is your invitation to start now.

Listen, reflect, and share this with someone you love.

Key Takeaways:

• Creating intentional "space" is the first step to meaningful family connection
• Listening with empathy (not interrupting or assuming) transforms relationships
• Family members often have very different experiences of the same childhood
• Simple practices (like scheduled calls or shared projects) can bridge distance
• One powerful question—"What makes a good life?"—can guide generations

Guest Bio:

Neil Taylor's dad Patrick died in March 2021. 6 days later, his son was born. His middle name - Patrick.

In the stillness between losing one and holding the other, he realised it would be up to him to communicate his dad's essence to the people who'd never meet him, and that other families were carrying the same quiet fear.

So he built Me & My Old Man: a 12-week experience that makes sure no family loses their loved one as well as their story. Guided conversations that bring families closer. The moments we miss. The questions we never ask. Our parents stories, in their voice, forever.

32 families. 6 countries. 350+ hours recorded. Featured on BBC Radio and the Parenting Hell podcast.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Chapters:

00:00 The Journey Begins: A Personal Story

02:06 Bridging Generational Gaps

04:56 Creating Space for Connection

06:25 Unintended Consequences of Conversations

08:27 The Unsaid Words: Understanding Each Other

12:11 The Drift: Why Families Grow Apart

16:54 Maintaining Connections Across Generations

21:19 Practical Steps to Stay Connected

26:34 The Unspoken Wishes of Grandparents

27:00 Confronting the Inevitable: The Role of Death

28:30 Understanding Mortality and Family Connections

29:12 Lessons from Our Parents: What We Wish We Knew

30:16 The Impact of Life Experiences on Parenting

32:07 The Intergenerational Influence of Family Stories

34:11 Creating Space for Family Conversations

35:54 Tools for Family Connection

37:39 Engaging Reluctant Parents in Conversation

40:00 Surprising Insights from Family Interviews

44:12 Essential Conversations Every Family Should Have

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Money touches every family but it's often the one thing we don't talk about.

In this episode, Terry Willis sits down with money expert Shari Rash to explore how our earliest experiences with money quietly shape the way we think, feel, and act, not just as individuals, but across generations. From childhood phrases like "we can't afford that" to unspoken tension around finances, families often pass down emotional patterns without even realizing it.

Shari shares how avoiding money conversations can leave children unprepared for real life and how small, everyday moments can become powerful teaching opportunities. This isn't about lectures or perfection. It's about shifting language, creating awareness, and helping children build a healthier, more neutral relationship with money.

If you've ever felt uncomfortable talking about finances, or wondered how to better prepare your children or grandchildren, this conversation offers simple, practical ways to start.

Listen in and maybe begin a new kind of conversation in your family today.

Takeaways

Children absorb emotional money patterns from what is said and unsaid at home Small language shifts (like reframing "we can't afford it") can change long-term beliefs Teaching money doesn't require formal lessons, daily moments are enough Giving kids autonomy with money builds decision-making and responsibility A healthy goal is moving from emotional reactions to a neutral, practical view of money

Guest Bio

Shari Rash is a money expert, author, and host of the New York Times Top 4 podcast Everyone's Talkin' Money, with over 24 million downloads worldwide. With more than 17 years of experience in the financial services industry, Shari is known for making money conversations approachable, relatable, and even enjoyable.

Often called the "Best Financial Friend," Shari delivers real, no-nonsense guidance that helps people understand their relationship with money, break free from limiting beliefs, and build unapologetic wealth on their own terms. She is the author of Insider's Secrets About Women and Money and was named one of Investment News' Best Wealth Managers and Advisors Under 40 in 2024.

Through her work, Shari empowers individuals and families to rethink how they talk about money turning what is often a source of stress into a tool for confidence, clarity, and long-term well-being.

Chapters

00:00 Precap

00:57 Welcome & Introduction

01:50 Making Finance Fun: A New Approach to Money Conversations

02:16 Emotional Legacies: How Family Influences Money Mindsets

05:23 Teaching Kids About Money: Simple Strategies for Families

10:45 Navigating Generational Differences: Parents vs. Grandparents on Spending

13:45 Rewriting Financial Narratives: Steps to Overcome Unhealthy Beliefs

19:25 Breaking the Taboo: Tools for Open Money Conversations

24:00 Investing Early: Teaching Kids the Value of Money

28:01 A Neutral Relationship with Money: Goals for the Next Generation

29:41 Navigating Technical Challenges in Recording

29:54 Connecting with Shari Rash: Insights on Money Management

30:46 Promoting Financial Literacy through Community Engagement

31:04 Concluding Thoughts and Next Steps

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